"Working Definition: Love Magnet - A single
person able to attract the right partner effortlessly; a person in a
relationship who is able to attract his or her partner's love and affection
Attracting and getting love does not have to be a struggle. Really. You can
become the kind of person with the kind of light, an aura, that draws love to
you. The more light you have, the more easily love comes to you.
I've compiled a list of the principles of being a love magnet, and shared the
first 10 with you last week. To recap, here they are:
1. Take care of yourself, first.
2. Set strong boundaries.
3. Complete your past.
4. Stop being angry.
5. Make integrity a priority.
6. Step over nothing.
7. Be fearless.
8. Be generous and kind, with no strings.
9. Have compassion.
10. Be grateful.
You can see these principles in detail in part one of this article
Here are the next 10 principles of being a love
11. Say "No," a lot.
Say no when you want to say no but should say yes. Say no when you want to say
no but are afraid of hurting others' feelings. Say no when you want to and
need to say no but would rather be nice. Saying no shows you that you matter.
And when you matter, you shine.
12. Trust yourself.
Trust your feelings, your thoughts, your gut. Trust yourself more than you
trust anyone else; only you know yourself that well. Trust your own advice
above any else's. Trusting yourself increases your self esteem, which makes
you very attractive.
13. Value yourself highly.
Don't settle for anything. Want and work toward getting the best treatment,
the best of life, the best of love. You are valuable and precious. Treat
yourself as such and others will too.
14. Be everything you want.
Be everything you want your partner to be. And be everything you want to be
for yourself. This makes it possible for your right partner to be drawn to you
and gives you a wonderful, satisfying life.
15. Express yourself.
Express your creativity. Express your brilliance. Express your passion.
Express your feelings. Give voice to the song inside you. The more
self-expressed you are, the better you will feel about yourself and life and
the more you will shine.
16. Live your best life.
Don't wait to have a partner to live the life you want to live. Don't waste
your time making excuses for not living the life you want. What's more
attractive than a happy, fulfilled person?