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 I have some interesting news for
you...
Attractive women know within SECONDS of seeing and/or interacting with you
if you're a sexually aware, confident man. And they make the UNCONSCIOUS
decision of whether or not you're a possible sexual partner within a maximum
of a few minutes of interacting with you.
These unconscious decisions are
made mostly on the basis of body language and voice tone.
And since we know that "Attraction
Isn't A Choice", we can generalize the
following:
1. If you don't know what types of body language communicate that you're one
of these "sexy beast" guys, you're probably not doing the right things "by
accident".
2. The words you say actually don't matter much. What matters is HOW you say
them, both with your voice and with your body language.
3. It is possible to learn how to communicate that you're a "sexually aware,
confident man" using your body language and voice tone. Learning this skill
will make attracting women MUCH easier. Unfortunately, most men are too
caught up in the idea of being macho and independent to work on this area of
their life... and as a result, they waste most of their time in "quiet
desperation", never seeing any real improvement because they don't seek help
and use the help to improve.
In short, if you don't know whether or not you project the kind of body
language and voice tone that makes women feel that emotional jolt of sexual
attraction, then you can bet your last dollar that you aren't. What's a guy
to do? Learn it, then use it.
When I first started learning about how to meet women, I can remember
thinking that I needed to learn pick up lines and other tricks. I had no
idea that this stuff was basically useless without the all-important
understanding of how body language works.
After a lot of trial and error, I started to realize that when my body
language and voice tone were correct, I could say ALMOST ANYTHING to women,
and they would feel ATTRACTION.
Like most guys, you probably
want to know WHY this is, as well as how to do it. Well, if you want to
REALLY get a deep understanding of this topic, I suggest that you check out
my new CD Audio Program. I spend several hours working on the "why".
So in this article, I'm going to focus on some of the "How To"...
Here are three things you can do to IMMEDIATELY increase your attractiveness
to women:
1) Learn how to hold eye contact for longer than her.
If you see a woman that you find attractive, and she looks back at you,
DON'T LOOK AWAY. Most guys become very self conscious and look away as soon
as a woman notices them looking. This is a HUGE mistake.
If you want to communicate all the right things, you need to show
IMMEDIATELY that you're not afraid, and that you're not at all self
conscious about the fact that you are checking her out.
A good exercise is to walk through a mall for a few hours and look DIRECTLY
at every woman you see. Walk into every store, and look directly into the
eyes of every single woman you encounter... and DON'T LOOK AWAY UNTIL AFTER
SHE DOES.
Do yourself a huge favor, and don't open your eyes really wide and smile
like a serial killer while you're doing this exercise. Women don't tend to
enjoy that.
Just learn how to hold eye contact with a woman until she looks away...
This is very important.
2) Use confident posture.
Most men I see hold themselves in a way that says "I am not very confident
about myself or anything I'm saying".
And most of the guys I know who are chick MAGNETS hold themselves in a way
that says "I'm the dominant male in this situation... I own this place".
Suck in your stomach, hold your head up and back, pull your shoulders back,
arch your back... and generally hold yourself like you're the most powerful
person you've ever seen or heard of.
Yea, I know this sounds dorky, but do it anyway.
You'll probably feel strange and self conscious at first, but not to worry.
If you continue to practice your confident posture, you'll soon become
comfortable with it. And more important, you'll attract attention from
women.
Remember, women aren't interested in finding another average Wuss Boy. Women
aren't ATTRACTED to WUSSIES.
Carry yourself like a manly man, and attractive women will notice and have
INSTANT positive unconscious reactions to you.
3) Use SLOW, CALCULATED movements and gestures.
Watch a few James Bond films. And while you're at it, check out "Dirty
Rotten Scoundrels".
Have you ever noticed that James Bond never looks like he doesn't know how
to act? And that he never fidgets or behaves nervously?
Everything James does is a little slower than is should be. He's just too
cool.
Try learning how to turn your head slowly, how to blink slowly, how to
change facial expressions slowly... and how to gesture slowly.
This makes a huge impact on how others perceive you.
This kind of body language transmits the message: "I'm so comfortable in my
own skin, it hurts".
4) Confident voice tone.
Most people speak with weak, squeaky voices that convey the message "I'm not
confident... I have no self esteem".
This turns women off. Big time.
If you want to attract beautiful women, you're going to need to take a few
lessons from Barry White.
Learn how to speak with a deeper voice. Learn to speak from down in your
chest and stomach. Add more bass to your voice.
Also, learn how to speak slower... and how to articulate every word better.
Become comfortable pausing... it creates anticipation. Most guys talk too
much, too fast, and feel like they need to talk because they're nervous.
Don't do it! Learn to lean back, relax, and become comfortable with the
tension that comes from silence.
If you work on communicating with your BODY AND VOICE that you're a
confident, sexually aware, stud-muffinly guy, then all the techniques you're
learning from me will work TEN times better. Really.
As you know, I really believe that it takes a DEEP understanding of how and
why ATTRACTION works between men and women before you will actually begin to
"GET IT" at that deep level in your GUT... which leads to ACTION.
For many more tips, get my
ebook and weekly newsletter. Check it out at:
www.doubleyourdating.com
- just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy.
...and read it, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
David D.
P.S. As you can probably imagine, I get a TON of email... So if you'd like
to send me a Success Story, Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your question. I appreciate
all of the "Your stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how well your
stuff works" comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of the
specifics... because this helps other guys to see what's working in
different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in the subject line of
the email. I read these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell me where you're
from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@doubleyourdating.com
P.P.S. With my new
CD
Audio Program together, I really focused on both the "Inner Game" and the
"Outer Game. In other words, I spent a lot of time teaching both the
"why's" of ATTRACTION, as well as the techniques and tricks to actually
approach women, get phone numbers, get dates, and take things to a
physical level. It's taken me a long, long time to figure all of this
stuff out, and I personally think it's the best all-around education you
can get on the topic of women and dating.
(c) 2005-2008 David DeAngelo, All Rights Reserved. By
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advice, it is only to be used for personal entertainment purposes, you are solely responsible for any use of the ideas, concepts, and content and will hold David
DeAngelo harmless.
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