"Working Definition: Love Magnet - A single
person able to attract the right partner effortlessly; a person in a
relationship who is able to attract his or her partner's love and affection
effortlessly.
Attracting and getting love does not have to be a struggle. Really. You can
become the kind of person with the kind of light, an aura, that draws love to
you. The more light you have, the more easily love comes to you.
I've compiled a list of the principles of being a love magnet, and have so far
shared the first 20 with you. To see them again, go
here for the first 10. And
here for the second 10.
Here are my final 10 principles of being a love magnet. By embodying these,
becoming these, you will be able to attract and keep the love you want.
21. Ask for what you want.
Ask for what you want, again and again and again, in every area of your life.
Every time you ask for what you want you give yourself and others the message
that you are valuable and worth caring for. If you don't already, by doing
this you will begin to feel valuable. And when you feel valuable, you
are attractive.
22. Appreciate and acknowledge.
Seeing the best in others brings out their best. You become a very attractive
person when you appreciate and acknowledge others, because you bring the best
out in people.
23. Surrender control.
Learn to flow with life. Learn to like difference,
change, spontaneity and risk. The more you can flow, the more free you will
feel. And feeling free will make you shine.
24. Welcome interdependence.
Independence is overvalued--and it renders you unable to truly connect with
another human being. To love someone is to depend on that person. Yes, it is a
risk. But without taking that risk, you will never know love.
25. Get everything you want.
Go for everything you want in life and don't let fear stop you. Your
persistent desires call you to your true self. The more you follow that call,
the more genuine, self-expressed and authentic you are. And the more authentic
you are, the more you stand out, the more you attract.
26. Never settle.
Never settle, especially in a relationship. This does not mean you have to
find the "perfect" man or woman. It means you become willing to honor your
wants and needs. Honor them to the extent that having them met becomes a
condition for having a relationship. And be willing to let go of a
relationship when your most important needs have no hope of being met.
27. Contribute to others.
Make a difference in the world -- feed your soul and your humanity. This
ignites an unmistakably attractive light.
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