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Revolutionary Sex
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Let me give you a
warning in advance about the material in this article,
I am NOT responsible if your neighbors complain about the noise you'll be
making with her.
Article
by Alex Allman, author "Revolutionary Sex"
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"Sure, there are plenty
more than 3 spots on a woman's body that are sexually arousing...
What you might not know is that, unlike men, it is not difficult to give a
woman an orgasm from stimulating these non-genital erogenous zones.
In this article I'm going to give you 3 erotic hot-spots that are
extremely powerful, and a few tips on how to use them to drive your
woman absolutely crazy in bed." Alex Allman.
Have you ever wished that you had some secret weapon up your sleeve that
would make her go "whoa! what the heck was THAT?!"... something that would
really turn her on in a way that no other man had ever done before?
Something that would set you apart in her mind as her most amazing lover?
Well, that's one of the really cool things about finding a few of her
"secret spots".
See, first of all, most guys just don't know about this stuff-- they pretty
much follow the same old routine every time-- the breasts and the bits
between the legs.
In fact, they'll basically follow the same pattern every time-- kissing,
then feeling her breasts, then mouth on breasts, then maybe using their
fingers, oral sex (either giving or receiving), then intercourse.
Nothing wrong with that... but there is so much more you could do to drive
her wild. And when you do these other things, you light her imagination on
fire-- she immediately knows that she is dealing with a man who understands
sex at a higher level.
And THAT is thrilling for her.
Second of all, believe it or not, MOST WOMEN DON'T EVEN KNOW about
the secret spots that are on their OWN bodies.
Sounds crazy, I know, but that's the way it is.
Part of the reason for this is that no man ever touched them in the right
way before.
When you are the first to do it... believe me, she will DEFINITELY remember
you for it.
The real key to finding her secret spots is the same thing I talk about in
almost every one of my articles... and it is the single most powerful way to
become a master in the art of sex:
 Pay
Attention.
Let me very
quickly explain that the "paying attention" that I'm talking about is much
more than just listening to what she tells you or noticing what she likes.
It's about tuning in with your entire body to her entire body.
Every woman is different-- and, more to the point of what I'm talking
about, every woman has different ways she likes to be touched, different
things that turn her on, and different things that bring her to orgasm.
When you tune into her entire body and really start paying attention to what
it is telling you, you begin to uncover all of those things that are
specific to the woman that you are with.
She feels like you are "reading her mind" in bed. She can't believe
how intuitively you know her body. She has orgasms with you on the very
first time you are with her that are so powerful, that previously only men
who had dated her for years had been able to achieve with her.
But also, when you tune in like that, something more subtle happens... not a
physical thing, but a "feeling" thing. She feels a bridge of intimacy with
you-- an emotional connection that allows her to unleash her most
powerful orgasms.
Paying attention like this will let you discover many secret spots on her
body that she never even knew about... until she met you.
Cool, huh?
Okay, as promised, here are 3 of the best places on her body to drive her
wild that most guys completely ignore-- or are just too insecure to take
their time exploring.
-->Spot #1: The Back
Of Her Neck
It's funny to me that so many guys KNOW about the fact that women like it
when you kiss or bite the back of their neck... but so few guys actually do
it for more than a quick thrill.
Some women may find the sensation a bit ticklish-- that just means that
she's not aroused yet.
Once she is turned on, the back of the neck is one of the most
sexually powerful spots on a woman's body.
I have no idea if this is related... but in the world of cats-- from house
cats to lions, when the male cat mates with the female, he bites her on the
back of the neck to put her into "sexual paralysis" so that she'll be still
enough for him to mate with her.
Well, I don't know if this works on any other species in the animal
kingdom... but it definitely works on humans.
When your woman is turned on, try gently lifting her hair and then kissing
the back of her neck...
At this point, she may get goose bumps or make a little sexy noise... and
this is when most men stop and move on to her breasts or whatever...
Instead, linger there at the back of the neck.
Let her feel the breath on the soft skin there. tease her with your tongue,
then gently bite.
Now she may not go crazy right away. Just stay there holding the nape of her
neck gently between your teeth. She may start to giggle... just stay for
another moment...
It may take 10, 20, or even 30 seconds of continuous, light pressure, and
she will very suddenly become incredibly aroused.
Some women can be brought to orgasm from gently biting and licking just the
back of their neck. It may take some time, but the results are incredible.
This is also an incredibly powerful thing to do when you are already having
sex with her from behind. Just lay your body across her back and bite as you
continue to make love to her...
And then hope the neighbors don't call the police from all the screaming.
--> Spot #2: Inside
The Elbows and Knees
These soft, sensitive bits of skin are PG enough for any public place, and
gently running the finger tips on them is a good way to give her the chills
and set some anticipation for later in the evening.
But when "later in the evening" comes, they are so often neglected.
As foreplay, or when making love, gently trace your tongue around and over
them, kiss, or even gently bite.
For some women, when highly aroused, a rhythmic motion with the tip
of the tongue can lead to orgasm.
--> Spot #3: How To
Find The Spot Of Your Own
Welcome to the advanced class.
Today's subject: How to find a secret spot that drives your woman wild in
bed that nobody else knows about.
The skin is the largest organ of the human body. It breathes, it has tiny
muscles that allow it to get firm or soft, or covered with goose
bumps. It protects us from the outside world, and it is laced with a mesh of
nerves that allow us to sense what the world is doing-- from temperature, to
wet or dry, rough or smooth, to hard or soft, from tickle to sharply
painful.
But also the skin, in some areas, is capable of delivering a mind altering
blast of sexual pleasure.
For guys, that mostly means the nerves in and around the penis and anus.
For women it can get much more... exotic.
Think of her body as a map where the lines of nerves intersect like rivers
and road-ways-- and in some areas these lines intersect in mysterious ways
that can produce incredible sexual power.
How do you find which spots?
Tickle her.
This is not a 100% method, but it's darn close.
Any spot that is ticklish on her body when you are just kidding around, is
very, very likely to be powerfully erotic when she is sexually
aroused.
So, where is your girl ticklish? The bottoms of her feet? Her belly? The
space behind her knees? The small of her back? The side of her neck where it
meets the shoulders?
I'll tell you what... try out each one of these in the paragraph above. Most
women are erotically sensitive in all of them.
But REMEMBER: She may be quite used to this spot being unpleasantly
ticklish... if you just "go for it" it is likely to shock her right out of
her sexual mood.
You have to approach it slowly. Think of it less like ambushing a wild
animal than very slowly approaching and making friends with a frightened
animal.
Get it?
Approach the area slowly with flat palm, just held steady, then maybe the
finger tips...
Then maybe a gentle kiss.
If she can handle that, you might go for a flick of the tongue.
To maintain her aroused state, especially if you are already in bed, it
might be a good idea to do this while you are actually making love.
Build it slowly. Eventually, if you are patient, you will build up to the
point where you can lick it or bite it gently as if it were a "second
clitoris".
And as crazy as this sounds, with practice, this new spot might work every
bit as powerfully as her clitoris.
In other words, it is not impossible that she will have orgasms from
stimulating her new secret spot.
And if she does, you will be absolutely floored by the intensity of the
orgasm she will experience.
Because it is a completely new experience for her it will be like taking her
virginity, like she has come for the very first time.
It's a completely amazing experience to share with a woman.
I strongly encourage you to try the first two spots first and then begin
gently experimenting with the third.
It's something that you might not get right away. Don't be discouraged. It's
worth playing with for a while until you find your way.
And better yet, it's a great, fun way to build physical intimacy and sexual
trust in your relationship.
For more specific tips and techniques for figuring out EXACTLY how to give
your woman the most powerful orgasm of her life, sign up now for my free
online newsletter by clicking below...
And if you want to get on the fast track for sexual mastery, you'll want to
download your copy of my online eBook:
Revolutionary Sex: How To Give Any Woman The Sexual Experience She's Always
Dreamed Of
Your Friend,
Alex
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"Revolutionary Sex"
by Alex Allman
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