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Revolutionary Sex
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What
do WOMEN think is "sexy" anyway?
Article
inspired by the "Revolutionary Sex"
ebook
I want to
share with you 2 things that I believe any man can do... that will make you
much more sexually attractive to women.
If you are single this can get you more dates...
and HOTTER dates... How much better would your relationships become if you
know how to trigger a girl's sexual attraction for you?
In other words... this is important stuff, so read on...
Let me start by asking you a question...
What do WOMEN think is "sexy" anyway?
Tattoos? Clean-cut guys in well tailored suits? Danger? Money? Muscles? A
feeling of security? Musicians and poets? Power? Pretty boys? Tough guys?
Bad boys? Brains? A great sense of humor?
Sure. Of course. There are women that find each of these things sexy.
Some women like tattooed, rocker types. Some get turned on by clean-cut,
Wall Street types, some like 'em pretty and some like 'em tough, etc.
But is there something that ALL women think is sexy? Is there something that
really pushes the hot-button on every girl you'll ever meet?
There is.
In fact, there are two things.
And these two things are so powerful in the way that they affect women, that
if you strongly exhibit these two qualities, it can overcome just about
anything else.
In other words, if you have these qualities, you will be sexually attractive
to a woman that usually goes for tattooed guys even if you're a Wall Street
guy, or vice-versa.
And the really great news is, they are qualities that any man can acquire if
he's willing to LEARN and to work at it a bit.
And, yes, I'm going to tell you what they are...
What you do with this information, in the end, is up to you...
Women are generally creatures of emotion, and men are generally about facts
and results.
Of course this isn't always true, but pretty close.
And it's especially true when it comes to sexual relationships. Men want
facts and results (like: what's your phone number and when are we gonna get
it on?).
But women are much more emotionally driven. (like: we'll get it on when it
FEELS right to me.)
I challenge you to find a woman that disagrees with that statement.
Emotions and feelings are what really motivate most women, and your ability
to make her FEEL things, your "emotional power" over her is key to her
feelings of sexual attraction.
PASSION is the language of emotional power. And for a woman, it is the best
indicator of a man's ability to FEEL things strongly...
And make HER feel things strongly...
And THAT drives women crazy.
Passion is the first of the two things that all women find sexually
attractive.
Does it matter what you have a passion for?
Well, for starters, you can't go wrong with SEXUAL passion.
But she's not going to be able to read that in you immediately unless you go
around with a t-shirt that says, "Hey Girls: Passionate Lover Right Here"
(I don't recommend it, by the way, but hey, it COULD work).
But seriously, passion about anything is a turn-on for women.
I admit, and I guess it's obvious if you live on this planet, that artistic
passion... like passion for playing the guitar or writing powerful poetry is
more attractive than passion for theoretical mathematics...
But I PROMISE you, even passion for theoretical mathematics is seriously
sexy to any woman who encounters it.
The problem is, the mathematician usually doesn't believe that others share
his passion and so he, like most men, walks around suppressing or hiding his
passion and his emotional power.
For women, these timid men that walk around all covered up and too weak to
show their emotional power are all the same.
They are all just guys that are too shy or too afraid to express their
passions... for the guitar or poetry or mathematics. And so she can be
pretty darn sure that they are too timid to show their passion in bed.
In other words...
They are just like the last guy that failed to impress them in the bedroom.
I suppose that there are some passions that don't impress women-- like, say,
passion for watching Monday Night Football with a can of beer in your
hand...
But that is only because it is a passion that is so common that women don't
discern it as a measure of emotional power-- just a "guy thing."
But if the same guy that went completely crazy with enthusiasm during the
football game could bring that same kind of passion to other things in his
life-- almost any woman would find herself drawn to him... maybe even
fantasizing about him.
If you are dating, and a girl sees your passion for football, but feels
excluded from it, then the problem is your inability to SHARE your passions
with her.
I dare you to find a new passion (or re-find an old one) that kindles your
excitement, and then share that excitement, without filtering it, really
getting excited about it WITH your woman. Watch the result it has on her...
watch how she gets swept up by it and gets pulled into you masculine
power...
 Watch
what happens later that evening when you get into bed.
But getting back to my example about the mathematician...
What would it take for a mathematician to really show his passion, to really
blow a woman's mind with his emotional intensity on the subject?
First of all it takes some guts. Because he is used to hiding his passion,
like most of us are.
What does it take to REALLY be yourself and not care what other people
think? What does it take to be so comfortable in your own skin that what
other people think doesn't matter to you?
Massive confidence.
And, as it turns out, THAT is the second quality that all women find sexy:
CONFIDENCE.
A woman can never completely let go and trust a man that does not display
confidence.
It helps if you know what you are doing...
But more important is to have the attitude and the rock-solid BELIEF that
you know.
In the presence of a man like that, most women feel huge amounts of sexual
attraction.
Often they can't even tell you why. They just say, "there's something about
him."
And to really rock a woman's world in the bedroom, the best place to start
is to be confident about your sexual ability and your sexual identity.
This sexual confidence and PASSION during love-making is the single biggest
turn-on for most women.
It is what allows her to surrender herself to experience pleasure that she
probably has never even dreamt of.
And the best part... women can smell that confidence when they first meet
you, and it triggers biologically pre-wired impulses that make her want to
get to know you a LOT better.
Since the ability for a man to SHOW his passion comes down to having
confidence, I guess you could say that confidence is the more important
quality in being sexually attractive.
And that makes sense.
Because while most women wouldn't explain it quite as carefully as I have
done here, again, I challenge you...
Ask any woman you know if she agrees with this statement:
"Confidence" is the single biggest thing that all women find sexually
attractive.
I think you'll see very quickly that I'm on to something very big and very
true, and that you need to learn more about it--
So, here's the big question...
I said that ANY guy could learn to do these things that women find so
sexually attractive.
So HOW DO YOU become the kind of sexually confident guy that women fantasize
about?
In my experience, it's a bit more complicated than just deciding "I will be
sexually confident from now on."
But I want you to know that it's not so much more complicated that it can't
be learned.
In fact, I believe ANY man can display massive sexual confidence... the kind
of sexual confidence that has his woman crawling all over him all the
time... just by learning a few simple things.
The main keys are External... learning the actual skills, techniques, and
"competence" in the bedroom that breeds confidence...
And Internal... learning to silence the voices of doubt and judgment (that
women can sense),
that can destroy that passionate sexual confidence before you ever have a
chance.
On the one hand there is nothing "hard" about this process...
On the other hand, it's not likely you can go it on your own.
You need the tools to handle all of these factors and really grow into your
new identity comfortably and happily.
Like I said this is unlikely to change if you don't take action. So I urge
you not to put this off.
A good first step is to subscribe to "The Allman Report", my free newsletter
on Sexual Mastery.
Oh, and if you haven't downloaded your copy of my online eBook,
Revolutionary Sex. You probably need to do that right now.
It is is filled with incredible techniques and tips to take your sexual
relationship to levels that you can't believe until you experience them.
You can find both right here:
www.RevolutionarySex.com
I'm looking forward to sharing more great tips with you in my next article.
Your Friend,
Alex
P.S., It's important that you understand this stuff first. But obviously,
it's part of a much bigger picture. When you are ready to take the next step
and become a master of her sexual pleasure, you'll need to download my
eBook, Revolutionary Sex
P.S,
If you haven't signed up for my free newsletter yet, you can do that
HERE:
www.revolutionarysex.com/newsletter
Article
inspired by "Revolutionary Sex"
ebook by Alex Allman
(c) 2007-2008 Alex Allman, Robert Lee and Cheerful Attitude Web Design Ltd.,
All Rights Reserved. By accepting and reading this article you agree that: You
understand this to be an opinion and not professional advice, it is only to be
used for personal entertainment purposes, you are solely responsible for any use
of the ideas, concepts, and content and will hold all authors and publishers harmless.
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