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Dear RG,
Last year I was engaged to a guy who moved in with me.
At the time he moved in, I made it clear that I wasn't into the "co-habitation" if it was open-ended, I expected him to marry me. He professed his undying love, and promised that he would marry me. Then the months of wedding planning began -- my father paid for everything, and what he didn't pay for, I paid for.
My ex-fiance said that he wanted to "help", but never put a single penny into the planning (not to mention months and months of free rent, utilities, and access to my car, since he doesn't have one). My dad even paid for him to have a free cell phone!
Since his credit was already ruined at the time I met him, he couldn't get approved for a line to buy me an engagement ring. I opened an account in my name, and he said he would make the payments. (Ya....never happened.)
I paid for our honeymoon as a wedding gift to him, and made it clear that I expected him in return to save a pretty penny for my wedding gift (especially considering that I was covering so many of his bills), and he assured me that he was.
The night before the wedding, he told me that not only did he have no money for the rent (yet again), he also had no wedding gift for me. I was furious, and obviously the entire thing exploded into a big fight. We calmed down to where we could at least talk at a reasonable volume, he said he was going to spend the night at the best man's house, and that we were still on for the next day. I agreed.
He called a few hours later and said that he forgot his keys in the house and would I mind leaving them with my landlady the next day so that he could come in and get ready for the wedding. I was going to be spending the entire day at my parents' house with my bridesmaids getting ready, so I told him that's what I would do.
The next morning (the wedding day), he called me at about 8:30 am, when I was just arriving at my parents' house. He asked if I left the keys with the landlady, and I said yes, and we agreed that we'd see each other later at the wedding.
The ceremony was to begin at 5:00pm, and I got to the place at around 4:30. He wasn't there, and neither were any of his groomsmen. Neither was anyone on his side of the party.
Panicked, I sent my maid of honor to my apartment to find out what was going on, and she called to tell me that the place had basically been cleaned out.
After several valiums and some shots of vodka, I faced the crowd of 150+ people, some I hadn't seen in over a decade. Everyone was very nice and supportive, and it did turn out to be a pretty good party, but then I was faced with going on my honeymoon alone (which looked to me like a better alternative than going straight back to see my half-empty apartment).
I found out a few weeks later that this jerk actually moved 3 blocks from my home! Now I have to run into him at the bank, the grocery store, and I have to worry about what restaurants I enter (he's a food server, and I'm not sure where he's working).
My father and I have filed lawsuits against him in excess of $50,000 for the wedding expenses, unpaid rent/bills, and missing property, and so far it's been a slow process. Unfortunately, I know he doesn't have any real money, so it will be very difficult actually getting anything out of his pockets.
What I need is a way to really hurt him -- without risking prison. This is a scumbag with no remorse, no regrets and he really feels no responsibility for what he has done. I'm sure, given opportunity, he would do it again without hesitation, unless he fears that something might happen to him for his behavior. If at all possible, I'd love to get him to move far, far away....I'm REALLY tired of him being so close!
I really hope you can help!
Let's get him!
Hi,
The first thing I'd do is find out where he's working.
Call there and talk to the owner/manager anonymously that you're
calling from a local sex-offenders group, do they know so-and-so?
Let them run with that ball.
This can be done with where he lives, the places he frequents... you name it, if he's been there he should be afraid to return there again.
If you can maintain this over a series of weeks/months, he'll just
HAVE to move far, far away...
Right?
Get him!
Best wishes,
RG
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