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Do you want to know the best kept dirty little secret?
Attraction is nothing but an INVOLUNTARY emotional reaction to someone who we EMOTIONALLY perceive to have great POWER.
That's it.

POWER defines everything. It unfortunately defines who is "right", who is "wrong", who is desirable, and even WHAT is "right" and WHAT is "wrong".

In fact, just about EVERY emotion relates back to power, which is a very sophisticated concept beyond the scope of this one article, but devastatingly true nonetheless.

This concept NEVER made COMPLETE sense to me till I finally saw the truth about women.

POWER is sexy. It attracts. Everyone.

All the "attractive" things are just forms of power. For example:

1. Physical looks- sign of vitality, health, survival, ability to bear children, etc.

2.Money- obvious form of power.

3. Status- positions in society- again obvious form of power through level of control or influence over others.

4. Attitude/Self-Esteem- indicates power and ability to succeed in life; a guy who seems positive and confident may also reflect a powerful position or that he has a lot going for him now or potentially in the future, etc.

5. Intelligence- human ingenuity has been one of the keys to our survival as a species.

6. Having large circles of connections, etc.
And on and on ad infinitum...

But the bottom line is that TODAY, most men in our society have been STRIPPED of power, PRIMARILY BECAUSE PERCEPTION is power, and men have been brainwashed to PERCEIVE that they are LESS valuable than they REALLY are to women.

Also, things like testosterone and aggression and muscle are NOT needed from a practical standpoint by women thanks to technology. (although a degree of machismo as an attitude can be VERY ATTRACTIVE if applied in the right way, BECAUSE culture has not changed the visceral primal nature of humanity)

Also, men are stripped of their power through brainwashing that women are all Disney-style innocents, hence the FLOOD of guys who are ass-kissers EVERYWHERE, guys who are willing to be IGNORANT "providers" to women, and who serve as psychological punching bags for women.

Also, a lot of guys today, they look at how their MOMS AND GRANDMOMS behave, because some of those women grew up BEFORE men became morons and spineless, I.E. before women could easily walk over your typical guy.

So men are unsuspecting of the TRUTH that is going on TODAY.

So, when women get all this POWER, they cannot HELP but USE it.

ESPECIALLY since WOMEN are being BRAINWASHED into believing (or have brainwashed themselves in order to rationalize their behavior) that MOST men are "CONTROLLING", INSECURE, DESPERATE, WEIRDOS/PSYCHOS/LOSERS.

This is on a superficial level, but still, it affects a woman enough to screw up a guy's attempts at pick up if he isn't aware of how to blow this stuff to smithereens.

Once a woman believes this, it becomes relatively easy to not only USE men, but to also feel GOOD about it.

Women who are attractive have every need provided for- there are TONS of ass-kissers to provide emotional support, so of course the value of emotional support (read: boyFRIEND) goes down to almost zero, and they are instead just looking to be with the most POWERFUL guy they believe they can meet- whatever that combination is- attitude, behavior, looks, money, dress, connections, status, etc.

Even things like a fun upbeat personality- like being a confident guy who teases women, it's still nothing more than a sign of confidence and power and vitality.

Careful though with smiling too much especially if she sees you smiling before you even talk to her, especially in a public non-party place like a bookstore, because that will put her on her ANTI-SLUT alert, since she figures you are thinking sex too obviously and she figures that is the reason you are smiling. Wait till after you have opened the conversation smoothly and earned her respect. Then your smile is welcome and appreciated.

Most men grow up WITHOUT THE SKILLS to attract a woman, so all they see is how difficult it is to meet a woman who is not spoiled. This leads to a situation where often it is MEN who cherish relationships more these days, since it seems so impossible to get a normal woman who is also hot.

The truth is that most men have been stripped of their power, and yet the WHOLE THING has been PURELY PSYCHOLOGICAL, done through BRAINWASHING.

Men have unknowingly "let" all this happen!

All from IGNORANCE and ass-kissers (who are not to be blamed, for they don't know) who believe women are special and more moral than men.

Hence the floodgates to corruption have flowed in. This is why knowing the skills is SO important, because it REVERSES the process, it gets women to eventually be CHASING you, instead of you chasing them.

Lest anyone read this post and think that I have negative feelings towards women, they are absolutely wrong.

I simply believe power corrupts, no matter who has it. Be it a three-year-old child who is spoiled by parents who over indulge the child, or be it an adult who comes into almost superhuman power.

Power is ATTRACTIVE.
Might is right.
Just as Thrasymachus said long ago in The Republic.

The way I look at it, it's just a question of WHO has the might.

So if we as men believe what is going on right now in society is "wrong", then we need to increase our power, both as a gender, and as individuals within our relationships with women.

The truth though is that most guys will never call up the guts it takes to change, so you are going to have to mostly just focus on yourself and not worry about changing the world. The best way to change the world is to change your life and lead by example. Other men will learn from your example. Then maybe we can have the annual Wizard reunion of all the guys who have changed their lives!

I am so absolutely convinced that all relationships are power based, that to enter any form of sexual relationship without being CLEARLY in a position of superior power is like turning on the timer to a ticking bomb.

Women do NOT want equals. I repeat:
Women do NOT want equals. They want a guy who they feel is SUPERIOR to them.

If you want to be an equal, I guarantee you that at best you will become a FRIEND of a woman. A male girlfriend.

Whether it's called attraction, love, desire, loyalty, etc, it's all simply a human reaction to someone with POWER.

And today, women are not only KEEPING all their power, not only EXPANDING on it everyday, and not only MANIPULATING men with it, most men are GIVING IT all away, and doing it with PLEASURE.

And I REPEAT: Women are NOT "evil" in one tiny iota for this- it's simply the result of a massive power shift where most men have become SITTING DUCKS.

Just as women trying to look their best, wearing make-up, doing their hair, smiling, acting SWEET and INNOCENT, and feminine, yet acting HARD TO GET, are all "manipulations" designed so that men will give their entire hearts and devotion and power to a woman, so too is TAKING ADVANTAGE of the "sitting duck" situation designed so that men will give away all their power to women.

It's an unconscious process, by the way.

But it's ALL PART OF THE "GAME" in women's minds, and it's RATIONALIZED to women's minds.

Of COURSE women are going to take advantage of sitting ducks.

The same way YOU would take advantage of a guy giving out million dollar bills in exchange for a smile from you.

Could YOU resist?
And hey, it's not even illegal!!!!!!
And most men aren't protesting it, they are HAPPY to be ass kissers, in exchange for a smile, or whatever else.

This falls under what a friend of mine calls "PEDDLING DECENCY".

Just as women are attracted to powerful men, one of thing that most MEN are attracted to is a beautiful woman who is also SWEET AND WHO SEEMS NICE.

That's because most men think in terms of scarcity of women, so men appreciate the "sweetness". Me personally, I'd take a woman who has a GREAT attitude and is honest and upbeat over "sweet" any day of the week. Most of that "sweet" stuff is hogwash, it's a METHOD they use.

I used to be attracted to "sweet" stuff, but now I'm like a mind reader and I can read the "subtitles" below it all, it's all a tactic. You have no idea how smooth women really are, and how smoothly and naturally they use their own strategies to get what they want from guys. But once you see this stuff for what it is, you really just roll your eyes and laugh at it.

Now, do you REALLY think for a SECOND that women don't KNOW how effective acting "sweet" is for them?

Do you really think that women are stupid?
That they would not ACT sweet if acting sweet will make them far more attractive?

There are also guys who DON'T find women who are "sweet" to be attractive, and if a woman finds out, she will quickly do her part to be whatever works, as long as he is what SHE is looking for.

But PEDDLING DECENCY is a HUGE strategy for women that gives women POWER.

Men need to smell the roses and get a whiff of the truth.

Ultimately, every element/tactic that works for attraction is a tool that helps us convey POWER to a woman, whether it is REAL or PERCEIVED. Every tiny action, tonality, movement, word, article of clothing, the image of the people you hang out with, is either INCREASING YOUR POWER, or DIMINISHING it.

As human beings, we can easily get addicted to this thing called power unless we are hyper aware of what is going on and that our brain is playing with us. In reality, the more power you get, the more you hunger to INCREASE your power.

This boils down to SURVIVAL mechanisms inside our brain. Consider human progress, and how we constantly strive to go further, do more, (even as we often create more problems in this process).

We all want to benefit from those with power, and so we are naturally attracted to them. With men and women, it becomes a sexual thing. Within our gender, it becomes a "charismatic" thing.

When we GET the approval of someone we consider powerful, it makes us feel more SECURE. It makes us feel good.

Unless you ALREADY FEEL TOTALLY HAPPY, then NOTHING influences you. But how many people, whether men or women, are like that?

And since women tend to get FAR MORE approval from men than vice versa, women are only hungrier for MORE. Ever wonder what this does to relationships? Or what it does to a guy who is EASY?

He gets eaten up for breakfast and is forgotten by LUNCH. Ultimately, all this really has very little to do with sex. If it was all about the physical need for sexual release, all people would just be happy with one person, or marriage etc.

But since most people are not secure, they have low esteem, and feel the HUNGER for more security, for more validation, for more POWER.

This causes an INFINITE array of issues that DISGUISE themselves as sexual issues.

So, for example, in a relationship or marriage, as soon as sex becomes easily available and reliable, and there is no need to worry about it anymore, the focus becomes on getting MORE power and getting the approval of OTHERS. They seek NOT new SEXUAL stimulus so much as FURTHER BONDS WITH POWERFUL PEOPLE to increase their own power.

That is why people look for "spice" which is so often linked to psychological issues i.e. any form of wanting to violate a "TABOO" is nothing more than enjoying the feeling of POWER over breaking a prohibition. Without a prohibition, there is no joy to break it. BREAKING it is an assertion of POWER.

That's why making out with a girl at her parent's house with her parents in the next room is so much fun! And why "getting physical" or "going all the way" there is even more crazy, as she begs you to give her the pillow so she can scream into the pillow to muffle her screams of pleasure!

The desire to assert control over whatever the hell is being forbidden. Take away the taboo or the prohibition and goodbye spice! Imagine if her parents were like "hey, go ahead and please do the nasty here right now". It would just be weird.

For example, turn ON the lights in a "naughty" dance club and GOODBYE the to "kick" or the enjoyment of it all. Ever wonder why clubs are "taboo" atmosphere? Why they have names that evoke things that are "naughty" and taboo and forbidden?

Because it's a rush of POWER to feel like you are so powerful that you can BREAK 'the rules".

This is why kids who have no idea of the purpose of rules enjoy breaking them so much. All they know is that there is something forbidden, they don't know why, so they enjoy the rush and the POWER of being brats!!!!!

Since women have been brainwashed to believe men are assholes and controlling, women are often "rebelling" i.e. acting out on the impulse to REVOLT at the perceived "control".

Again, it's the insecurity, the need for more POWER.

Ultimately, everyone is just seeking that nice warm fuzzy feeling called security that comes from having POWER.

For a woman, love/passion/lust are all INVOLUNTARY feelings that ERUPT in full force when she thinks about a man with the ultimate combo of POWER.

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Till next time,
Michael W.

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Michael W, better known as The Dating Wizard, is a dating and relationship consultant for men, as well as a frequent guest on radio and television talk shows. Michael has spent over four years studying the specific male behaviors that trigger attraction in women. His findings are based on both his real life observations of men who are successful with women, as well as his research on evolutionary psychology and its applications to sexual attraction.

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