By The Dating Gurus
Do you wish you could "hook up" with every drop dead gorgeous babe, that
you see everyday - you know the type that leaves you in a half dream
world like when you were a school kid?
Can you imagine having the confidence to approach, amaze and have these
"hot babes" begging to take YOUR phone number?
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Generating Attraction
One of the hardest parts of dating is learning to generate attraction.
Many women may be attracted towards you but may not feel attraction
for you.
Being attracted towards someone else is a spare of the moment
reaction.
Generating attraction can only be done through personality. Women
don't date men just because they are good looking if that is the case
the relationship won't last long. Attraction is an emotion that you
cause someone else to feel towards you.
Being attracted towards someone is mainly based on there physical
appearance. I am sure you have seen it before, hot looking girl with
an average looking guy.
Recent surveys have shown that when asked, What do you like most about
your girlfriend they would either say her legs, ass, breasts but when
women were asked the exact same question about their boyfriends they
would respond with personality.
Maybe when you approach a girl in club or mall, she may not feel
initially attracted towards you but that doesn't mean it will stay
like that. By using your personality you can create the more powerful
influence attraction. Most men get all nervous when making initial
contact with a girl, they have so many different thoughts running
through their head that they simply forget what to say.
I know I used to be the same myself.
Remember whatever self persona good or bad you hold of your self it
doesn't matter.
With most women it really is personality that counts ( unless she is
Anna Nicole Smith and decides to marry a dying 70 year old man for
love ah hem I'm sure ) :-)
When approaching a girl give yourself 3 minutes, don't chicken out and
walk of before then, no matter how bad it seems to be going.
When you approach a girl you have to remember that she was not
expecting that to happen. She isn't physic and she doesn't know that
in 2 minutes she has to stop talking to her friends or what ever it is
she is doing because some guy is going to come over and speak to her.
On a time scale lets say, 30 seconds before she begins to feel a bit
at ease. Another 30 seconds before she readjusts from what she was
previously doing, before listening to what you have to say.
The next minute before she forgets what she was previously doing,
dropping her barrier and deciding whether she is interested in you.
The minute after that whether you have said enough to her for her to
consider going out on date with you or considering talking to you
further.
It really does take over 60 seconds before you can get a girl to start
properly speaking to you.
I have been successfully dating for over 3 years now and there is no
way you can walk up to a girl and have her full attention in under 60
seconds.
You can get a quick pick up but that is dealt with in detail in my new
book " Ultimate Pick Up and Dating Guide ". If you want to get your
hands on a copy of this you will be given the chance at the end of
this newsletter.
For now let's continue:
After the initially 60 seconds it is a lot easier, she is mush more
likely to get involved in the conversation and respond to comments you
make. That what dating is about, getting girls to respond positively
to what are saying.
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