By The Dating Gurus
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world like when you were a school kid?
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The Inner Fear Of Dating
When it comes to approaching women, the concept seems quite simple and
easy to execute.
Think about it. You walk up to a woman, speak to her and get her
number.
Unfortunately it isn't as simple as that. All of the above points is
exactly what you need to do but as the old saying goes... "It isn't
what you do, it's how you do it".
The approach is probably the most basic part about dating yet so many
guys find it hard to do.
Usually when build up the courage to speak to her, your so nervous the
only words your brain can think of saying is "you look sexy tonight".
It is a pretty shitty situation to be in but it is part of dating.
Why do we care so much? What's the big deal? Being men we're suppose
to be more powerful and so forth but when it comes to talking to an
attractive girl we fall to pieces.
Why? Because you spend the entire time worrying about what she will
think of you?
So you get rejected! What's the big deal? I'm sure you have heard the
word no before. Spend less time worrying about the out come and just
approach any girl you want. Clear any thoughts in your mind that are
telling you I can't approach women.
If that means telling your self every day, that you are a god with
women then do it.
Do yourself a favour, do me a favour, go out and get rejected a few
times and get the nerves out of your system.
Rejection is not bad. Rejection is normal. Instead of looking at the
negatives from rejection, have a look at the positives. You approached
her she said no. You made the first step, the second step you made
sucked but at least you gave it a shot.
When it comes to dating far to many guys worry about what might
happen, what could happen instead of finding out what will happen.
No matter how many dating tips and advice newsletters, books, courses
you read and learn from your dating isn't going to get any better
unless you go out there and put it into play.
"I tried that technique once and didn't get me anywhere". Once!!!! Big
deal.
If you are only going to try a technique once and if it doesn't work
that once you are never going to try it again. Just stupid.
Look at baseball; some of the best averages would equal the play
hitting 3-4 out of every 10 chances at bat. That would be a great
average to finish a career on.
The point I am trying to make is: Dating is the same. It is all a big
numbers game.
Let's say you approach 20 girls, got rejected 16 times and got 4 phone
numbers. Would you be happy with that? Course you would you got 4
phone numbers, the other rejections won't even cross your mind.
Do me a favour, yourself a favour and don't give up on dating
technique because you tried it once and it didn't work.
Practice make perfect.
There is nothing I can say that will make you approach women. You have
to do it yourself.
The more you approach women, the easier it gets.
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