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Dear RG,
I'll get straight to the point. I dated this guy for a brief period of time, about a year ago. He tells me he doesn't want to date me, but still wants to be friends. I said that was okay, and we agreed to see other people. (This guy had only one other friend, so I stayed his friend).
We go on being friend, for several months. About two months later, I entered into another relationship, which he was okay with, for awhile. About six months into the new relationship, my birthday comes up. My boyfriend had to work that day, so I asked if I could go hang out with my other friend. (my boyfriend was aware of our previous history, but understood that I still wanted to be friends with him.) He said it was okay, and that it didn't bother him. Well, about two hours before I was supposed to pick this guy up, he doesn't have a driver license, and asked if he could go out with some other girl. I told him it was okay. I wasn't upset, or anything. (My boyfriend actually showed up and surprised me with new video games. Lol)
Well, my friend keeps calling and texting telling me how he rather be with me that night, and I told him it was his decision, and it was his loss. That I was happier with the guy I'm dating now.
From this point on, the guy completely stopped talking to me. I wasn't to hurt, I have other friends. It does suck to lost a friend, but shit happens. So, I go on living my daily life, when one day the guy calls and says he really needs to talk to me. (Even though I had already planned on going on a double date that night, and had on of my friends with me) I came over to talk. Me and my girlfriend went over there, and he rushes out and was like "I can't believe you're doing this to me. I just can't be friends with you anymore. I've hacked your MySpace, I saw all your messages" I was immediately confused since I had stopped using MySpace months before. I just said, "I'm sorry?" and he told me to leave.
The next day I find that he's going around and telling everyone that we were having sex. He called my boyfriend while we were on the double date. (he had stolen it of my MySpace, from one of the messages around the time that me and my new boyfriend were still just starting to talk) and told him that I had been there earlier that day and had sex. My girlfriend who had been with me the entire time, told my boyfriend other wise.
Now the not-so-friend is claiming I'm sleeping with all sorts of other men, and that I'm a whore, and quotedly said "She enjoys attention and sex, and will do anything to get what she wants"
He's using information about my past that I had told him while we were close, and making it sound like certain events (I'm sure you can guess) were just me not wanting to be with a man before marriage. Which hurt me very deeply.
It's to the point now were several of my friends have began to question my integrity. It's affecting my boyfriend very deeply, he says it just bothers him that someone is doing this to me, and he can't understand why he can't just let us be together.
Honestly, I just tried to brush it all off until he claimed I had been sleeping with a few of my friends boyfriends and husbands. It's not fair that he should be messing with my friends relationships. (Not that he's fair that he's done it to me, it just crossed the line) Although I've only been with my new boyfriend for about 10 months, but I do care about him.
I really don't know what to do, I'm out for revenge. Every day I sit idle, he spreads nastier rumors, and messes with my friends lives.
Thanks - Maria
Hi Maria,
Yes, the guy is an ass… that’s what happens with vengeful people… it’s a great thing that you didn’t stay going out with him, he’s a control freak. And that is what you tell people that ask “He’s a control freak”.
While I would normally suggest getting a restraining order on him that would likely just add fuel to his fire.
So, what I suggest instead is you corner him like a rat trying to leave a sinking ship and you give him a good public yelling at… somewhere to deeply embarrass him.
There isn’t much sense in going about this privately, since he likes everything to be made public, do this.
Tell your friends before you go ahead with this plan, so they know what to expect when it happens. Tell them I told you to do this…
They should be on your side, if they are real true friends.
As a follow-up, use www.revengecall.com to call him up, with your voice changed, of course, and set the call display to private, and say to him:
“Hi, my name is XXX and I was told by a friend that you’re an interesting guy… meet me at XXX later today, we can have coffee and talk a while. I will be wearing XXX and I am described as (hair, eyes, build).”
Keeping him busy chasing ghosts will get him off your story for a while.
And change your passwords more often!
Best wishes, RG
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