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The power of bringing women into your reality
has nothing to do with being a cheap pickup artist.
The ONLY reason that “faking it till you
make it” is sometimes a good strategy and a good starting place, is
because it allows you to finally STEP a bit OUT of the REAL
FAKENESS, i.e. the OLD you.
Trust me, about 90 percent of the OLD you is NOT THE REAL YOU.
Especially the CRAPPY emotional stuff, it’s NOT YOU.
It’s CRAZY to think that it IS you. Your emotions and mind are the
product of MILLIONS, if not BILLIONS, of YEARS OF REFINEMENT.
Do you think it can POSSIBLY suck after so much INSANELY POWERFUL
DEVELOPMENT??
The PROBLEM is just that the EMOTIONAL WIRING is SO STRONG, SO
POWERFUL, that in today’s times, which have changed from life
millions of years ago, you need to know how to PROPERLY TAP AND USE
THOSE EMOTIONS.
I mean SERIOUSLY, it’s like your emotions are TEN TIMES more SEXY,
MORE POWERFUL, more WILD, than a BRILLIANTLY ENGINEERED FORMULA ONE
RACE CAR.
It’s got a lot of speed, a lot of power, a lot of potential, but you
MUST KNOW HOW TO “DRIVE” AND “OPERATE” and MAINTAIN, AND NURTURE
THIS SUPER POWERFUL PIECE OF SOPHISTICATED HARDWARE.
Your EMOTIONAL MIND.
So it lays there, SCREAMING OUT IN SILENCE, “USE ME PLEASE, LET ME
HELP YOU BE ALL YOU CAN BE!!! LET’S BE A TEAM!’” But it’s speaking
in sign language, you can’t HEAR it scream, and it’s covered with
your head and stuff, so you don’t SEE it screaming it for your
attention.
It’s MORE than a FORMULA ONE, actually. It’s more like an F-16, and
yet as guys we are most of us like babies, not knowing the first
thing about how to FLY it or CONTROL it.
Most people are like babies when it comes to properly tapping and
using their emotional power.
And that’s okay, we are all like that before we learn. The main
thing is to LEARN, so that we are NOT babies anymore.
There is a REASON a pick up artist is called an ARTIST.
Most guys out there are NOT pick up artists in the full sense of the
word, including the guys who CALL themselves “pick up artists”. It’s
become in vogue lately in some circles to call yourself a pick up
artist, kind of like how it was in vogue at one time to say you are
into “new age” medicine/energy.
Personally, though, I don’t like the TERM “pick up artist”, because
it actually has come to mean, in my opinion, creepy insecure guys
who need to be validated by getting women as conquests, or by
ruining other people’s good times.
And most of these guys tend to go for women who drink, smoke, often
take drugs, and are basically LOOKING to get some short term
physical stuff, so it’s not exactly an ART to that, it’s more just
becoming CONGRUENT to that lifestyle, which is not something you
really want to do if you are ABOVE that lifestyle. Still, though,
even in those environments, OBVIOUSLY, having SKILL helps a TON,
it’s just not that NECESSARY, since the whole culture is based on
MANY short term hook ups. Thus, the standard is EASIER.
But when you are truly a master of attraction and creating emotion,
you then are an ARTIST, you get to express yourself in effective
ways that are totally TRUE to yourself and are also EFFECTIVE.
And it’s not just “expressing yourself”, it’s TURNING YOUR EMOTIONS
INTO THE OPTIMUM YOU THAT YOU CAN BE, CONSISTENTLY, AND ONLY THEN
“EXPRESSING YOURSELF”.
Get it?
This is not the McDONALDS “mass production cookie cutter formula” of
attraction and seduction. Instead, this is the ROLLS ROYCE of
attraction.
To make this all work, you have to reach into places internally that
DRIVE YOU TO EMOTIONAL HEIGHTS.
And you have to LIVE THAT WAY, to the HILT. You can’t live it
half-way, a little afraid of living it. You have TO DIVE IN,
TOTALLY.
Otherwise, whatever negative emotion that is holding you back (i.e.
FEAR of letting yourself fly OUT of the repressive personality that
you have held onto for so long) is actually being EXPRESSED and it
SUCKS and RUINS everything and actually REPELS women.
So you have to live it TOTALLY. If you DON’T, you are not REALLY
anything except all the negative emotions you are giving off, which
are the same emotions that are holding you back from diving in
totally.
This is why it’s so important to WATCH YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND WHO YOU
HANG OUT WITH, because they will AFFECT your mindset.
When you do this stuff right, you become LARGER THAN LIFE, and
nothing else matters. But you have to go the full distance, and you
have to mean it.
It’s interesting how the actors who have the most charisma are not
necessarily the greatest “actors” in the “official” sense. Yet the
truth is the reason they have charisma is because they are NOT
acting. Rather, they give off a certain vibe naturally.
Could people imagine anyone else playing Rocky but Sylvester
Stallone?
That’s because he is totally congruent to his performance, and even
though obviously Rocky is a created character, there are tons of
consistencies between the character and the real Stallone. For
example, a childhood where he was made fun of because of his name,
physical challenges that had to be overcome, including partially
paralyzed facial muscles, a father that didn’t believe in him, yet
this guy never stopped believing in himself and in the power to rise
above it all.
And in real life, he always used his power to help tons of other
artists who had the heart, trying to get somewhere, from musicians
to struggling actors to boxers to athletes to you name it. In fact,
his movies created stars out of tons of unknowns.
So the real guy was not that different from the character. And even
if a guy doesn’t know a THING about the real guy, it doesn’t matter,
because his performance OOZES the truth about him anyway, in terms
of his character. Yeah, you could say it’s all acting, but in this
man’s case, it’s obviously more than that.
In many ways, the guy is NOT acting. And of course, in real life,
everyone also knows how this guy not only helped to make working out
popular, but also motivated tons of people to overcome their own
challenges.
So is it any wonder that this guy attracts not only women, but super
high QUALITY women? He has created something larger than human, he
is an IDEA, an INSPIRATION.
And I could extend this to many other individuals. For example, a
certain rock group called Guns’nRoses. These guys, before they broke
up, they all LIVED their music, they were COMPLETELY about the
music. They were so nuts about living rock and roll, and totally
EXPERIENCING the emotional high of women, sex, rock and roll, and
unfortunately drugs and alcohol, (which combined with other things,
ultimately had tragic consequences for the band) that their IMPACT
was beyond belief.
Also, no manager wanted them because they were too wild and nuts,
which just goes to prove how making money was not their primary
drive. It was about the MUSIC, the EXPRESSION of burning emotions,
and it was about the LIFESTYLE they lived.
Nothing FAKE about them. They TOTALLY FELT THE EMOTION and totally
EXPRESSED IT, and gave others the joy of what that feels like.
It was not about money first, it was about ROCK, and LIVING IT and
not giving a damn about anything else.
Not being AFRAID to LIVE the LIFE of ROCK AND ROLL, no matter what
financial risks that took, no matter what anyone else thought.
Talk about congruency and conviction. They dressed their own way,
talked their own way, and played their own way, and meant it all
completely.
As opposed to the manufactured bands that are all “acting” and never
have any “staying” power because people sense after a while that
they lack congruency and conviction and this destroys any emotional
impact.
What does this have to do with YOUR interactions with women?
EVERYTHING.
And it starts WAY BEFORE you even leave the house to talk to any
woman.
Everyone is so focused on “this tactic and that tactic” and are
ignoring the foundation.
Hey, if you want the McDonalds of pick up, go right ahead and follow
that style. And you’ll end up with the McDonalds of chicks.
If you want the highest quality women, then you have to become
something better than you were before, you have to actualize your
full EMI – your Emotional Impact Potential.
There’s TONS more on this I want to discuss, but there’s also
something ELSE I want to get to, which is a certain power that WOMEN
have but is not LIMITED to women. We only THINK it is limited to
women.
What am I talking about?
I’m talking about BEING SEDUCTIVE.
I’m talking about using CHARM.
I’m talking about the idea of USING your power in the most EFFECTIVE
ways, that women have known since time immemorial, and that men have
largely ignored.
You see, it’s not something UNIQUELY feminine to be seductive, we
just THINK it is. And this HARMS us as men.
In general, men slobber after women like idiots, and GIVE AWAY all
the power and sexual tension over to women.
Why do we do this?
We do this because a million years ago, we could probably afford to.
See woman, grab her by hair and take her to cave.
Doesn’t work that way exactly anymore.
Let me give you an example of what I mean:
The whole idea of a strip-tease is something that in general we
equate with women.
But I like to think of the strip-tease as actually a good symbol for
how women behave with men IN GENERAL, not just stripping.
They don’t just “give it away”.
They give you a hint of interest.
Then they act coy.
They show you only little by little, physically and metaphorically.
They reveal only what they want to, when they want to. They are in
control.
The reason why male strippers are not nearly as effective on women
is because women already KNOW they can get men to do that AS FAST AS
THEY WANT, because most men are ridiculously EASY. This is why male
strippers for women are usually catering to unattractive women or
girls on their 18-21 birthday type thing. It’s a JOKE to women, it’s
a PARTY thing. But for many guys, it’s a regular serious part of
their life, because FOR REAL it’s so HARD to get women to do
ANYTHING for them. The stripper is not a joke, it’s not just a party
thing.
The difference is so huge, it’s crazy. And trust me, it has NOTHING
to do with what is “natural”. This is not any more natural than it
is for men to successfully kill themselves more often than women do
after a breakup.
It’s A REFLECTION OF A PROBLEM.
Yet that too is the SOURCE OF THE CURE.
You have to learn how to effectively use YOUR POWER AS A MAN.
Now, the thing is, you don’t want to copy women exactly, or you can
come off as gay. The idea is to USE YOUR MASCULINE POWER with
insight, wisdom, and TIMING.
Think of a snake ;)
Seriously, you slowly slither your way to a woman, not actively
giving her any power at all, only showing her brief GLIMPSES of your
intriguing and compelling personality, you don’t GIVE it all away to
her, you don’t give her much at all, in fact. And then, then, when
the moment is right, you POUNCE, you TAKE HOLD OF HER
METAPHORICALLY, and YOU lead that woman all the way HOME,
metaphorically AND physically.
THIS is a glimpse into the MASCULINE power that women find
exhilarating, thrilling, and overwhelmingly sexy.
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You'll be coming back to it again and again, even years from now.
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2. The Real World Bootcamp
In the Real World Bootcamp, I will serve as your exclusive
instructor for three days and nights as you learn everything about
pick up in real world venues such as taverns, bookstores, clubs, and
the street. If you want to learn all the complex dynamics of
attracting a woman and taking her through all the stages of the
rollercoaster, then it's best to learn from someone who's actually
"in the ring" on a regular basis and DOES it for real, and knows
what he's talking about so that he can fill in all the CONTEXT
that's missing from what you might be reading elsewhere. You can now
do that in my ONE-ON-ONE bootcamps where I will work exclusively
with you in real venues such as clubs, malls, streets, cafes, and
even trains and buses.
The bootcamp will get you to where you want to be in the most
efficient manner possible. I'll teach you HOW to deal with all the
unpredictable situations that can arise, I'll show you HOW to deal
with challenges such as loud music where it's difficult to be heard,
and HOW to actually isolate girls, HOW to deal with her friends, and
of COURSE how to pick up in daytime as well. And you'll also get to
learn how to REALLY create a natural vibe to the whole interaction
so that she doesn't feel weird about meeting you the next time.
I wish somebody could have taught me all this stuff at one shot over
a weekend instead of having to learn it piece by piece, from various
different guys and from tons of my own mistakes and experiences over
YEARS. During those years, it was often like walking blindfolded
into the lion's cage, where I got ripped apart. If you want to avoid
the feeling of being punched in from all sides at once, and if you
want to learn as fast as possible, I recommend you sign up for the
bootcamp as soon as you can.
Go to:
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3.The Dating
Wizard Live Seminar
If you want to learn HOW to do all this in a comfortable seminar
style environment, then I recommend my DATING WIZARD LIVE SEMINAR,
[Date and place to be announced soon!]
This is your chance to get the most advanced understanding and skill
on this topic on earth. This is not a seminar where I am just
talking, I will be interacting with you, taking your questions, and
there will even be a component of the seminar where clients get to
prove that what they have learned actually works, as they pick up
women for real.
To find out more, go to:
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Till next time,
Michael W.
To find out all about Michael, his book, and his consultation services,
check out
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