Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Welcome to "The Dating Wizard's: Spell To Dating Success" article series. By focusing on the moment women will respond positively to you, The Man.
This series of articles (listed here) are a small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With Women" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program" on CD/DVD.
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In other words, the view is good, but it's not EXTRAORDINARY or anything, it's a bit of a joke, i.e. overselling the coolness of the back seat, ON PURPOSE. As if I make it a point to always get this view, which is an obvious joke.
Predictably, she turns to me, and just nods, and goes back to looking out the window. This is cool, after all, isn't this what mothers tell their kids, "not to talk to strangers"?
The thing is, I ***KNOW*** that she's THINKING about what I just said, and she's just not sure what to do. So I let her chill out and process it a bit in her head.
What I do next is PACE HER REALITY:
I KNOW what she's thinking, so what I do is instead of IGNORING it, I
bring it UP, but I also DISARM any concerns by changing her MOOD, rather
than by trying to have a logical discussion about why I'm not a psycho.
What I do is turn to her, with again that "pretend serious" look and
tell her "Your mother told you not to talk to strangers. That's good,
you're doing the right thing, especially at NIGHT!"
And I can see a smile CRACKING across her face.
"It's a good thing you know, your mother, yeah. Good stuff."
I chill out again and enjoy the view in front of me. Meanwhile, though, the ABSURDITY of the moment was COMPLETELY DISARMING to her.
She couldn't HELP but start giggling.
I then SLOWLY turn my face to her again, (not jumping as if it's some big deal) and say (again in "fake serious", which helps to keep the transition GRADUAL, as if you go into DIRECT party mode, it's TOO MUCH of a JUMP in state for her):
"Oh you're laughing now. Well, it's good you have a sense of humor, that's important, your mother taught you that. I see you get it, you get what I'm saying."
Part of what keeping it "fake serious" does is that since the tonality is still serious, it doesn't seem as if you are ASSUMING anything, i.e. this is not a pick-up, no WAY! This is a serious conversation.
At the same TIME, though, the whole thing IS funny, but the funny is in reality coming from HER conclusion about the situation, as **I** have been "serious" all along. So it's HER that comes to the conclusion and decision to get into LAUGHING and feeling good, it wasn't **ME** who "made" her do anything.
It's HER decision now, to talk to me, and of course, since she is laughing and feeling good, she WILL want to do that.
I then bridge into making a bit more of a real connection, and I don't focus on the fact that I literally have to get off in two stops, which means I only have about another two minutes tops to finish this convo. My focus is on the HERE and NOW. I just ENJOY the moment and immerse myself in it.
I ask her a bit about school, and then playfully tease her that it's a good excuse for why she's taking the bus, but that I know that for real she's really not in school, she just uses that as an excuse.
We then get into a more "real" connection as she tells me that she is majoring in psychology and wants to become a psychologist. This also just happens to be a subject I am very VERY passionate about, so the convo is going great.
After chatting about this for about 1 minute, she starts to show genuine interest in me, asking me questions about why I'm on the bus so late, and for about half a minute I tease her that I simply live on the streets and that I rob grocery stores (I have some groceries in a bag on me) and I explain life is all about timing, and that night time is great for doing all that.
She is laughing out loud on the bus, she starts asking me to tell her for real what I'm doing so I explain quickly but genuinely where I'm heading.
I then tell her that I have to get off but that it was cool chatting and that she should give me her email. As she writes it down, I tease her that she can use me as a case study subject if she's lucky, to which she smiles and then asks exactly what I mean by that. I tell her she'll have to wait and see and then I get off ;)
Was this the hardest pick-up in history?
No, but at the same time, the fact it was very late at night, the fact it may have seemed creepy with an almost empty bus, the fact that there was this one dude right in front of us who was watching the whole thing in curiosity, the fact she ignored me at first, the fact I only had about 5 minutes tops for the whole thing to get from zero to contact info, the fact she was NOT a party girl and therefore more conservative and a bit tougher of a shell, all made this a bit more challenging than normal.
There were a lot of things here that were different from the typical "one size fits all" pick-up advice that you tend to see out there, and even some of the subtle differences are actually of major importance.
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Till next time,
Michael
