And who's responsibility is it?
There isn't one answer to these questions but there is a set of steps that can happen, actions from both of you, that make you feel safe and loved again.
One such action is often called "make-up sex" but that's a crude description of an intimate sharing between two people that allows us to give and receive so completely that the real healing that comes from acceptance starts.
We fight because of differences, we accept because we love each other.
We heal as we depend on each other for strength.
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