Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Michael W: While experience is a great teacher, men need to get to the point in their lives where they understand the approach doesn't matter as much as their lack of nervousness at the moment will inspire confidence in themselves and in the women they meet.
I'd like to give you some practical tips on how to prepare yourself to approach women be successful and carry this confidence forward into other aspects of your life.
How many times have you been told that to get over the fear of approaching a woman, you must "confront" the fear and just approach her? How many times have you been told to "just do it"?
But guess what happens when one tries to confront this fear?
Yes, you already know the answer:
What happens is the fear actually INCREASES!
It's not like guys have never TRIED to confront this fear!
So telling a guy "you have to confront this fear, you have to just go up and do it" is NOT going to help!
As bad as AVOIDING approaching women is, if one is experiencing the fear, the avoidance strategy STILL feel a lot better than actually APPROACHING a woman, where the fear INCREASES!
So you probably already TRIED confronting this, and the confronting only made you feel MORE stress, right?
So it's only NORMAL to feel that the best thing is to just AVOID it altogether. After all, the mind is rational, it wants to prevent pain.
But HERE'S what you need to know:
The reality is that when you first confront this fear, it's PERFECTLY NORMAL to at first feel WORSE, to feel GREATER stress, greater pressure, more anxiety, etc.
But if you KEEP DOING IT, it WILL FADE AWAY.
So what you have to do is actually KEEP ON DOING IT SEVERAL MORE TIMES, maybe MANY MORE TIMES, and then you WILL GET RID OF THIS THING CALLED "APPROACH ANXIETY".
So don't make the mistake that most guys make, which is to think that because the fear goes UP and gets WORSE at first, that therefore it's going to STAY that way.
No way at all, it will actually GO DOWN.
But it's GOOD for you to KNOW beforehand that it's NORMAL for it to at first feel WORSE.
That way, you can actually relax to a certain degree, because you can PREDICT it.
You can now KNOW that THIS is part of the process to actually getting it to be LESS, in fact to be so little that it's no longer stressful at ALL.
Isn't that cool?
It's a bit like an Indiana Jones adventure, where he is trying to get to the special object, and there are all these traps in front, designed to scare people away, and so therefore most people will never get to it.
Same thing with this fear, it keeps most people away, and so they never even get a CHANCE with women, but if you keep at it, you suddenly find that ALL THE FEARS go away, and now you have this massive choice with women, and very few guys in competition with you, because so few guys even KNEW that this fear could be solved, they were given ILLUSIONS that this fear could never be solved- since they TRIED to confront it and it only felt WORSE so they QUIT!
What you've just read is not some stuff that I just dreamed up. It's based on RESEARCH, it's been TESTED, it's been proven to WORK.
I've made it my mission to be the one guy in this (dating advice for men) field who actually DELIVERS THE TRUTH on the topic of dating, attraction and relationships.
What you've read here is just one golden nugget among TONS of gems of immediately-applicable advice that you will get from my programs, materials, and services.
You can now learn DIRECTLY from me, LIVE, either over the phone or in PERSON.
You can ask me any question, dealing with any particular situation you are dealing with and get personal coaching from me, directly.
All you have to do is go here.
And if you haven't already got a copy of my Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program, then definitely do that as well.
It's by far, the the most REAL LIFE APPLICABLE program on the topic of attraction, pick-up, and dating. And it's organized into ten CDs as well as a special workbook included to help you review and make your progress.
It's here.
If you are just starting out, you can get a great introduction to my ideas by downloading my special eBook, The Dating Wizard - Secrets to Success with Women, here.
Till next time,
Michael
"The Dating Wizard's: Spell To Dating Success" article series. When you are able to accept that a woman might potentially not like you, you are then able to let go of being overly concerned with this fear.
This series of articles (listed here) are a small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With Women (more info)" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program (more info)" on CD/DVD.
