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Being Comfortable In The
Situation You Are In
Being confident and finding it easy to speak to women that you
approach is easy if you feel comfortable with the situation that you
are in.
Walking over and speaking to a girl is one thing but what you also
need to remember that most of the times you are walking over and
speaking to a complete stranger. You have never spoke to this person
before and have had very little or no contact with her either.
This makes it harder to feel relaxed, it creates the negative feelings
of thinking whether she will like you or not.
As we know being nervous and unconfident is a turn off to women. You
need to learn to feel comfortable and relaxed in this situations. This
will in turn portray confidence.
There is a simple way to solve this problem. Learn to adjust and get
used to speaking to people you have never spoke to before.
In effect say hello to strangers more. Not just while your out dating
but in your every day life.
The strange thing is if you are out having a (example) coffee by
yourself and there is a girl at the place you are by herself I bet you
probably wouldn't go over and sit down beside her.
Yeah neither would I?
1) She may think your some odd ball
2) It would feel to strange just walking over and sitting beside a
girl you don't even know
This is what a lot of people think. It is wrong.
It is called meeting people, to meet new people means that you do not
know them. They are strangers.
Most people find it easier meeting new people in a group,
subconsciously they know they have the protection of the group of
people they are with. It is not direct one on one contact.
In dating you very rarely get this barrier, fail safe option. When you
meet and approach women you are usually on your own. If you are not
used to approaching strangers and speaking to them then you feel a
whole lot more nervous.
Give it a shot. For the next week, when you or out talk to people you
don't know. This can be passing by in the street and saying a quick
hello while passing or sitting beside someone when you are out
somewhere.
You may be thinking this won't help my dating. It will, the more you
adjust and easier you feel talking to people you have never met before
the more comfortable and less nervous you will feel approaching women.
It is like everything in life, get yourself used to any situation that
you are put in and it seems easier.
Dating is not about one thing that works. Dating involves many
different factors and situations.
Psychology plays a huge part in dating. It is not all about, when I
meet a girl I don't know what to say or I feel nervous around women.
The question you need to ask yourself is why this happens in these
situations.
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