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Dear RG,
You seem like a level-headed person--which I need right now.
My husband had a two-year on-and-off affair with a woman he met at a
religious center. I outed him three times by breaking into their emails,
etc.
He finally broke it off entirely. I've continued to audit her
email to make sure there's nothing going on, and there doesn't
appear to be, but she continues to entice men both married and
single--to feed her ego problems.
This woman plays men like fools and always has two of three that
she's stringing along.
My immediate problem is that my husband has returned to the religious center--against my wishes, and I'm afraid the other woman will show up. He claims that she's the last person he'd want to see, but I still don't want her anywhere near him.
Do you have ideas of ways to keep her or him away from the center? I've tried to think up a variety of ideas, including asking someone to send my husband an anonymous email saying that there were rumors circulating at the center about the affair. He'd be so embarrassed that he'd never go back.
However, I have no one I feel right asking to do this.
I also anonymously emailed a member of the center and asked if
she'd agree to report back if she saw any interaction between the
two of them. She refused.
So, do you have any ideas????
Thanks.
Cindy-Lee
Hi
Cindy-Lee,
You must be very forgiving of your husband. Personally I would have
taken one of his thumbs as payment.
As far as getting someone to check up on them by asking 'anonymously', well that never works. I suggest one of two things:
1. Talk to someone in person to watch what's going on, someone you can trust. The worse that can happen is you put your husband and this tramp on alert that you are watching.
2. Start going to the religious center with him. Stop lurking in the shadows.
If you still feel that you can't trust him (and who's blame you?) kick him out once and for all. Never live with distrust in your heart... take the bull by the horns and all that crap.
You don't need to go after this woman, she's digging her own grave. Of course, sharing some straight words with the clergy, now there's a great idea. They should be made aware of this "wolf in sheep's clothing" if indeed that is what your husband is.
You have to remember, that church-going people tend to be very
trusting, and fraudsters and cheaters like that type of victim...
even if the other lady isn't consenting to more than prayer, you
husband sounds like he has other things on his mind.
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