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Ask RGDear RG,
Ok, I have a big problem. We moved to the country from a big city, and we’re buying a house via lease to purchase from a friend of my aunt’s.

We have had no problems until a new neighbor moved in across the street about 5 yrs. ago. They’re an older couple, and retired.

Apparently they think we live on a golf course, because they have complained about everything we do from the way we park our cars, to the way we color our hair.

I have 4 grown children, ranging from 19 to 30. For lack of space I won’t elaborate on why my children for one reason or another need to move home for awhile.

My husband and I have 2 vehicles and of course all my children do also. Plus the youth leader at our church comes over and hangs out, and usually comes with 2 other couples. They’re all very upstanding young people. Not perfect, but really good.

We have an outside fire pit, and they come out and sit by it, and laugh and enjoy life. Not too loud, and not even drinking. My neighbor has called the police because they were too loud, but first came down and threatened them. They would have quieted down had he been respectful, but he was way out of line.

He’s called the police on my son for riding his 4-wheeler in our own yard, during the day, for less than 30 minutes.

He has called 4 or 5 times. The cops won’t even come out for his calls anymore, so now he has decided to complain endlessly to the village trustees.

I went to a board meeting last month for the first time, and got the embarrassment of my life. His wife stood up and started complaining that in a one block area, that we have 6 “derelict” cars, dogs running free, lumber, cans, a washer and dryer in the yard, and a bunch of other stuff I don’t remember, because by the time she said washer and dryer, I knew it was about my yard.

At first I thought I would just pretend I didn’t know who she was talking about, then it started making me so mad, I said, “I suppose you’re talking about my yard?” Then the fight was on. I said, for one thing, there are 6 people living in my house, and none of the car’s are “derelict” , then she wanted to know if my dogs were vaccinated and I told her yes, she wanted to know if they were tagged, and I said no. We buy our shots at the MFA for $4.75, as opposed to $60.00 at our local vet.

We actually are the only family in this fairly good sized “village” that even has a fenced in yard. Everybody else’s dog’s go free. It’s the country. We’ve had at least 8 different dogs dumped in our yard, that people didn’t want. You have to pay to take them to shelter’s, so by the time we try to find homes, we’ve become attached.

But then there’s the disappearance of several of our dogs. Word is, our neighbor is shooting them.

As for the lumber and the cans, yeah they just happened to be out there in the burn pit for 3 days, because the burn ban was on, and the cans my husband burns, but then buries them.

My mother had just given me a washer and dryer, and we hadn’t had time to move them into our shed. I’m talking a day and a half. I guess they have no life, and think we’re white trash or something.

I was a professional for 30 yrs in the aircraft business, and won many prestigious awards. Who cares now, my body is in chronic pain, and I’m on disability, and my husband is in the latter stages of Hep C, and is dying.

We can neither afford, nor do we have the physical capabilities to landscape our house and mow every day, and whatever else he thinks we should be doing or not doing.

He sits out on his back porch and watches everything we do.

Recently we received a letter from the Board of Trustees that if they receive any more complaints about us, they will have to start fining us $100.00, and if the fines become numerous, they will file a complaint with our county assessor to put a lien on our property under the owner that we’re buying our house from.

They sent a copy to the owner, and her son called and said one more complaint and we’re out.

We have never hurt anyone in our life. We have helped anyone who needed help, and now we have this whiney neighbor, and now our very home is being threatened? No way, this is war!

I’m disabled, and we have rights.

I hate to pull that card, but I’m not going to have my family thrown out on the streets, because of one miserable couple.

We have not broken any laws. I’ve never had to worry about this before, and I was looking on the internet, and that is how I came across your web site, which by the way is awesome.

Can you give me any ideas how to keep my home, and get rid of the neighbor? They are trying to sell their home for $250,000.00. We do live close to the lake, but they’re crazy if they think they’ll get that much for their house. They think they are so special.

I hope this all makes sense. I have adult ADD, and get distracted easily, lol. Please Help
Tormented By Neighbors

RG's AnswerHi Tormented,
You need legal help.
Not only to counter-attack these assess but to also go over the tenant covenant and agreement to purchase you must have signed on the house you’re currently in.

Also to understand better the Board of Trustees rules and regulations better. This is the most important document.

And a video camera is the most important witness you’ll need.

Start right now and document everything that has happened so far. Eyewitnesses, letters, emails, conversations, etc. Everything.

Use your phone’s voice recorder to record conversations. Use a video camera and do a walk-around your house every day to show it’s “very clean state” for when you’ll need this in court.

I can see into the future and you’ll be suing the Board of trustees for exceeding their authority, you’ll be suing the neighbors across the street (get those old police reports for every call, even if it costs you $100.00 each and talk to the police officers involved in each call, as much as possible). And finally you’ll be suing the people that won’t sell you the house for discrimination and cancelling the deal for no valid reason (your lawyer will word it better).

You’re going to be busy so get started ASAP.

Keep your act as clean as possible from this point forward and get a lawyer. I’d sue first the neighbors across the street for harassment once you have all of the police reports in hand. At the very least get a protection order that keeps them off of your property. This will go very far in later battles, trust me.

Best wishes, RG

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