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Michael W - The Dating
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The Dating Wizard Website On a fundamental level,
most guys are making a HUGE mistake in the way they are trying to
attract women. Guys are trying to appeal to LOGIC. They try to show a
woman how GOOD they will be to her, because it seems to make SENSE
that a person should WANT to be with someone who treats them WELL.
But the problem is that SEXUAL DESIRE is OBLIVIOUS to logic.
Women are PROGRAMMED BY NATURE to feel MASSIVE sexual attraction to
someone they FEEL is SUPERIOR.
Notice I use the word FEEL. Not ACTUALLY superior, but someone they
FEEL is superior. What women FEEL are superior traits are often
INFERIOR traits from a LOGICAL stance. For example, we are hardwired
to appreciate what is hard to get.
So for example, let's say in the past, (thousands of years ago) if a
woman found that a man was hard to get, it was most likely a result of
him being too occupied with other women who took up all his
non-hunting time. The women he WAS with were attracted to his brute
hunting and survival skills, (without being conscious of WHY they were
attracted to it) and the other women who could not get him evolved to
feel attraction for such a hard to get man, (without realizing WHY
they felt that attraction) which made sense, since being hard to get
was then a good indicator of having desirable characteristics for
survival.
Today, however, it's very possible to have a man who COULD provide AND
impregnate her to have healthy children and yet NOT feel the need to
go around with many females and be "hard to get". He could be
SUPERIOR, yet also be looking to meet the right woman and commit to
her.
But women are simply NOT hardwired to feel attraction to a guy who is
this easy to get. They will feel he is an undesirable loser if he is
too easy to get.
So what happens is the jerk who is a total loser and never worked a
day in his life, and who has no time for his girlfriend because he is
too busy chasing other girls, has her going crazy for him because by
simply being HARD TO GET, he accidentally activated the SWITCH in her
head that makes her feel "THIS IS A SEXUALLY DESIRABLE GUY!"
See? It's NOT logical, but you can understand how it could have made
sense, had the REASON for being hard to get been different.
Without getting literary on you guys, the same principle of being hard
to get is at work in the most famous romance of all time, Romeo and
Juliet. They come from different environments and social classes that
are forbidden to meet, thereby making BOTH the guy and the chick crazy
about each other. Both are hard to get.
Being hard to get is just ONE of THOUSANDS of concepts of attraction.
The key point, though, is that guys are confusing what is NICE with
what actually TRIGGERS attraction, whether a woman WANTS to feel that
attraction or NOT!
A woman cannot HELP but feel attraction when you activate all the
behaviors and cues that TRIGGER attraction!! And unless you display
these cues, nothing else on earth will make one bit of difference.
PRIMAL sexual attraction is not stimulated by getting a woman to
CONSCIOUSLY THINK about who she should be with. It's not activated by
"good judgment". So forget about trying to
appeal to a woman's sense of "good sexual judgment".
When men try to appeal to her sense of good judgment, they are trying
to appeal to something that does not exist. It's totally beyond all
rational thought. The problem is that what nature gave for women as "a
sense of good judgment in guys" was actually designed for an
environment that no longer exists.
WOMEN'S PROGRAM FOR WHO TO BE ATTRACTED TO
IS ACTUALLY NOT HELPING WOMEN!
It ends up often making women attracted to guys who are HORRIBLE for
her. Guys who treat her badly. So consider women's programs as OUTDATED,
yet unchangeable. Which means that as men, we must DEAL with it and
SPEAK THE LANGUAGE of that program.
Yes, it's nothing more than a PROGRAM, designed to elicit in women the
EMOTIONAL RESPONSE CALLED SEXUAL ATTRACTION when prompted by certain
CUES.
What are these cues?
These cues are the signs, that, according to her PRIMITIVE outdated
program, signify SUPERIORITY. But the way MOST guys are acting with
women today is sending the message that MEN ARE inferior, needy,
undesirable. The effect of this has been that women are treating men
like CRAP and men have NO IDEA WHY!
As a matter of fact, men only make the situation worse by being even
NICER in the hopes that women will respond BETTER. Of course, this makes
women feel even LESS attraction for men. It's DAMN HARD for women to
find guys that ACTIVATE their switches for feeling sexual attraction.
Everything about the way most guys are says "I am NOT SUPERIOR and I am
NEEDY for a woman's approval". Most guys will just nervously glance back
and forth at a woman they want to speak to.
If they do work up the nerve to say something, the tone of his voice
usually says "I hope you like me, I'll be REEEEEALLLLY nice if you just
are NICE to me back." "Please don't hurt my feelings, they are so
fragile because I NEED approval very badly and can't afford to be
rejected".
His body language is all cramped up and nervous as if he's trying to
disappear. His style of dressing usually shows no pride or personality.
And if he is lucky enough to get a number, he calls the chick ten times
a day. And he's dead serious, as if she counts so much he can't afford
to screw up by relaxing too much for a second!
Since this has been happening on such a MASSIVE SCALE, it's reached the
point where even COOL guys are paying for the sins of the guys who have
been kissing women’s butts. A lot of cool guys today are reluctant as
heck to enter a relationship because many women are convinced that if a
guy gets into a relationship, it means she can control him, and that he
is needy.
The women then start taking ADVANTAGE of the guy.
So, by staying clear of any relationship, he makes it obvious that he
ain't needy for it, thereby showing superiority and commanding respect.
The irony is that THIS is when WOMEN start to become all clingy and
needy and REALLY want to be in a relationship with the guy.
If you want to become successful with women, you've got to get a grip on
the REALITIES of the situation today with women and dating. Most guys
have no idea of what is REALLY going on, what women are saying behind
closed doors. Women will NOT come out and tell you all their secrets and
all the truth.
 Ignorance is NOT bliss.
If you want to get out of the dark, and get up to speed, I highly
recommend you download my eBook- "The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success
with Women".
It will blow apart the myths and show you the REAL WORLD way to
successfully approach women and pick up, make a smooth transition to
getting physical, and even how to handle the “tests” that women throw
your way.
Download it now at:
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And if you would like a personal one-on-one telephone or email
consultation with myself, you can now arrange that by calling 416 630
9966 or emailing me at Michael@TheDatingWizard.com
Over the course of one million years, man has adapted and evolved
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Make the decision to become more successful with women NOW. You really
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Till next time...
Michael W
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