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Do you ever get that sinking feeling or knots in
your stomach when you see a truly gorgeous woman near you?
Do you feel like "Man, she is SO beautiful, what the heck do I do? What do I
have to offer?" Well, let me tell you something: You have to actually RAISE
your standards.
Now you might be saying "What?! Hey Michael are you off your rocker? She's
AMAZING, and you're telling me to RAISE my standards?!!"
This is what I mean:
The reason why a guy gets freaked out when he sees a hot woman is simple: It's
because he believes she is actually BEYOND his worth. That's just the way we
are, we all WANT what is BEYOND our reach, sometimes to the point of
obsession.
We also tend to have this concept of where we think we belong in the scheme of
things- what we can get, what we can't. But how accurate is this concept? How
did most of us get this concept?
When it comes to our sense of sexual self-worth, we usually got it from
judging the way women responded to us, etc.
The problem with this self-evaluation is that in most cases where the
evaluation is harsh, it's crucial to realize that THE WAY WOMEN
RESPONDED TO YOU was a result of YOUR UN-NATURAL BEHAVIOR! You heard me
right. It was NOT your natural behavior.
Buying chocolates, flowers, giving compliments, and calling a woman
three times a day and telling her you love her after one week, and
acting nervous around women was something you actually LEARNED to do by
observation and reading, etc.
You LEARNED TO BEHAVE THAT WAY.
One of the reasons you behaved that way was because you were TAUGHT
(through movies, TV shows, advice from parents, etc) that women were
delicate, non-sexual, made of sugar and spice, and that women
appreciated super nice guys, etc. So you figured "Okay, then I'll buy
women flowers, chocolates, dinners, compliment them, etc. and then
they’ll like me”. Then you got less than wonderful results. And then you
labeled yourself as if it was a permanent label.
In reality, if no one ever told you to do these things, and if you
weren't brainwashed, you would probably treat women with a FUN
mischievous attitude, since you would be feeling energetic and in
control as a result of your own NATURAL horniness. This "sex" state of
mind is NATURAL, a good thing, and keeps you in the right state of mind,
keeping your behavior very masculine, AND IT TURNS WOMEN ON, it puts
women into the sexual desire zone.
Get this: It's IMPOSSIBLE to be sexual (or horny) and scared at the same
time.
Think about that.
Naturally, you would be horny (I said horny, NOT DESPERATE) around
women, and that would be GOOD for attracting women. Instead, you have
learned to SHORT-CIRCUIT your natural MALE hormones and masculinity that
women are ATTRACTED to, and you actually start getting nervous, scared,
etc. This PREVENTS you from clicking the switch in a woman that says
"Here is a MALE, so sexual desire can go ON."
So let me help you get back to that natural state that is so sexy to
women.
You are a MAN.
You don't have to apologize for being a man. It's what women actually
WANT - a wild, natural, horny man that is comfortable with his
sexuality. Don't mask your sexuality. "Nice guys" often pretend they are
sexless and could go on for hours talking to a woman about stocks,
science, etc, to impress her.
That’s a waste of time and counter-productive- women want a MAN, not a
robot. Sprinkling in a bit of sexual innuendo or jokes or teases when
you are speaking with a woman is GOOD. It shows you are sexual. It’s
also crucial to show your specifically male sexual characteristics, such
as dominance.
Remember, men have been shaped by evolution to be dominant, it’s what
enabled us to survive. And women needed men who had the rugged
behavioral characteristics for survival. That’s why today women are
attracted to us men only when we behave like MEN.
Women are hard wired to only feel sexual attraction for men who seem
like men. If you repress your natural male behaviors, your sexuality,
your dominance, etc., a woman cannot feel attraction. Makes sense,
right? And the way to get back to your natural male self is to RAISE
YOUR STANDARDS. When your standards are way too low, you think you can't
get beautiful women, and you then behave that way in front of women,
which they can detect and thereby interpret as you actually being
unworthy. (read: UNSEXY)
The problem is that most guys get freaked out since they believe that
attractive women are "out of their league". So RAISE YOUR STANDARDS to
include the fact that JUST BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL is NOT ENOUGH - she
has to have a winning personality too. Whenever I meet any woman, no
matter how beautiful, I am ALWAYS thinking from my gut that if she
doesn't have a cool personality SHE'S just not going to get anywhere
with ME.
Women can sense this type of attitude, if you really mean it (and I do)
and it immediately separates you from the pack because most guys act
like a beautiful woman is some kind of divine force. She ain't, she's a
human being, and if she's not cool with personality as well, it
shouldn't be worth peanuts to you.
RAISE YOUR STANDARDS and you'll suddenly find that it's actually EASIER
to meet gorgeous women, because women are ATTRACTED to men who are the
SELECTORS and don't just take whatever they can get. You activate a
competitive streak in a woman when you do this, you put into effect one
of the most motivating forces in the universe: A CHALLENGE. You convey
that you are the SUPERIOR MALE who SELECTS the OPTIMUM FEMALE. (instead
of taking leftovers.) This triggers MASSIVE desire in a woman, because
we are all programmed to desire the BEST of the opposite gender.
I don't do this anymore, but a few years ago, I would visit the best
strip clubs, where just about every dancer was drop dead gorgeous, and
upon leaving, suddenly almost every other woman I would see, I almost
felt sorry for them that they weren't as beautiful. (The dancers
semi-nude puts you into a frame of mind where they are even more
gorgeous than they would appear otherwise.) It was so easy going up to
women in public places and getting numbers and emails. These women
sensed that I was totally at ease, almost as if I was doing A FAVOUR FOR
THEM by giving them the opportunity to give me their email!
ALL BECAUSE MY STANDARDS WERE INSTINCTIVELY RAISED.
I'm not saying you have to go to strip clubs to raise your standards,
although it is one way.
You can raise your standards in many ways, be it their looks, their
specific characteristics, personality traits, etc. Personally, my
highest standards go for personality, because every woman has the power
to have a good personality and when gorgeous women see that their looks
cannot hypnotize me they try harder to be fun people as well.
When you raise your standards, you become the SELECTOR, instead of the
SELECTEE. And this stirs in a woman a whole lot of that thing called
sexual desire.
So be bold, and stop "hoping" to get a chance with a beautiful woman.
Instead, hope that SHE has a chance with YOU. Let this attitude show in
your initial approach, by not kissing the ground she walks on. Have fun
and tease her like you would a good buddy. Without telling her directly,
let her know you've got standards too, just like she does.
Giving compliments and telling a woman she is the most beautiful thing
you've seen (when you’ve just met her) as your jaw is agape in wonder
DOES NOT make her feel like you are a SELECTOR. It makes her feel like
SHE is a selector, and therefore, that you are inferior. This equals
ZERO ATTRACTION. And if you want to know how to become the SELECTOR
instead of the SELECTEE, and how to get back to your NATURAL self that
turns women ON, then I recommend you download my ebook, The Dating
Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women.
In my book, I also show you exactly how to approach women, how to get
numbers and emails, how to make the transition to arranging a date, how
to get physical, and even how to succeed at relationships. Guys who read
my book tell me that it's the most complete guide to the topic of
success with women, and that it also feels natural- you don't have to be
a clown, you don't have to be rich, you don't have to be wealthy. You
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satisfied, just let me know and you'll get your money back. But to be
honest, most guys believe it's been one of the very best investments
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how to succeed with women. If someone had offered me this book a few
years ago, when I was struggling to get this area of my life under
control, I would have gladly paid ten times the price.
And if you want to LEARN the behaviors that
INSTINCTIVELY turn women ON, and if you want to know how to SMOOTHLY
handle all complaints and "tests" from a woman so that she will be WILD
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Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women.
It's jam-packed with SOLID, proven concepts on how to trigger ATTRACTION
in women. In the book, I also show you, step-by-step, exactly how
to get numbers, emails, and dates. Plus I show how to make the
transition to "getting physical" and what to do when you're there.
My book reveals what women REALLY think and what they'll NEVER tell you.
(Now that the cat is out of the bag, a lot of women are going to wish
this book was never made!)
 And I explain why all of this works so you can understand it and get a
NATURAL feel for it. I would have done just about anything legal to have
a
book like this when I was struggling to understand women. I spent years
learning the things the hard way, and then wrote it all down in a book
that is easy to understand.
You can begin reading this important information within MINUTES of now.
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And if you would like a personal one-on-one telephone or email
consultation with myself, you can now arrange that by calling 416 630
9966 or emailing me at Michael@TheDatingWizard.com
Over the course of one million years, man has adapted and evolved
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Make the decision to become more successful with women NOW. You really
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Till next time...
From someone who's been there,
Michael W
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