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The Inner Fear Of Dating

When it comes to approaching women, the concept seems quite simple and easy to execute.

Think about it. You walk up to a woman, speak to her and get her number.

Unfortunately it isn't as simple as that. All of the above points is exactly what you need to do but as the old saying goes... "It isn't what you do, it's how you do it".

The approach is probably the most basic part about dating yet so many guys find it hard to do.

Usually when build up the courage to speak to her, your so nervous the only words your brain can think of saying is "you look sexy tonight".

It is a pretty shitty situation to be in but it is part of dating.

Why do we care so much? What's the big deal? Being men we're suppose to be more powerful and so forth but when it comes to talking to an attractive girl we fall to pieces.

Why? Because you spend the entire time worrying about what she will think of you?

So you get rejected! What's the big deal? I'm sure you have heard the word no before. Spend less time worrying about the out come and just approach any girl you want. Clear any thoughts in your mind that are telling you I can't approach women.

If that means telling your self every day, that you are a god with women then do it.

Do yourself a favour, do me a favour, go out and get rejected a few times and get the nerves out of your system.

Rejection is not bad. Rejection is normal. Instead of looking at the negatives from rejection, have a look at the positives. You approached her she said no. You made the first step, the second step you made sucked but at least you gave it a shot.

When it comes to dating far to many guys worry about what might happen, what could happen instead of finding out what will happen.

No matter how many dating tips and advice newsletters, books, courses you read and learn from your dating isn't going to get any better unless you go out there and put it into play.

"I tried that technique once and didn't get me anywhere". Once!!!! Big deal.

If you are only going to try a technique once and if it doesn't work that once you are never going to try it again. Just stupid.

Look at baseball; some of the best averages would equal the play hitting 3-4 out of every 10 chances at bat. That would be a great average to finish a career on.

The point I am trying to make is: Dating is the same. It is all a big numbers game.

Let's say you approach 20 girls, got rejected 16 times and got 4 phone numbers. Would you be happy with that? Course you would you got 4 phone numbers, the other rejections won't even cross your mind.

Do me a favour, yourself a favour and don't give up on dating technique because you tried it once and it didn't work.

Practice make perfect.

There is nothing I can say that will make you approach women. You have to do it yourself.

The more you approach women, the easier it gets.

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Chris Fox
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