Pickup Line Advice: Make Her Feel Attraction

It really does take over 60 seconds before you can get a girl to start properly speaking to you. I have been successfully dating for over 3 years now and there is no way you can walk up to a girl and have her full attention in under 60 seconds.

You can get a quick pick up but that is dealt with in detail in my new book " Ultimate Pick Up and Dating Guide ". If you want to get your hands on a copy of this you will be given the chance at the end of this article.

For now let's continue:
After the initially 60 seconds it is a lot easier, she is mush more likely to get involved in the conversation and respond to comments you make.

That what dating is about, getting girls to respond positively to what are saying.

What is are the best things to say in those 3 minutes, all the best in-depth stuff is in my new book but I will give you a good idea of the process you need to follow.
1) - Never allow a long dead silence. Even if you do not have a slight idea of what to say, just say or do something. Anything!
2) - Always ask or make open ended comments or questions. Say something that has to create a reaction. Statements are a no.

Example, Nice place in here ------- yeah it is quite nice that is a statement.

Open ended questions or comments 90% of the time begin with the words, What, When, How, Why and Where

By doing this you will cause her to respond and will be creating that reaction. The more you can get her to answer a question and the more she thinks you are interested in what she is trying to say the more chance you have of generating the attraction.

Women love the fact that they are being heard. "Someone is listening to what I have to say".

But that is the same for everyone.

The best way to do this is through eye contact, even allow yourself a small split second glimpse over her and then straight back to maintaining eye contact.

Try not to look like an axe murder but have more of a sexy kind of eye contact. If your unsure of what I mean then you are in a bad mood or angry at something, look in the mirror and see your own eyes.

You will notice an angry contact between you and the mirror :-) use the opposite eye contact of angry.

Learn to use your own voice to more effect. Speak slowly surly and more deeply. All women love a very slowly deep speaking voice. Women find this to be very sexy and very attractive. The valuable dating information that I am providing you with is only the tip of the ice berg. There is even more information, techniques, methods involved in generating attraction and picking up and dating women.

If you want to learn the top techniques and methods then make sure you grab a copy of my book " Ultimate Pick Up and Dating Guide " this will provide you with the dating information that you need to know.

"Think about this way this book will cost you the price of 2 cinema tickets!"

The choice is yours: miss a trip to the cinema and dramatically increase your dating or go to the cinema with your mates instead of an attractive date.

"It is up to you, I know what 99% of men find more important"

Till Next Time,

Chris Fox
Author of "The Ultimate Pick Up & Dating Guide"
http://1st-pick-up-line.com

© 2004 Chris Fox

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