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Michael W - The Dating
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There’s so much I
want to tell you, it’s driving me mad. I’ve been in the field
conducting an insane amount of bootcamps and personal consultations
lately. 7 days a week, doing daytime, nighttime, groups, lone wolfs,
moving targets, streets, malls, cafes, clubs, lounges, pubs, working
with older clients, younger clients, and in several different
cities. And what's been common with many of the guys in my groups is
that there’s a heck of a lot of confusion and misinformation out
there on what it means to be COOL.
The first thing I want
to clear up is a relatively new bitter belief created by ignorant
fools that all women don’t want relationships, that supposedly they
just want to abuse guys because women these days have the “power”.
Then again, I used to be an ignorant
fool myself, so it’s not fair to blame them. Those beliefs are not
true, and they are definitely not cool.
Look, it’s all about SUPERIORITY.
It’s up to YOU.
If a woman feels you have SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE, you can BET YOUR
ASS she will want a relationship with you.
IF that’s what you want.
As far as she is concerned, if she is feeling attracted to you, then
SHE is the one getting the better deal out of having a
“relationship.” It just makes sense. When you are attracted to
something or someone, you want a LOT of it.
ALL THOSE LOVE SONGS AND LOVE STORY MOVIES AND STUFF are only BAD
for guys to watch because guys focus on the LOVE STUFF without
focusing on the REASON WHY the guy gets the LOVE stuff.
And let me tell you, the reason he GETS it is because he is
SUPERIOR.
The thing is, if a woman feels the guy has Superior Intrinsic Value,
but the guy then acts like a JERK, she will then SHUT OFF HER OWN
ATTRACTION mechanism to SAVE HERSELF FROM FEELING BAD THAT SHE CAN’T
GET HIM. So the jerk then gets kind of “vaporized” into
non-existence.
This is why a GOOD GUY who also make a woman feel he has SUPERIOR
Intrinsic Value will WIN every time vs. some guy who seems superior
but then also seems like a jerk.
In fact, the being a jerk CHANGES the guy’s category from superior
to INFERIOR.
Listen, if a guy like Brad Pitt were to go up to a woman and act
like a total asshole, trust me it would NOT turn on 99 percent of
women. Women would just feel that the guy is too full of himself.
It would be the same feeling you would get if some gorgeous woman
acted like a cold bitch to you.
Would you like that?
I didn’t think so.
Most guys wouldn’t.
Listen, Superman is a great guy, and Lois is nuts about him. Because
Superman is SUPERIOR in every way. And he is a GOOD GUY.
Here’s the other thing: If you yourself feel awesome and are
exploding with awesome emotions, you typically aren’t needy for a
relationship. Doesn’t mean you are OPPOSED to one, but you aren’t
NEEDY for it.
Most people who are needy for a relationship are really just needy
for the validation it provides, and this is why they will hook up
with the wrong people, who end up robbing them of their self-esteem
even further, creating a vicious cycle.
When you aren’t needy for a relationship, you tend to have TONS of
options for a relationship, because you are ATTRACTING tons of
women. And then you can make better choices, and choose women that
have healthy balanced lifestyles who aren’t selfish “bitches” etc.
Connecting with a woman, once she feels you are indeed superior,
once she is FEELING the attraction vibes for you, is CRITICAL. The
problem with a lot of advice material out there is that it is
UNBALANCED, it only emphasizes one element, usually sexuality, to
entice guys. Or, it ONLY emphasizes the connection stuff, and
totally ignores attraction.
Both are ridiculous extremes, yet that is what is going on. You have
the guys who are basically pandering to those who want to have
“notches” on their bedpost (usually the guys who are unable to form
human connections with others), and others who are pandering to
those who desperately want relationships, yet the truth is most
women require BOTH attraction to a guy AND a feeling of connection,
especially if this woman is not some extreme or unbalanced person.
Now, of course, there ARE women who don’t need all this stuff, girls
who sleep with a new guy every month, and then you hear stories of
how some guy creates an entire “method” on how to get girls by just
teasing the hell out of them, when in fact it’s an illusion, because
that will ONLY work on girls who are ALREADY that “type” who are
very into casual sex, etc.
In most cases, especially doing COLD PICK UPS from scratch, where
you are approaching a woman who is a total stranger, and especially
if you are not in a club, you have to be very careful about
overdoing the cocky bastard stuff at the very OUTSET of the
interaction. This is not to say not to playfully tease, but most
guys are teasing in a way that is just plain UNCOOL, because they
are doing it too much, or they are doing it in a way where it looks
like they are trying too hard.
It’s like the guy at the movie theatre who keeps on making
wisecracks at the movie, where eventually somebody tells him to shut
the f**k up, especially if the movie is not a comedy. The guy who is
making the wisecracks is obviously doing it for attention, for the
validation he gets from people laughing or reacting. And then when
no one laughs, the guy feels MORE PRESSURE to do something to TRY to
get some validation, to save himself, when the best thing he could
do to save himself is shut up.
You can see the guy is STARVING for attention, as opposed to not
being AFRAID of the attention, In fact he is AFRAID of not getting
attention.
He goes from being someone who is ADDING to the group’s energy to
someone who is taking AWAY from the group’s energy.
He goes from being cool to being a dork.
A lot of this also has to do with having basic social sense, which a
lot of guys don’t have because they weren’t taught to be aware of
this.
Guys do the same kind of thing with women ALL THE TIME, they come
across like dorks seeking responses and attention from women. In
other words, the guys come across like TAKERS. They want attention
from women.
If they would chill out some more, they would be able to enjoy the
situation more, and thus be naturally be more aware of the dynamics
of that situation, whether it is a club or a library that they have
met a woman in, or whether she is with her friends or whether she is
already into him or not.
Another word for all this is CALIBRATION.
Regarding the teasing stuff, for most guys, they would be better to
start off with just a TOUCH of playful teasing for moment, for
example, and immediately work your way into rapport for a few
minutes, and then sprinkle some more attraction stuff into your
interaction.
Allow your body language and tonality to carry a lot of the initial
attract stuff in the first 30 seconds.
Another thing:
If you are approaching a moving target (i.e. in a mall) and she is
by herself, it’s EXTRA IMPORTANT to not creep her out. Start off at
a very LOW KEY ALTITUDE, do not come in there flying at high
intensity or you are going to seem damn weird.
Your tonality and your opener should be very matter of fact, whether
you are using an opinion opener or canned material or something from
yourself from the spur of the moment, the real critical point is to
make sure your mannerisms are laid back. Think about it- she is
moving, by herself, and you are some guy approaching her. Everything
she has been conditioned has taught her to watch out for this kind
of thing, so your first priority is not even to attract, it’s to not
freak her out.
And if you would like to get the FULL PICTURE on how to
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The bootcamp will get you to where you want to be in the most
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unpredictable situations that can arise, I'll show you HOW to deal
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and HOW to actually isolate girls, HOW to deal with her friends, and
of COURSE how to pick up in daytime as well. And you'll also get to
learn how to REALLY create a natural vibe to the whole interaction
so that she doesn't feel weird about meeting you the next time.
I wish somebody could have taught me all this stuff at one shot over
a weekend instead of having to learn it piece by piece, from various
different guys and from tons of my own mistakes and experiences over
YEARS. During those years, it was often like walking blindfolded
into the lion's cage, where I got ripped apart. If you want to avoid
the feeling of being punched in from all sides at once, and if you
want to learn as fast as possible, I recommend you sign up for the
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Go to:
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Till next time,
Michael W.
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