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Michael W - The Dating
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It is my goal to simplify the process of meeting
and attracting women. I have always believed, even when I was totally crashing
and burning with women, that meeting women and having a good time should not
be so complicated.
After all, men want women, and women want men. I screwed up for years and
years, because I didn't understand the nature of attraction between men and
women, and kept on wasting my time on useless strategies such as trying to
impress women with everything from giving gifts, to my academic achievements,
to compliments, etc.
It's not that I wasn't TRYING. I was trying damn HARD. The reality is that
success with women is not so much about effort, as it is about understanding
THE TRUE NATURE OF ATTRACTION between men and women. Here are some of the most
important ideas you must realize in order to simplify the entire process of
having hot women in your life who want you.
Women want sex.
Men want sex.
Nature has made things this way so that the human species can continue without
needing an encyclopedia for how to do it.
Oh, okay, sue me for stating the obvious.
But how obvious can it be, when all around me, I see even the guys who
supposedly KNOW about how to meet women behaving as if women needed to be
"tricked" into having sex.
This is insane.
And it is because we foolishly try to become DISCONNECTED from our natural
sexual state of mind when trying to succeed with women. We overcomplicate
things with too much technical jargon and theory.
On an evolutionary level, we would have been wiped out if reproduction was so
complicated.
Yet so many guys are behaving as if women need to be manipulated in order to
have sex. If there's any manipulation that really has to occur, I would say it
is to "manipulate" YOURSELF to do whatever it takes to get all those false
ideas out of your head. Offer YOURSELF a reward for going up to a woman.
Guys don't realize the most important element of attracting a woman, instead
they become too technical about a process that is very ingrained, that is,
until we get brainwashed by a lifetime of myths.
Instead of just being COMFORTABLE WITH
FEELING SEXUAL ATTRACTION, they actually repress these feelings and try
to focus on being funny, on impressing a woman, etc, etc.
Women don't need to be seduced to do what comes naturally. And though
men and women can relate to each other in ways besides sex, if you are
interested in a woman in a SEXUAL way, then WHY ON EARTH would you WANT
to relate to her in a NON-SEXUAL WAY, by getting out of your sexual
state of mind?
It is a huge mistake to ignore what our greatest gift can be- our sex
and our sexual nature. Once you REALIZE that women LOVE sex, it's a good
time to get aquatinted with the NEXT idea:
The most valuable "GIFT" you can give a woman is not your money, your
favors, your platonic friendship.
She CAN GET ALL THAT FROM A WOMAN.
What YOU AS A MAN can give her is SEX.
Now, THAT is what she wants from you as a man. That doesn't mean you
walk up to a woman and tell her "let's have sex"?
OF COURSE NOT.
Verbal communication is weak, words mean little, talk is cheap, etc. HOW
you say something, and more importantly, your TONE, your expression, and
most importantly, your STATE OF MIND that controls all of these things,
are far, far more important. And here is an excellent opportunity to get
into the right state of mind- an attractive woman is right in front of
you- ENJOY IT! You MUST realize that she loves sex, and may be VERY
WILLING to have it with you, if you just DON'T SCREW THINGS UP.
You DON'T have to be "Joe Millionaire" or Brad Pitt. Of course, looks
help you open the door, but sex is just too strong a drive to be shut
down by less than movie star looks. (Obviously you should do your best
to look good, and smell good, fresh breath, etc.) If you combine the
fact that women want sex, that most people are not getting enough sex,
that looks aren't everything, that money alone means almost nothing to a
woman in a sexual sense, you should start to get the picture...
Let me throw some more facts in:
What is the COST to her of having sex with you?
NOTHING.
Of course, this implies you don't come across as a PSYCHO, or as a
possibly CLINGY desperate guy. And let's throw in the possibility that
maybe you have a half-decent personality that she can also enjoy
speaking to you, maybe after you've had hot sex and she can think it
will be nice to talk a bit in bed. You see, there is A LOT in it for
HER. Most women may SAY they are looking for Mr. Perfect, but believe
me, what they really go for is Mr. GUY WHO ENJOYS SEX, WHO KNOWS WOMEN
WANT SEX AND A HALF-DECENT CONVERSATION. If you realize these things,
you suddenly find that CONFIDENCE is not such a hard thing to get
anymore. There's no need for belief in miracles here, or to have great
"faith", it just makes basic sense, period.
You are a MAN, she is a WOMAN.
Presto.
Everything else is just details, like showing her that you are not a
total loser, that you are not psycho. So if you're in the mall, and you
see a hot babe, DON'T COME UP TO HER FROM BEHIND HER BACK.
You want to AVOID the psycho image, right?
So instead, make sure to walk AHEAD of her...knowing she is behind you.
And then you can take a glance at the shops as she walks TOWARDS you.
What do you say? You TALK, you keep it light, because the words here
should not become a major distraction to the fact that you both have
what it takes to make you both happy. THAT'S what counts. The deeper
your conversation gets, the more of a DISTRACTION it becomes to what you
are both really after.
IT'S ALL ABOUT SEX, not about conversation, so don't get into a really
deep or depressing or boring conversation that will just DILUTE the
whole natural sexual feeling. You know, that MAN/WOMAN thing.
And this goes beyond just the physical act of sex- it's also all the
magical sexual feelings of BEING with a woman, and for her, for being
with a man. If you are being a man, and not suppressing it, your natural
sexuality will make you deliver your words with a sexy attractive
demeanor.
There's an old song by Gordon Lightfoot called Sundown, where he says "I
can see her lookin fast in her faded jeans she's a hard lovin woman got
me feelin mean". The word "mean" hear does not mean "cruel", but I think
you could see how it is clear that the word "mean" here conjures the
right attitude, an attitude of ATTRACTION and not WORSHIP.
Ahh, time for another eye-opener: IF YOU ARE BEING A MAN, AND FEELING
GOOD ABOUT YOUR NATURAL ATTRACTION TO HER, INSTEAD OF FEELING ASHAMED OF
IT, THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT TO SAY SO MUCH.
Whatever it is, keep it light, and then arrange what you want- a coffee
date right then and there? "Hey, let's chat this over a coffee- there's
a cafe/coffee house/whatever right there" Maybe you are on the run, so
you'll just ask for her email. You are THE MAN, she is looking for you
to LEAD, so it's UP TO YOU. Just BE A MAN, and feel comfortable with
that, there is NOTHING wrong with you ENJOYING the feeling of being with
a hot woman. And being a man, you have the privilege to TAKE ACTION and
MAKE THE DECISIONS- it's what she WANTS you to do! And GUESS WHAT ELSE
HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE FEELING SEXUAL? YOU CANNOT FEEL FEAR.
You see, you can't feel fear and sex at the same time. One will
over-rule the other, and so you might as well focus on the WOMAN, who is
turning you on, and is right in front of you! And guess what happens
when you can't feel fear and you are turned on?
YOU TEND TO SOUND SEXIER, NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY. Because you will be
CONGRUENT in your body language, your voice tonality, and probably even
your content. You won't feel that you need to give her compliments,
because you know that what she really wants from you is something else,
not to be crude, but she wants your masculinity, your masculine company,
and yes, your sex.
So you will automatically be doing everything right by simply BEING A
MAN. At this point, the details and fine toppings can fall into place.
For example, if you have this understanding firmly in place, you can add
to your approach with women- you can be funny, for example. But your
humor will be the result of your CONFIDENCE and not because you FEEL THE
NEED TO BE FUNNY in order to impress a woman. You don't NEED to be
funny. You just need to be comfortable being A MAN.
I could give you tons of lines that I have used on women, but they all
came as a result of not trying too hard. Like, for example, whenever a
hot woman who is working in a store is helping me, and she says "sorry"
for making a mistake, or bumping into me, or if she can't find an item,
or if that dish is not available, I'll just tell her "You're fired".
It's MASSIVELY FLEXIBLE, and works like a charm.
But it works BECAUSE I AM CONGRUENT with my actions, voice, and
demeanor.
Here's another example of something guys can use: At the mall, I'll go
right up to any girl and tell her "hey, where do you think you're
going?" It really doesn't matter WHAT they say back to me, because it's
just FODDER for conversation that I am going to use to TEASE her a bit
to let her know there is no ass-kissing going on with me, just a nice
old fashioned MAN TO WOMAN SEXUAL CHEMISTRY ENCOUNTER.
So let's say she says "to X store", I'll say, "Is THAT where you are
going?" In life?" You have to have greater goals!" Or if she says "Do
you ask EVERY girl this?' I'll say, "No, only girls who look lost and
are begging for guidance" Then, after a few minutes of building up a
connection I'll either go for a coffee with her right then and there
(tons of places for that in a mall) or ask her for her info right there.
I used to use TONS OF “LINES” and engineered “scenarios” from books and
NONE of them worked because I had the idea in my mind that it was the
LINE or the “situation” that had magic.
I thought women were doing me a FAVOR by talking to me.
As if women didn't want sex too.
But when you are feeling the electricity that she is emanating, and you
feel COMFORTABLE instead of ashamed or frightened, you simply won't say
stupid things, or depressing things, or negative things. You'll keep the
conversation positive, and she will be led toward the same.
Now, if you see a woman who looks like she is depressed, or is in a
rush, then does it take a rocket scientist to realize that BARGING in
with a 'HEY, WHAT'S UP WITH THE YANKEES" approach will NOT WORK?
A little common sense goes a long way. You may have to be a little
flexible to fit in, not because she is a woman, but because she is a
HUMAN BEING.
If you were obviously upset, or angry, or whatever, wouldn't YOU be
easier to talk to if the person talking to you TOOK THAT INTO ACCOUNT
and showed a little understanding of that? If you are in a bar, chances
are that you could probably get away with far wilder behavior than on
the street.
But each environment has its own advantages- I'm reminded of Emerson's
essay on compensation, on the street, a woman is less expecting you to
come up to her, so if you do it right, it's more of a thrill, and more
spontaneous, and even more "romantic" in a sexual sense, not a "make the
guy wait ten months for sex" sense.
The bottom line is to have this attitude with any woman you meet:
"She wants me, and all I have to do is take it."
This attitude will allow you to be a MAN, and also, to be playful, to be
teasing, to be funny, which will help overcome her superficial
objections which she must present to show that she is not "easy" etc.
The forces of sexual attraction have been deeply ingrained in us over
the course of one million years, and it is ESSENTIAL that you work WITH
these forces, not AGAINST them. When you learn to tap into your sexual
nature, you are effectively guided by instinct, and your success with
women truly becomes natural.
 If you like the idea of not "acting" in order to attract women, then you
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Over the course of one million years, man has adapted and evolved
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Make the decision to become more successful with women NOW. You really
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Till next time...
From someone who's been there,
Michael W
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