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3 Great Female Orgasm Techniques

Perfect Your Performance In BedClick here to read more about "Revolutionary Sex" by Alex Allman

Let me give you a warning in advance about the material in this article, when used as directed you'll always have a multiple orgasmic woman in bed with you!

Article based on "Revolutionary Sex" ebook

if I’ve been getting a lot of emails lately from men who are worried that their performance isn’t up to snuff...

They feel like they're winging it at best, and that they're going to get called out for it.

So let me just start by telling you this: Do NOT worry about it.

Dude, you are going to be just fine. You’re even going to be great.

I'm going to tell you a very short story:
Once upon a time, there was foreplay; and there was the missionary position... and they were good.

And they’re STILL good. But they can become GREAT if you just mix it up a bit, and take a fresh approach to your love-making.

When you're having sex - and that includes foreplay-- you'll tend to stick with a predictable set of moves...

That's just the way we dive into the pool.

Our instincts kick in, which can be a good thing, but we also go on auto-pilot, which sometimes is NOT such a good thing.

Predictability might work on your first night of intimacy, but most of the time you’re going to want to introduce some surprises here and there.

So first let’s figure out what kind of playing field you’re on -

Let's say you haven't been intimate yet, but you're thinking the first time is coming up real soon.

You may have an idea of what she’ll be like in the bedroom based on what you know of her personality...

And you're probably completely wrong.

We all have very separate identities in the real world... and in the bedroom.

So I’m going to give you three incredibly helpful guidelines to put you in the best position to BLOW HER MIND-- whatever kind of lover she turns out to be.

1) TIMING

I can't emphasize enough how important foreplay can be to the full experience of sex- never rush through it to get her into bed.

***Be in the moment during foreplay- get lost in it... let the tide carry you along. Too many men do "foreplay for her." Instead, why not be present with it and enjoy it?

You’ll sense when it’s time to start changing gears, and that’s when you’ll want to be open to her cues.

If she’s letting you lead, move things forward gradually. Don’t worry - she’s into you! She wouldn’t be there if she wasn’t.

A patient build up of passion will really open her up... To you, to the experience, and to having AN INTENSE orgasm -
-- or several.

2) A NEW O-ZONE

The ol' in-out, in-out, alone, may be fun for you (for a quickie), but it could bore her to TEARS.

Think of the physical connection you make with your lover like playing an instrument.

You learn to play by memorizing or reading the notes. But when you've mastered the instrument, you're not just playing notes anymore... you're playing MUSIC.

Pounding her like a nail feels right sometimes... but getting stuck on the heavy metal station is boring.

By playing her like an instrument, I mean that you're finding her best melody for the mood you're both in... which, when you play it well, will really get her to sing.

3) ALLOW HER TO COME

Now this one’s a bit tricky, but even for a new sexual partner, it's important:
Freeing up her emotions, as well as her body, can be an all-access pass in getting her to come.

If you don’t have much history with a woman – or even if you do – she may be self-conscious about being totally open with you, especially when it comes to expressing signs of orgasmic pleasure.

Think about it this way: how do YOU feel expressing uninhibited groans of pleasure?

Not easy, is it?

It's a lot of you to put out there, and can make you feel self-conscious.

Now take that level of self-consciousness, and multiply it by ten-- because that’s how she can feel about expressing HER most intimate feelings of pleasure.

Why not do everything you can to make her feel at ease and comfortable in her skin? That means being there with her – not just your body – but in every way that you can be. Reassure her with eye contact, touch, words, breath, and intention-- let her know you’re right there with her.

When you know that she's really hot, and that she's ready for release, try telling her softly- "It’s OK to come." Sometimes it’s enough just to say, "It’s OK" – or even just a nod of the head. When she recognizes that you’re tuned into to her orgasmic pleasure, it will gain her trust and give her "permission".

 And trust goes a LONG way in your intimacy. Communicating to her through eye contact, words, or a whisper that she can be herself, that she can let loose- it does a funny thing:
It calms her-- and when she’s calm, her floodgates are likely to really open up.

How you get there isn’t set in stone- it just takes some improvising. But I know you can take this on.

We've talked about timing and pacing, I've introduced you to a whole different way of looking at her erogenous zones, and we discussed opening up your lover through your connection and building of trust.

It’s a lot to keep in mind the next time you’re getting intimate, but I promise you that if you can apply even HALF of it, you will be so much better off.

You will satisfy her in ways that you never have before.

I want your sex life to really take off and to be a source of pride-- not something you need to worry about. And it WILL, because these techniques work.

You’re going to love what they do for you. If you haven't already, I invite you to check out my comprehensive Revolutionary Sex ebook.

You'll find even more information there that you (and your lover) will
really enjoy.Click here to read more about "Revolutionary Sex" by Alex Allman

Your Friend,
Alex

 

 

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