
To review the first three
sections of this quiz from Part 1,
go here.
How strong and long-term is your long-term relationship? Test your
capacity for longevity and lasting love as a couple by taking this quiz
together.
This is far more than a simple quiz. You can use the areas in which you
find weakness in your relationship as points to work on with your
partner, ensuring more happiness for more years together.
Directions:
Print out this week's sections of the quiz and take them somewhere you
can be undisturbed.
Complete the sections by placing a checkmark next to each statement you
agree with. Score the sections by giving yourself one point for each
checkmark. Record your score for the week and keep it on hand.
At the end of four weeks -- at which point you will have received all 10
sections of the quiz -- combine your scores and read the quiz score
interpretation.
If you are in a relationship, ask your partner to do the same, then get
back together and compare your scores. Use your answers and your scores
as a springboard for discussion.
Use this quiz as an opportunity to deepen your understanding of
yourself, or if you are in a relationship, of yourself and your partner.
Use your unmarked/disagree statements as points to work on.
The Marriage and Long-Term Relationship Quiz, Part 2
Will You Live Happily Ever After?
Section 4: Your Growth and Development
___ 1. I am deeply involved in my growth and development
___ 2. I am looking into personality growth and development
___ 3. I have worked with a therapist or a coach
___ 4. I have attended personal development workshops
___ 5. I am eager and hungry for books that give me insights into myself
___ 6. I am generally an introspective person - I know what I feel,
think, want and don't want
___ 7. I understand what makes me happy and what makes me react
___ 8. I am working on mastering my beliefs and emotions
___ 9. No one has to push me to grow - I am eager to see growth
opportunities, in my relationship and elsewhere
___ 10. My growth and maturation as a person and as an adult is a key
factor in the health of my relationship
____ YOUR SCORE FOR SECTION 4
Section 5: Feeling Good in the Relationship
___ 1. I work on creating good feeling in a relationship on an ongoing basis
___ 2. I am learning how to create good feelings in a relationship on an
ongoing basis
___ 3. I am working on being a more generous towards my partner
___ 4. I am working on being more compassionate towards my partner
___ 5. I am working on being more understanding of my partner
___ 6. I am asking my partner to tell me his/her experiences of life and the
relationship, so that I can have more understanding
___ 7. I am working on bring more kindness into the relationship
___ 8. I create fun and joy into the relationship on a regular basis
___ 9. Humor is of great help to the relationship in times of stress
___ 10. I seek out mutually meaningful connection with my partner on a regular
basis
____ YOUR SCORE FOR SECTION 5