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Dear RG,
My husband and I have been married for 4 years, he has the majority of the
custody of his 2 girls.
He divorced his ex almost 10 years ago because she was cheating on him and is now married to the guy she cheated on my husband with.
I have never had a conversation with his ex and have never had anything against her. In the 4 yrs we've been married she's told the 2 girls to call me the nanny, that they don't have to listen to me, when they are with her and we see them she tells them not to talk to me.
She refuses to pay her half of braces, cheer leading expenses etc. She worked at a lab and I had to have surgery and found out that she told people about my surgery, she saw my samples come through.
I was very upset and called her office, they did an investigation and found other things she had done as well. She ended up getting fired and told the girls it was my fault etc and now they both hate me and told me they don't want me to be any kind of a mother figure to them ever again.
These are the same girls that just months ago were telling me they loved me etc.
I'm so sick of this woman making it her life's mission to hurt and
ruin my life. I don't know what to do or where to turn. Please help!
Signed: Stressed Step mom
Hi
Stressed Step Mom,
I have to say, first off, I've heard all this before.
The miserable ex tries to turn the kids against the new mom, whether
vengeful, spiteful or just plain mean.
Dad, forever making things up to his kids, stands aside and lets the chips land where they may.
OK, that being said, these kids have to be in their teens, by my calculations, so if they want to follow their mother's advice then tell "hubbie" to keep them out of the house until they learn some respect.
You don't care about the ex, and fair enough she's not trying to win your approval... but she's the one throwing the kids into the battle and you've got a husband that has to stand up for you, and let the kids know what's what.
You want revenge on the ex? Really?
What you really want is a husband that will stand up for you, and make a point of telling the kids, a hundred times if necessary, that you have provided for them, you love them, and they should not be swayed by someone with a mean intent, even if that person is their mom.
Yes, she's been truly evil. But you know what? She's paying for her mistake every waking day and that's why she's so evil, destroying her own children's relationship with you for her own selfish ends.
I would offer you some revenge advice but what you have is the worst you could ever do to her. You have honesty. You have family. You "have" while she "has not" and nothing I or you could do would make her pitiful life any worse. Not in the larger sense of things.
The kids will learn, one way or the other, that you are not the bad person here.
You will stand to be ready for a battle that is truly needing to be fought. And when that comes, day or night, you email me again, I'll be here.
Best wishes, RG
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