In relationships ladies
mainly like to be shown who is boss whether they'll agree to that or
not is a different matter.
:-)
If your to busy trying to make them like you and showing them how
caring you are they tend to lose interest. No matter what any lady
says they don't like being the boss of the relationship all the time.
The problem is that males find it hard to adjust to being around
female company. They tend to tighten up and think more about what they
shouldn't say rather than what they should.
It's just a matter of really saying what you want, don't watch what
you say cause that's usually what causes the "memory blank".
The thing when talking to a women is that usually within the first 2
minutes of meeting her she will decide whether or not she is going to
talk to you.
The main thing is to walk over say hello, ask her name, and then the
mistake usually follows after when men immediately give her
compliments and suck up to them.
This doesn't work, Why? Cause most women are used to this sort of
approach and will just think your the same as every other guy.
Straight after the initial meeting gain eye contact, give a grin and
then look away.
The reason why is, body language plays a big part in talking to a
women. Talk naturally, don't worry about what you should or shouldn't
say and don't fall into the trap of feeling nervous around her or even
intimidated.
After a few minutes of talking to her, tell her you better get back to
your friends now, go to turn and walk away, then ask her "Do you have
a phone number", if she responds with a yes, take out a pen to write
it down or if you have a mobile phone enter her number into that. This
is one of the most common techniques and it very rarely fails.
She will be surprised by this as she is used to men chatting her up
all the time and giving her a constant never ending supply of
compliments.
What you have done now is intrigued her and she is more than likely to
meet up with you again.
Don't make the mistake of contacting her the next day, maybe wait a
day or two. It's not that your playing hard to get, your just not
making the same error that every other man has made.
90% of the time men are not shy they are just to worried about saying
what there thinking as they think it will be an immediate rejection.
When your comfortable around women, you say what you think and at the
end of the day if your rejected cause she isn't able to listen to what
you have say...... Does it really Matter?
A lot of the time as well is when a woman is speaking to you and you
don't agree with what she has said you nod your head and agree anyway.
This is wrong! If you don't think she is right tell her, this helps
portray your confidence to her.
Let's her know that she isn't fully in control.
The truth of the matter is if your in a conversation with someone and
90% of time there response is a nod of the head or maybe "Yes", what
is going to happen, that's right your going to get bored and lose
interest
very quickly.
Remember if you disagree, shake your head, give a cheeky grin and then
say what you think. Even if you sort of agree with what she has to say
just disagree sometimes anyway. Most women you talk to will probably
not be used to a conversation not going all her way.;-)
Don't be scared to show off your confidence. For some reason men have
an inner fear of doing this.
Women find confidence more attractive than looks. It is that simple.
Ask any girl and she will tell you. Women are drawn to confidence.
Confidence creates attraction. Attraction creates a sexual emotion.
When you approach a girl it is not about having this big long
conversation about all the news of the day.
Guys have set in their head that when you approach a girl you have to
talk to her for a long time before you can get her number.
That is not the case.
One: A girl will be less likely to go into a full conversation with
you in a bar or mall or where ever
you may be.
Two: Why? The situation does not call for it, she could be with her
friends, she could be in a rush, she could be busy.
Three: When you approach a girl throw the theory away that says you
have to sit and talk to her for hours.
Four: Intrigue her, get her number and then meet her. You will then
both have each others full attention.
Five: Always go somewhere fun on a first date. Go to the Mall, the
beach, a theme park. Somewhere with a good fun atmosphere.
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