Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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- Go beyond rote line memorization and understand the difference of dating and of being "The Man" when it comes to seducing women.
This article: There is no reason on earth that feeling an attraction should be something that has to be masked or hidden away because of your fears.
Michael W: I'd like to share something really powerful for attracting a woman, and it's something that does not require any "pick-up lines" or anything fake at all. And when I say "not at all" I really mean it, as you're going to see.
Before being able to use this, there's one thing you need to do: You need to at least temporarily surrender any negative thoughts you might have about women. No matter how tough your past has been, you have to be willing to at least for a few minutes put all that on hold.
Okay, with that agreed upon, let's move on:
The next time you see a woman you'd like to meet, I want you to first simply ENJOY the sight of her.
Let yourself get WASHED OVER in that emotion.
The idea that feeling attraction for a woman is somehow something that is a sign of "weakness" is hogwash.
There is no reason on earth that feeling attraction should be something that has to be masked.
The only thing that you have to control is the thing called "fear."
But there is nothing to fear here, because you don't have to DO anything except ENJOY.
Don't tell yourself that you have to take action, or anything like that. Just ENJOY.
I want you to let it soak in, the full effect. If you do this right, if you just allow yourself to be a man and simply feel that attraction, you will feel a combination of several different states.
You will feel energized.
You will feel a sense of calm at the same time. You will feel a certain definiteness of purpose.
Now, I want you to think the following thought:
What would I FEEL and DO right now if I knew that this woman LOVED me?
This is very different from "What would I do to minimize rejection here?" It's very different also from "How do I make sure to GET her?"
The question you must ask yourself is:
"What would I FEEL and DO right now if I knew that this woman LOVES me???"
The emotions you would be experiencing would be simply wanting to RETURN that warm, positive, empowering emotional energy BACK to her.
It's simply the natural thing to want to do if you know this. It's a FEELING you would have that would totally imbue your voice and mannerisms with all the right subtleties to give off the message of "I am simply GIVING YOU great VIBES, for FREE."
The reality is that no cool guy on earth ever starts a convo with a woman with taking anyway. It's a conversation first, and if it feels right, if it's fun, then it leads to a mutual desire to follow up with a number, etc.
It really doesn't MATTER what you even say once you GET THIS combination of emotional states, it FILTERS every damn word you say in the PERFECT way so that it somehow DOES sound like the perfect thing.
This is what "naturals" do - they don't think in terms of "lines", they simply FEEL and then reflect those vibes back. The key is that they are feeling GOOOD!
If you FEEL it, you don't need to have LINES memorized. In the same way when you feel massive anger, or massive confidence, or massive pleasure, you never need someone else to give you "lines" to express yourself, you also will never need lines when you are FEELING it in your bones.
That EMOTION will FUEL your brain so powerfully that your brain will AUTOMATICALLY concoct all the right words, and more importantly, it will create the PERFECT DELIVERY.
The reason why this all works is because it's REAL, it's not faked. Women can tell when you are faking, no matter how brilliant your lines are.
And if you are not faking, then even if you do happen to use "lines" but your emotion is real, then the lines might still work, but it's not because of the lines, and the lines are not necessary.
This is why I say you need to first totally ENJOY everything about her, the way she looks, the way she sounds, whatever it is about her that grabs you.
Remember, that emotional impact is heightened when you are totally congruent (consistent) to your message.
Give up all the negative emotions, give up the fears, just let that stuff GO, because you can't feel the JOY and the fear at the same time. It's up to you, what you want in your life.
If you feel fear and negativity or anger or hatred or self-loathing, you will give THAT feeling to her. Instead, just enjoy what you experience when you see her, and let GO of all the other stuff.
And as far as "rejection" goes, the truth is that THE IDEA of rejection comes from the concept that our identity is based on what others think of us. The truth though, is that this is simply a fallacy.
It's so absurd, and in fact in real life the most successful people in every field have a super strong FRAME OF REALITY and a frame of THEMSELVES that no matter what anyone ELSE said, it didn't change their own perception of their selves.
From the likes of actors like Stallone to business geniuses like Bill Gates, they were all told they were "dreaming" and that they were not in REALITY.
But each one of these guys KNEW who he really WAS and never let their passion DIE, until finally it became super damn clear that in fact their vision was bang-on, and in fact they WERE who they said they were.
If you are going to allow thoughts of what a woman THINKS about you, to stop you from approaching her, it just means that you have a very weak concept of who you are.
And I know what that feels like, as I lived that hell for many years. But the great news is that it doesn't have to BE that way. You can RECLAIM your identity as your own, forever, and it can all start right NOW.
It all starts with baby steps, so the first thing to do is to go out and allow yourself to enjoy the sight of a woman. Don't feel you have to approach her so that you GET an email, number or date, etc.
Don't be attached to external changes.
Rather, just feel the joy and then simply REFLECT that energy back to her, for no reason other than it FEELS good to do so! It's very primal to want to do this anyway- as when humans feel something, they always want to let others feel the same thing.
Simply give her all that ENERGY BACK!
And the great news is that you'll find that this will ALSO give you far greater results than getting all caught up in "tactics" and in "getting things" from women.
And if you'd like to get the most powerful CHANGES in your life in this area, it's time you got yourself live coaching via my Real World Bootcamp, where I will rebuild you from the inside out, so that your mind and emotions work on a totally new level with women.
You will not be in a classroom, you will be in the real world where women are, from coffee shops to bookstores to lounges.
I will be coaching you in real time, using years of experience to keep you on track at all times, from the initial walk-up all the way to building a connection and getting her contact info.
This isn't about controlling women, it's about becoming the man you were born to be and the kind of man that women naturally gravitate toward.
And if you are just starting out, then download my eBook now- it's filled with easy-to-use ideas for meeting and attracting more women and is a great introduction to my programs.
More info is here
Till next time,
Michael
This series of articles (listed here) are a small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With Women (more info)" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program (more info)" on CD/DVD.
