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Learn To Listen
When you walk up to a "random" woman and start speaking to her, while
she is speaking to you do you think about the response that you are
going to give as she talks?
Or do you listen?
If she is talking to you and your thinking about how you are going to
respond your not really listening to what she is saying, are you?
Your thoughts are busy thinking about the response.
The problem that most men have when they speak to women, is that they
concentrate on what to say next or how to reply to what she is saying
instead of listening, once she has finished speaking then you decide
what to say.
Use the techniques that you learned to help generate the response that
is going to make her take an interest in you. Learn to listen, the
more you listen the easier it's going to be to give a reply. A good
reply at that.
Look at it in a way of, every time you are speaking to a girl you are
trying to get as much information on her as possible.
She is saying how she got promoted, reply with how long have you
worked there? she replies then say, what are your weekly hours, she
replies pay well then?, she replies.
She talks about how she wants to go on holidays to such and such a
place, why do you want to go there, she replies, seems as good a
reason as any, have you been before?, she replies, how long are you
going for?, she replies, who are you going with?
It isn't that hard. Now what you have done is built up a mini
relationship between you and her. She speaks, you listen. At some
point she is going to ask about you. Take it on board that you have
already gathered up all this handy information on her. Now you have
quite a bit to work with.
You know about her job and were she wants to go on holidays. When you
start speaking, start incorporating what you already know about her
into the conversation, use humor, pick out some thing that she said,
expand on it, adding your own personal wee sub-plot and try to and
embarrass her.
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