Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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This article: "In the real world, meeting women and attracting them has nothing to do with pick up lines or putting on an act- what it DOES involve is REAL insight into how the mind works, so let's get straight to some tips you can use TODAY!"
1. USE THE PROPER EMOTIONAL FILTER
One of the most fantastic things is that you can make almost ANYTHING work to successfully start a conversation and get a woman to want to chat with you, IF you apply the right emotional filter to yourself.
What I mean by this, is that what you say to a woman can be almost anything as long as it comes from a place of ABUNDANCE inside of you.
Think I'm exaggerating?
I'm not.
The reality is that there really are only two possible driving forces behind every single action that you or anyone else takes: And that action is either coming from FEAR or it's coming from LOVE.
Subconsciously, all humans can DETECT where you are internally "coming from" when you are chatting to them. Women are especially good at detecting this.
So a woman can immediately TELL just from the tone of your voice if you are coming from a place of emotional ABUNDANCE within yourself or if you are coming from a place of SCARCITY.
If you feel scarcity, if you feel threatened, you will SHOW it in your tonality.
And humans tend to reflect back whatever emotional state is being directed at them. If you are feeling FEAR-related emotions, you will make a woman feel fear as well, and she will respond accordingly- she will SHUT DOWN.
So the first thing to do is to REALIZE that it's YOU who is creating a lot of the results that you are getting- it's not just the women you are chatting to. It's YOU. They are reflecting back to you what you are giving off.
One solution is to ALREADY BE IN STATE long before you are chatting to a woman.
So BEFORE you even LEAVE the house, you should already COMMIT yourself to being in an emotional state of LOVE, of GIVING, of ABUNDANCE, of security.
Practice this right NOW, in front of a MIRROR. Say something like "hey, how're you doin" and try packing in as much feeling of EMOTIONAL ABUNDANCE as possible.
Love has nothing to do with being needy. REAL love has to do with GIVING.
So REAL love has to do with thinking of how you ALREADY have TONS of abundance.
The truth is, you DO.
Everybody does.
The only thing that exists is LOVE and FEAR. And you have a choice, everyone does.
If you choose fear, you will get BACK fear. If you choose love, you will get that back as well.
Notice the expressions on your face CHANGE in the mirror as you adopt a vocal tonality of ABUNDANCE, of LOVE, in your voice as you say even the simple words "Hey, how're you doin". This exercise is DECEPTIVELY simple- it is simple but it is PROFOUND and powerful as well, and it actually affects you in a very COMPLEX way.
Say the word's "Hey, how're you doin" over and over, looking in the mirror, each time, trying to PACK IN MORE EMOTIONAL ABUNDANCE, more CONFIDENCE, more LOVE. And remember that neediness is not love. Neediness is taking, it is fear.
Take a look at your favorite singer as they sing the lyrics to the emotional HIGH POINTS of a POSITIVE SONG. Notice the expression on their faces, notice the effect it has on YOU the listener.
It COMPELS you to JOIN the state of mind that THAT person is in.
So just make sure that whatever you say comes from a place of LOVE inside, and not of fear.
Practice saying things from this emotional standpoint- you can say anything, what counts is the emotional place deep within that it's coming from. So EVERYTHING you say and do must be funnelled through this filter, and it will then work.
The other cool thing, is that when you do this, it actually changes your BRAIN PATTERNS so that you actually come up with cooler THINGS to say as well, as you'll see when you do this in real life.
This gets me to point number TWO:
2. WHOEVER IS STRONGER IN THEIR EMOTIONAL STATE WILL DOMINATE
So what this means is that if you are only half-assed about applying the above advice, you will be STOMPED on because you will not be making IMPACT on women, rather women will be making all the impact on YOU. And you will be subject to whatever emotion they are feeling at the moment- including the negative emotion that YOU may be giving to THEM.
So again, you have to be in the right state BEFORE the moment arises, you have to be ready BEFORE you see a woman you want to chat with.
If you wait till you see a woman you want to chat with, the moment can be gone before you know it.
So do the mirror exercise BEFORE leaving in the morning. Listen to empowering music and MOVE to it before leaving the house. Motion creates EMOTION.
POINT THREE:
3. ATTRACTIVE HUMOR IS JUST CONFIDENCE TO THE EXTREME
There are all kinds of humor, but the kind that works to attract a woman is the kind that conveys WHAT YOU ARE FEELING WITHIN IS INFINITE POWER AND LOVE. And the WAY to show this is to simply EXAGGERATE anything POSITIVE about yourself to the EXTREME.
There is very fine line between arrogance and confidence, and yet it is a crucial difference.
Arrogance thinks that you are BETTER than everyone else. Confidence thinks you are AWESOME and invites others TO JOIN YOU at the top.
So, for example, let's say you are making an online profile, and you're working on your opening statement- something like "Warning: Magical Genie Within"
That would prompt a lot of women to say "hmmmmm, I wonder what that might be" as they imagine what magical man might be out there for them...and they'd want to open your profile and read it.
It's even easier when approaching women in real life, because rather than just relying on words, you have your voice, your body language, your clothing and accessories, and the ability to interact back and forth with her.
So you can tell a woman who is eating in a bookstore, "Excuse me, there is special policy here on eating, there is NO eating here" then pause, and say "Unless you give me some" with a smile.
Again, the humor here comes from your sense of entitlement and power, and yet it is clearly a joke, it's clearly not arrogance, it's just you feeling super duper comfortable in your own skin- when you REALLY feel powerful, you actually chill out and can joke around with WARMTH rather than nastiness in your humor. Your tone of voice also plays a key role in delivering this with love and confidence and security rather than fear or arrogance.
And if you would like to get on the FAST TRACK to turbo-charge that magnetism, then you need to immediately download my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women. Inside you will find a no-holds barred, easy to read guide to approaching women, triggering attraction, getting physical, and keeping the attraction for as long as you desire.
This book also forms the foundation for my more advanced concepts in
my seminars and workshops and will make the seminars and workshops
easier to understand.
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here. Till next time,
Michael W.
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