Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Michael W: Applying The Dating Wizard materials and insights to get serious results in your life, with golden tips on approaching women, doing the pick-up and taking things beyond.
Hi there,
It's Michael, The Dating Wizard, and I'd like to let you
know some crucial tips that will
make an IMMEDIATE difference
in your interactions with women.
It's taken me YEARS of painful lessons to realize so many things, and you get to take advantage of that so that you can save yourself all that time and all that misery.
The first thing is, every single person has "blind spots" when it comes to their own perceptions of how they are coming across to others.
The reason they are blind to them is because they FEEL that what they are doing is normal.
So, for example, some guys will immediately begin telling women "cool stuff" about themselves as soon as they begin a conversation, because they want the woman to desire them. What they don't understand though is that this actually often comes across as arrogant and insecure and makes the woman feel uncomfortable.
I used to have that blind spot, and yet I thought I was doing the perfect thing, because it FELT like the right thing to do.
Another blind spot that some guys might have is trying to appeal to the cerebral side of a woman when doing a pick-up. The reason some guys do this is because they want the woman to feel she is being respected and not viewed as an "object". They think this is a GOOD way to go about a pick-up, especially since this type of approach tends to avoid any strong NEGATIVE reactions from a woman. The problem is that it doesn't get strong POSITIVE reactions either.
One of the reasons the cerebral approach doesn't work, is that it gets a woman to try to prove to you how CEREBRAL she can be. It gets her into a really ANYALYTICAL, non-relaxed, non-happy state.
And the irony is that it's not even what you deep down feel is natural for yourself.
But you THINK this is what you should be doing, you think it's going to yield better results for you.
Another blind spot some guys have are their extremely narrow perspectives or extreme opinions on things.
By having very extreme or narrow perspectives, they come across as extremely judgemental and that makes a woman feel that the guy is not emotionally stable and that she will constantly be criticized herself.
All these BLIND SPOTS, however, are ELIMINATED when you BLOW APART ALL THE INFINITE FEARS ABOUT THE INTERACTION THAT ARE HOLDING YOU BACK.
Think about it- the showing off comes from insecurity, the focusing on the cerebral stuff comes from fear of looking like a chauvinist pig who only thinks about sex, and so on and so on.
Narrow perspectives come from not wanting to challenge your own "comfort zone", or from thinking that you can't live with the idea that maybe you weren't right about everything, including how to best run your own mind.
The KEY though is to figure out the best WAY to obliterate all those inner barriers that are holding you back and how to GROW STRONGER INTERNALLY so that you truly change the way you FEEL, so that you feel totally EMPOWERED.
It's not enough to KNOW you have to be confident, secure, and fun, you have to know how to GET to this goal as well.
So one tip I want you to use IMMEDIATELY is to think about the last time you saw a woman you wanted to approach, or the last time you wanted to do anything with a woman you like, and you found yourself HESITATING (for example, you wanted to kiss her or put your arm around her waist or whatever) I want you to RIGHT NOWthis VERY MOMENT write down EXACTLY WHAT YOU FEARED.
What was your fear REALLY about?
What do you FEAR you can't live with?
What do you FEAR is so disastrous?
Sometimes THIS in itself is a huge job, figuring what the REAL issue is, it's not always what you first THINK it is.
Most of the time, we don't even KNOW what we fear, we just FEEL it, and so we are so CONTROLLED by it, we don't even want to KNOW it at all, we just want to RUN from it, and not even THINK about it.
But I am telling you right now, to actually EMBRACE it and bring it right up to the SURFACE, eyeball to eyeball right up to you close. Look it in the eye, stare it right down, no matter how scary it might seem. STARE the sucker down.
This might be a VERY VERY CHALLENGING thing to do, and I urge you to STILL do it.
You will find it will help you a LOT, so the NEXT time you see a woman, you will NOT let your negative programming take AUTOPILOT control of your mind and your actions like before- you will now have way more LEVERAGE to do the RIGHT thing and not only take action, but take the RIGHT kind of action.
Instead of having her go back home to her most likely UNINSPIRING life, you can be the guy to RESCUE her and truly "sweep her off her feet".
Now, there is SO MUCH more I want to do with you, to help you KICK these enemies out of your INNER game.
I want to help you understand EXACTLY what is going on inside of you so that you can be FREE of it. The problem is that most guys truly THINK they know what is going on inside, but because of their own blind spots, they never SEE it, and they live their whole entire lives being DRAGGED DOWN by it.
Wishing you success with women,
Michael
"The Dating Wizard's: Spell To Dating Success" article series. When you are able to accept that a woman might potentially not like you, you are then able to let go of being overly concerned with this fear.
This series of articles (listed here) are a
small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With
Women (more info)" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program
(more info)" on CD/DVD.
