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Michael W - The Dating
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***Question from a
newsletter reader***
Michael,
I read your book and I think you explain things very clearly. I'm
happy to say I understood the message loud and clear. I am great at
talking to women now I'm funny and never come off as being needy.
But my biggest problem does not come from not being THE MAN but from
the approach. I need more creative ways to break the ice, once I'm in,
I'm IN- but its hard form me to watch hot honeys walk past me and not
have an opening. Most of the time I just sit back and think that I
know she would have loved to talk to me.
What do you recommend as a good opener just to get us talking. Now
that I have fixed up my game all I need to do now is find a way to
start a convo.
Toronto,
Ian
***The Dating Wizard Replies:
The trick to opening a conversation with a woman and turning her ON is
to convey that you are desirable, dominant, and not needy. One easy
way to do this when you "open" is to TEASE her in a way that is
friendly but also says that you don't need her for your self-esteem.
So if you can't IMMEDIATELY find something to tease her with, if you
don't quickly see something about her that you can bust her on, then
have some READY MADE openers for SPECIFIC situations, and also some
UNIVERSAL openers.
So let's say you're at the supermarket, then have openers like "Do you
clean as well as cook?" while she's in the poultry section, for
example. Then, whatever she replies, i.e. if she says "No", then say,
"Oh well, then it will never work between us" with a sly attitude.
Sometimes, you'll find there is nothing that happens to be PERFECTLY
TAILORED for the situation, so for those situations, you'll use the
UNIVERSAL openers, like for example a straight-from-the-hip no-b.s.
"what's up".
Remember YOUR BELIEF that YOU are more than worthy must be stronger
than HER BELIEF
that she is superior. So if YOU are delivering the line congruently,
in terms of body language, tonality, and inner core beliefs, your
opener will work.
But if you act like you think it will not work, as if you think you
are doing a criminal "act", or as if the whole thing is corny, it will
seem that way to her too.
You MUST be totally congruent internally.
On the street, I might stop a girl by saying "Where do you think
you're GOING?" in a playful way, as if I caught her in the middle of
her doing something naughty. If they say "shopping" or whatever, I
just tease them on their answer.
I'll say "Shopping?!!" Is that where you are going in Life?!! Where
are you really going in life?"
I do all this in a FUN way, so the girl is having a good time, yet I
am not kissing her butt either. I'm TEASING her and I'm MAKING HER
DAY. Once you have the conversation going, use her answers to tease
her some more, and then get into some small talk and get her email.
***QUESTION FROM A READER:
Hi Michael-
Being THE MAN is incredibly powerful. I think I have a gal intimidated.
(She's very beautiful, but self conscious about things like her small
chest).
Do you think you can be THE MAN to a fault? I understand never to stop
being THE MAN. But what's the best way to warm-up to a girl, and
maintain all this excellent advice? Girls can be nervous too. I think
she's now fearing rejection from me!!! Isn't that ironic!?
Thanks,
Tom
***MY FEEDBACK:
Yes, it is possible to freak them out and they will fear rejection from
you. The answer to this is when you APPROACH A WOMAN for the first time,
START OFF with a BANG, and then AFTER this, get into "real"
conversation.
So for example, start off by teasing her for a few minutes, not too
long...
And THEN, when she starts to SHOW INTEREST in any of dozens of ways, for
example, she starts to become really friendly, or she starts to touch
you, or she starts telling you how much she has in common with you, or
she starts trying to impress you, you can then have a more "real"
conversation like you are used to- but don't let it be a boring
conversation.
Being THE MAN is about making it clear you have value. But if you go
"non-stop" it actually is counter-productive because it looks like you
either REALLY don't give a DAMN about her, in which case she feels
hopeless, or it can even make you look psycho or desperate as if you are
hiding behind a mask of over-the-top behavior.
Once you have done your job of showing you are THE MAN, and a woman
shows you that she WANTS to talk to you, LET HER. You've earned it.
Otherwise she will wonder why the hell you started talking to her in the
first place, since she will feel like you are JUST teasing her and
nothing else- i.e. robbing HER of all the fun. She ENJOYS talking to you
now, she wants to communicate that, so let her.
BEING THE MAN does not mean to be CRUEL. It's about balance.
And if by chance she suddenly starts to test you in middle of the
conversation, relax. It's usually just a test, so all you have to do is
just show that you don't put up with b.s. and act like are about to
leave. If she likes you, she will get you to stay. And she'll value you
even more because she WORKED to get your approval.
And if you've enjoyed reading this newsletter and would like to be so
successful with women that you actually have to HOLD BACK so that WOMEN
don't feel that YOU are "out of their league", then I recommend you
download and read my eBook- The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with
Women.
This is the information that WORKS.
In the book, I explain how to get the right mindset, and I explain how
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 Also, with the book comes full "service". If you have a question about
ANY of the material that you read, I will personally answer it by email
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You can start using the concepts NOW by downloading the book at:
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And if you would like a personal one-on-one telephone or email
consultation with myself, you can now arrange that by calling 416 630
9966 or emailing me at Michael@TheDatingWizard.com
Over the course of one million years, man has adapted and evolved
powerful strategies for attracting women.
Now, you can learn them all in just a few hours of reading and practice.
Make the decision to become more successful with women NOW. You really
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Till next time...
Michael W |
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