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Lovemaking Techniques That Will Drive Your Woman Wild

Drive Her OrgasmicClick here to read more about "Revolutionary Sex" by Alex Allman!

Let me give you a warning in advance about the material in this article, when used as directed you'll always have a horny woman woman in bed with you!

Article based on "Revolutionary Sex" ebook

How is "making love" different from "having sex?"

Philosophers since Plato have been asking that question...

Would you be "making love" in a one-night stand? Or for your 1st time with a woman?

Probably not. And that's actually fine. Men (AND women) can be very satisfied by that kind of short-term encounter.

No judgments from  me!

If you’re in a relationship of any length, whether it’s 10 months or 10 years—the dynamic between you and your lover is going to change, it’s going to evolve and - hopefully - it’s going to grow.

But, unfortunately, that's not always the case.

In fact, we all know that sometimes things just get stale.

The fact is, sex gets a LOT of juice from variety and from novelty.

But when you've really tapped into what we call "making love," you GET something in exchange for novelty which, if you're open to it, can keep things getting HOTTER for many years.

When you’re in the early phase of a relationship, and things are still fresh, new and exciting, the sexual dynamic is racy. It's hot without any effort. Testosterone does all the work for you.

But that phase of natural intensity, the built-in excitement of it all still being so new-- eventually fades from the scene. The newness and exploration that makes everything so hot early on... as much as I hate to say it... wears off sooner or later.

And usually sooner.

Have you heard about couples who still have crazy-hot sex even after being together for years?

Sound like a chick flick? A fairy tale?

Well I've spent my career hunting down couples like that and STUDYING them.

What if I told you that YOU could be in one of those couples?

I want to tell you about strategies for approaching your sex life that might be just a bit outside your field of vision.

As with most things that aren’t easy to come by, reaching a new level of advanced physical intimacy takes work.

If having a great sex life isn't worth a bit of work to you, then this probably isn't something you're going to be interested in.

The strategies I want to share with you are more than just some simple "technique"... they are "a way of being" that triggers deep sexual response in your woman.

The first way of being is to be PRESENT - to be IN THE MOMENT.

When you think back to some of your greatest sexual memories, what do they all have in common?

Exactly: you were COMPLETELY in the moment.

How did it become so hard to stay in the moment during sex??

Well, gradually, that "newness" - and all the excitement that went with it - wore off.

Your mind started drifting...you started thinking about stuff you had to get done, and about work... And, god forbid, maybe even other women.

The sex in your relationship lost its luster...it became routine. Sex was no longer hot.

This is not only common, it’s typical.

When you let yourself get distracted, then you’re anything BUT present. Putting yourself back into the present moment is going to require some work, and some focus.

It takes commitment to focus on really being present- both for her AND for you.

It really helps to start by recognizing that there isn’t anything else in the world that you would be better off doing.

Love-making is an experience that should never be taken for granted on any level. Even when it’s not the greatest, it’s still far better than good.

How can you argue with that?

Another key to reclaiming the hot factor is to focus on every aspect of your connection with your lover: try concentrating on the feeling of each part of your body as it connects with hers:
Where your hands and your arms touch; where your legs and your feet touch; where your faces meet as they brush up against each other. And then there's always the intercourse itself.

Oh yeah, that.

Focus on a particular physical connection, whether you’re kissing, or you're caressing her butt, or she’s running her hands along your chest...

Pay attention to each gesture for as long as it feels right, and then pick another point of contact to focus on. You’ll be surprised at how effective this is.

Another difference in "making love" vs. just "having sex," is your willingness to be VULNERABLE.

This is a very challenging concept for most men.

Throw away your preconceptions: being vulnerable doesn’t mean you’re being any less of a man, or that you're being submissive, or that you'll be relinquishing all control to her.

When I talk about being vulnerable, I’m talking about being open to expressing your pleasure. Sometimes this can mean telling her how beautiful she is...or how great the love-making feels...or how HOT she’s making you.

But it can also just be the sounds you make to let her know where you are: soft moans, or even just sighs of satisfaction. During sex, this is really what vulnerability is all about: showing how much you're into it, on a verbal, or an sub-verbal level - is something that can be surprisingly easy for some, and far more difficult for others.

Some men will cringe at the idea of making noise during sex. If this is you, then this is something you’ll gradually want to experiment with.

Some men only know being in control, being powerful, being the master-- and that may work sometimes, in some relationships, especially early on. But don't let being in control come at the expense of showing emotion, or letting her know you're into it.

One way or another, show her how much you're into being with her, and how much she turns you on.

This is ultimately where you really want to be - and her response will let you know it.

The other "way of being" that I want to introduce you to is what I’ll call "selfishly giving," or enjoying HER enjoyment.

Try putting your focus on YOUR pleasure from her pleasure.

Decide that the next time you make love, you’re going to make it all about the pleasure YOU take in touching HER.

Instead of anticipating her wishes and desires as you’re making love, or asking her what she wants... Instead soak up the pleasure that you get in making her feel turned on. Enjoy the feelings you get in your hands and body and TAKE pleasure from what you are doing.

Now here’s a nice little surprise: the more that you focus your intentions towards enjoying her, the more you’ll actually turn her on. You’ll gradually come to find yourself really getting off on her pleasure, and, more than likely, her own moans of satisfaction.

Love-making is all about your emotional approach, not about your moves. When you start to really connect with her, and make her feel powerfully desired as a sexual being, it'll shock you how much hotter the sex gets.

When you're making love, as opposed to just having sex, you actually put the HOT back into it in a whole new way.

You could even become one of those couples who look like they are on their honeymoon even after being together for many, many years.

So be present. Be willing to be vulnerable. And take pleasure from her pleasure.

Once you see for yourself how effective these techniques work for you and your relationship, I encourage you to expand your wisdom even more by checking out my Passionate Lover, Passionate Life program.Click here to read more about "Revolutionary Sex" by Alex Allman

Get more information and a free mini-course on bringing more passion to your sexual relationship here.

 Your Friend,
Alex

 

 

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