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The only path to creating ultimate attraction
when it comes to a woman is to open the floodgates of her
imagination and fantasy and then help her live that fairy tale.
This might sound impossible, but it's not, because once you have
sparked her fantasies, she will do her best to go along with the
fantasy version of you, because we are all starving to get out of
this mundane existence and we will suspend our disbelief to
experience a more intoxicating and higher emotional plane of
existence.
So if you do your part, a woman will gladly do her part, and this
allows her to, for all intents and purposes, live her fantasy, for
the mind does not distinguish between an emotion that is experienced
through fantasy or through reality, as long as it is experienced.
That is why, right now, if you recall a specific happy memory in
explicit and full detail, you will experience the emotion. It is not
"fake". The emotional experience is real.
The thing about all this, is that some of these fantasies and types
of personalities are extremely powerful and are not necessary nor
always even smart for attracting a woman for a casual sexual
relationship or a one-night stand kind of thing.
This stuff is about massive attraction, and you don't want to hurt a
girl by creating this level of attraction and then jumping ship. In
fact, a girl that's looking for something casual might get
emotionally freaked out by this stuff since she knows it will lead
to HER feeling massive intense emotions, and she's obviously not
ready for that or she wouldn't be only looking for the casual thing.
If you just want the one night stand thing, go in there, tease the
girl, get her laughing, then lean back some more and chill out and
make small talk and physically escalate.
And in fact, that is solid game for starting off with just about any
woman. You can often also escalate to this other stuff as she gets
to find out more about you.
Okay, so more on this whole other dimension of attraction.
How do you open up the floodgates to her sexual fantasies and
imagination?
The best thing to first do is realize that not every woman is the
same in this department.
You're better off to first figure out which type of fantasy your
real character would most naturally fall into, and then cultivate
that. And then be that person always, and the women who are into
that will certainly be drawn to you.
For example, if you are a brooding, tormented soul, that might not
be the best match for being the wild bad boy. And if you are a wild
party guy at heart, then trying to turn yourself into the tormented
artistic soul might not be the best match.
The dark soul, the brooding artist, attracts many women because he
is unaffected by her beauty since he is so far beyond that into his
own world, his own emotional creations, etc.
Also, when he does connect with her emotionally, his passion is
intense and he also has an uncanny ability to pace her emotional
reality, so he knows exactly what to do when, because he is
brilliant at understanding emotion. He can be in sexual sync both
physically and mentally with her at a level that no other guy has
ever done.
You have to choose your identity, who you are going to be, and it
makes sense to choose who you most closely fall into and polish
that. It's far more natural that way, and far less work for you as
well.
Are you the Donald Trump type? The go getter who thrives in that
environment?
Are you more the passionate artist type?
Distant, brooding, moody, yet emotionally brilliant and on fire in
that environment?
Are you the adrenaline junkie, the race car driver skydiving bad boy
type?
The party animal who just breathes that and loves that scene?
An adventurer, outdoor type who builds his own cabin, does his own
hunting, etc.?
And so many more.
These categories can sometimes overlap, but can also totally cancel
each other out, so common sense prevails here.
One thing though about any of these identities, you can still never
break any of the "laws of physics" of attraction. Giving her the
emotional sensation of you as being excellent, as being cool, is
still paramount, and so is the importance of you creating that
connection so that when she does get the pay-off of your validation
she feels boosted by it. And of course I cover all this in my
materials, and in an advanced manner in my Seduction Mastery CD Set.
Think about which type of identity you most closely resemble
personality-wise, and then polish it up. Dress the part.
Look, the reality is that we are all constantly just playing
different roles. The question is, is the role you are playing
serving you?
We play the role of a father, son, brother, employee, supervisor,
boss, citizen, and we act different in all these roles. We don't
behave the same with our friends as we do with our parents, as we do
with grandma or with the bus driver or your brother or sister or the
police etc. And yet these are all still true dimensions of
ourselves.
So why not choose the role that turns women on the most, and that
most closely suits you anyway, and cultivate it?
If you're not sure of who you are, think of what your passions are.
Develop yourself in that direction.
I could write infinite material on this, but let me just state right
here, that clearly, the different identities I outlined briefly
above in terms of attractive identities that capture a woman's
imagination, these personas speak differently, dress differently,
spend their free time differently, etc.
I'm going to now transition to a slightly different topic now, but
it's still related.
In 1971, a Stanford university professor conducted an experiment
observing the effects of prisoner and guard behavior and the effect
of taking on these roles.
15 students took part, and a section of the basement of the
university was turned into a prison, complete will cells. 7 students
took on the role of guards, 7 took on the role of prisoners.
One student was the warden. The guards were not allowed to
physically harm the prisoners, but were allowed to do just about
anything else to show them who was "in charge".
The experiment was supposed to last 2 weeks.
They had to end the experiment after 6 days, because the guards had
become outright psycho and cruel beyond belief. And every student,
before the experiment was started, was checked out to make sure they
were mentally and emotionally sound and fine.
Also, virtually no one challenged the ethics of the experiment. Not
the parents, not the minister who visited them, no one.
They all simply accepted their roles and the thought that this was
just "not real" was not even existent anymore.
What does this have to do with your success with women?
Plenty.
If pretending to be a role for only six days is enough to get you to
change your concept of reality, how massive do you think the impact
would be to you if you redefined your own "role", your own identity?
For example, instead of taking on the role of the guy who does not
approach women, take on the role of a guy who does. You will believe
you are what you continuously do.
Second, another point I need to bring up is the fact that women have
been given a massive role in society to act hard to get. But it's
just a role! A role, however that is rarely challenged, because most
guys take on the role of the submissive!
They kiss up, buy women things for no good reason except out of hope
the woman will stay with them because of it, etc. I can honestly say
that it's been several years since I ever bought a woman anything in
the hope that she would like me more because of it. The only time I
buy a woman anything is after it's clear she is into me with no
money-strings attached.
There have been times when this role that I took on was challenged
by some women, but I truly believe it is crazy for a guy to buy a
woman's affection, it's absurd and an insult, so I really am
congruent with my role.
And that leads to me giving the woman I am with a new role, the role
of respecting a guy who doesn't take b.s.
Most people have weak mindsets, and so they just follow the masses.
They take on any role they are given if it comes from "the matrix"
i.e. "it's what you are supposed to do" even if it makes no sense.
But by the same token, if they meet someone who has a stronger frame
of reality, and who will give them a different role and totally
believe that it is the right thing, then people will accept the new
role.
i.e. If you have a strong enough frame of your reality, you can then
give a woman a different role with you than the one she has with
other guys.
You are the guy that she respects. The other guys are the guys that
she plays for money, favours, and emotional abuse.
I'm being a little harsh here, because not all women are like that,
but definitely most women are used to the role that society has
given them of getting gifts and being the ones to screen the guy,
and not the other way around. This was a joke back in the day 50
years ago, because men had infinitely more power than women then.
Not now though, now with women's equality, which is a cool thing, it
only makes sense that if men kiss ass, men are actually now in an
inferior position. Before, it was charming, now it's
self-destructive.
Finally, I'd like to answer a fresh email that just came in like a
few minutes ago. Fresh is good.
Before we start the letter, I just want to make it clear that the
"look-up" mentioned below was something I was doing without
realizing it, until a reader who was generous enough wrote in about
it, and shared it with everyone. In brief, the "look-up" is where
you calmly look a girl's entire body up and down, but don't make it
clear right away what you think. You are sizing her up, and it's a
turn on for her. Nice sexual tension.
>>>LETTER<<<
Hi Michael,
I was hoping you can enlighten me with your wizardry...
You probably hear this allot but I'm sure it doesn't bother you to
hear it again :)
I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO WITHOUT your e-BOOK and NEWSLETTERS and
soon your
Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program!!!
I won't get too much into details but I really just wanted to get
your opinion on this situation. My friends and I got together at
somebody's house to do some pre-drinking and these 3 girls were
invited to join, when the girls came in I noticed this one girl who
I just wanted to get to know...
I used your famous stare up and down move and look away - it worked
like a charm! She came over and introduced herself to me, we got
pretty close at the club and then one of my friends came to me and
told me to watch out for her she's a 'gold digger and a tease' (I
wanted to find out for myself).
The next day she got her girlfriend to get my number and called me
to set up a date with me (I thought it was so sexy when girls do
that) I still wanted to test her by wearing so so clothes and
driving a whatever car to see if she has a weird reaction to it.
Throughout the date I kept the conversation light and very easy
going, when the bill came for like $10 she reached to her purse but
I said don't worry about it (at least she reached).
The next day she text' me all day and then all of a sudden she
stops! I didn't think much of it so the next day I decided to give
her a call and ask her out for that same night she agreed and we
went out to a bar and grabbed some drinks, again, I kept the facial
expression to a minimum and I played it as cool as possible using
teasing and getting her to the 'right' state.
The bill came and she decided to go to the bathroom (how
convenient)... so I ended paying for the bill, that kind of bothered
me specially when I don't really remember her thanking me either. I
get to the car and I turn her around and plant a nice soft one on
her then I drop her off at home and through another kiss at her and
goodnight.
As of today I am a little confused at what I should do next....
should I keep pursuing her even though I have other prospects I am
looking at? should I wait until she text/call me or should I do it
after a certain number of days? how should I handle a woman like
that?? should I even bother?
You can post this if you wish....maybe somebody else out there is
going through the same s*&%$
Regards,
B.
>>>MY REPLY<<<
Thanks for the props on the eBook and my newsletters, it's kind of
cool to hear from guys that are out there using it and taking
action. So props to you, and you're going to love the new killer
stuff in the Mastery program.
Sounds like you were damn congruent off the bat with the look up, as
she responded immediately and came to you. Nice.
You were sexual, confident, playful, and chilled out.
It also sounds to me that your friend(s) might be a bit of a party
pooper, no offense. I could be wrong. But when a bunch of guys are
drinking, and 3 chicks come in, and one of the chicks is damn into
you, it's not like this is a marriage proposal going on. So why ruin
the fun? Gold digger, shmold digger! She's into you and you are a
smart guy who knows not to give your gold away so fast, right?
Methinks maybe your friends were perhaps feeling that frustrating
feeling known as "wanting to shag the living daylights out of her,
but also not having a clue how to get there". But this doesn't mean
your friend are bad, they might just be typical guys locked into the
matrix, it's all good.
The problem might just be that you let them ruin your entire inner
game and your vibe.
You went from the fun sexual guy who attracted her, to the worried
guy focused on not losing. Stop focusing on not losing and get back
into the original vibe you had, of being a man who loves women and
goes for it, focused on the good stuff.
That other vibe, that these guys were giving you, is all wrong. Even
if the chick is a gold digger, you can easily find out yourself, and
if she's not a gold digger, your negative vibes about this whole
thing will turn her off. So taking the negative route will sabotage
even the best of possibilities.
So, the whole thing was wrong after that.
She got her girl to get your number, and she set up a date with you.
No reason for you to try to act less than you are.
You can always find out damn fast if she's a gold digger anyway.
Especially since you are already in the know from all the cool stuff
you got from the book and the newsletter!
The negative focus changed the entire emotional dynamic, the entire
atmosphere, the air between you two.
And still, she did reach for her purse. I would have playfully got
her to split the bill and turned it into how I'm all for women's
independence. This actually sets up a great sexual dynamic, because
the woman then knows she certainly isn't going to get free dinners
out of this, so she may as well get some awesome and serious sex.
That's all you're good for!
Anyway, it wasn't over yet, as she texted you ALL day the next day.
Methinks you continued to act a bit Suspicious and overly hard to
get.
Now, a girl isn't crazy.
She was seriously attracted to you, so she even put herself out
there, way out there.
When she got the negative vibes, she still gave you a chance. She
even texts you the next day. A lot. But all the time, she keeps
getting insecure vibes that totally contradict the sexy fun guy she
thought she met.
You made a great first impression, but then made a total reverse,
thanks to your "friends". Now, don't get all angry at your friends.
Maybe they meant well, maybe she is a gold digger, but seems to me
that most guys who go round saying this to guys who have "game",
i.e. a guy like you who has "game", are just trying to vent out
their own insecurities and they hope that if you accept their
version of reality, then it's a good excuse for them to also be in
that miserable insecure reality. Rather than stepping out and going
for what you want in life.
And then she still agreed to go out again. But from the negative
vibes your friends gave you, it sounds like you were still in the
negative vibe, that the "facial expression to a minimum" was not
being used to show a relaxed state but rather to show her you that
are not going to get used. And that's again focusing on
insecurities.
So she goes to the bathroom. Yes, maybe she is avoiding the bill,
but many women do this because they're so brainwashed for the man to
pay. Which is why I stay away from any places that cost money on the
initial first meetings. Or I do go, but the chick still splits the
cost. It's not something that makes a girl particularly bad by going
off to the bathroom, you can deal with that stuff and give her the
scoop on how you don't pay for any chicks' company.
You're now in the damage control zone. I recommend going for other
chicks and forgetting her for a while. If you really want to call
her, do it and tell her, with a non-"apologetic" voice, (in other
words, say it like a statement rather than a plea, or a question for
her forgiveness, you catch my drift?) that you were being a bit of a
jerk lately because your cat died or something. Then immediately get
her laughing about something i.e. tease her, and meet her up again,
and get into some private location asap with her, and seriously get
physical, man!
And forget any advice that comes from guys who aren't getting ten
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