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Revenge For The Breakup Drama

Dear RG,
About a year ago, my closest friend and roommate began to date a fantastic and hilarious guy! It's rare that I find someone with as ridiculous as a sense of humor as I, so I was very excited about this new addition. We began to hang out with some of his friends on occasion and I found myself having the same witty repertoire with his closest friend, lets call him Jed. Jed, however, was in the midst of a rocky relationship, lets call her Crazy. Every time Jed and I were in the same social scene, Crazy would show up, and I would here about how they "broke up! through the grape vine (this happened 5 or so times). She had a reputation for being high maintenance, in every sense of the word, and often ruined entire evenings for herself, her man, and everyone within a 10 foot radius. I eventually got tired of the story and stopped hanging out with the group all together. I am not going to lie like I didn't flirt, but I am flirt by nature and it was harmless fun. I was dating others and not looking for the drama!
Fast forward... eventually they do actually break up, and shortly afterwards Jed and I begin our flirtation once again! Before long, we are forced to admit that we do actually have an attraction to one another and begin a relationship of sort. I make it clear that I will not be a rebound, that I want to take things slow because of the sensitivity of the situation, and that I do not want to flaunt our affection. I also make it clear that I am apprehensive that the whole thing is a bad idea (which it was). He says that their relationship should have been over long ago and that its sad, but that he is over it. He makes her out to be kind of an immature pain. All his friends come out cheering that its finally over.
Anywho, Jed is persuasive, and before long I am neck deep in an intense romance. But Crazy will not leave me (or us) alone. She texts him all the time, she talks shit about me (clearly the slut) to anyone who will listen, she screams her hatred at all his friends who associate with me in the slightest, and she writes mean things about me by name online. At first, I feel sorry for her. The broken heart is a horrible thing. Eventually I get tired of it. It rules our relationship. Every time we're out, his phone will ring over and over. I find that I am obsessed with it. I begin to lose my cool!
Long story short, just when enough time has pasted where the harassment seems to be slowing down, she goes through a horrible family tragedy. He is there for her, 100 percent, as if a boyfriend, at her beck and call. I support this as best as I can because I care for him and appreciate that his is a caring guy, although I express my discomfort with it. I have been cheated on. Immediately, he begins to be distant and confused. So, after a month of waiting for things to get better, bending over backwards to do/ act in the appropriate manner, I break it off. I say I love him and want to be with him, but can't stand the drama anymore. I say that I hope he takes him to think about what he really wants. This breaks my heart.
Within two weeks, they are back together. There reunion is totally under the radar though. (I'd be embarrassed about that too)
I am humiliated and, to be honest, heart broken. I turned the other cheek through every single bit of the whole situation out of respect for him and our mutual friends. I have still walked away with class, so that our friends don't feel uncomfortable. But I am pissed... just livid. If you go back to the ex, I'm not even a rebound... I'm just a short hiatus.
Believe me, I know that I am better off. I am more than a few leagues up from Crazy, in looks, intelligence, maturity and general personality. (as one friend put it UPGRADE). But SERIOUSLY!!!!! I fell in love and then got pulled into a episode of Young and the Restless... and that shit is not fair. Now I have to maneuver social outings like its a covert operation and just pretend that my feelings aren't hurt. To review: my roommate is his best friends girlfriend. I hear about him and his life all the time. Its not out of sight, out of mind.
So how do I get revenge? Just wait and assume they are miserable?
-just call me drama
Hi drama,
Yes, that lying ass sure did put you through the wringer.
And you know he’s just going to pay and pay in his relationship with CRAZY. So I would feed on it.
You know he’s a flirt. You know he’ll likely cheat on her, and maybe even CRAZY will cheat on him.
I’d use that info to my advantage since they are always hanging out with your group of friends.
Introduce him to other women, have a guy friend of yours pass the word to other guys that CRAZY is easy when she’s had a few drinks.
Let the players play, so to speak.
And enjoy the entertainment and your complete revenge.
