Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Michael W: As you will see, dominance is a crucial element to being successful with women, but it must be done right.
In this article, I'd like to share with you an instantly applicable and powerful insight. It regards DOMINANCE. A lot of times you hear that women are attracted to guys who are dominant. Most guys however, misunderstand this and think it means being a hard-ass.
The reality regarding this is that it has nothing to do with that
at all. It has to do with several other things, though, and today
I'll get into ONE of those things, and that is the erotic
applications of this.
For better or for worse, the fact of the matter is that women even
today are still under the influence of social programming, and even
though there is so much liberation, a lot of women still feel guilty
about sex, believe it or not. Also, even if a woman has zero guilt,
what I am about to say enhances attraction as well.
So, for example, let's say you meet a woman in a dance club or a
lounge or wherever, even a coffee shop while in line.
And you begin a conversation with anything from "Coffee is only the beginning of my vices, how about you?" to teasing her on the fancy bright pink martini she has ordered and saying "You know that drink would go better if you were wearing pink shoes".
The fact of the matter is, at some time in the interaction, you
have to ESCALATE things. So for example, you might have to get her
to sit down with you because it's kind of silly to be standing there
blocking the line once you both have your coffee or whatever drink
you both ordered.
Well, for many women, if you just ASK her, "Would you like to sit
with me over there?" even a woman who may very well have been
feeling attraction for you, she might now say "Ummm sorry, I have to
get going, but thanks."
Meanwhile, had you just said with DOMINANCE the following statement
rather than question:
"You need to take a break with the best, come here and sit down for
a sec" she would have far more likely have not only AGREED to do it,
but also been TURNED ON by the way you said it with such dominance.
There are tons of reasons for this.
For one thing, it shows you are a man who knows what he wants and has clarity. You are showing that you aren't even considering that she might say no, that you are so confident that she will say yes.
There are tons of positive associations to this, it says you are
a winner, that you know what you are doing, from survival in the
wilderness to having a fun romp in bed. It's all good stuff.
And, there is another level to all this as well- and that is the
fact that if a woman has to lead the show in the beginning, she
feels guilty sometimes. Whereas if YOU lead the show, she can feel
that you were just "being a man" being a "guy", etc, as if it was a
man's role only to do this stuff.
And perception is reality, so the fact is, if you DON'T lead the
show, if you are NOT dominant in leading things and escalating the
interaction, she will feel you are not a man, she will feel guilty
for leading the show herself, etc.
The more you lead, the more she can ENJOY the interaction and not
worry or feel guilty about it.
Now, of course, if a woman clearly says no to anything, then you OF COURSE leave her alone. The idea though is that you must take responsibility for escalating the interaction, and for doing it with dominance.
It's a far bigger turn on, and it allows her to also feel GOOD about the whole thing rather than worry about being perceived as a "slut", etc.
As you have seen above, dominance is a crucial element to being successful with women, but it must be done RIGHT.
Wishing you success with women,
Michael
If you'd like to get the full picture on attraction, from the
walk-up to a woman all the way to getting her home with you, to
being able to spot a woman who would be a fantastic girlfriend, to
building a fantastic connection with her, you owe it to yourself to
get my SMAP- Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program.
This program will take you into greater depth on every area of
attraction than anything else out there on the planet. For example,
just on dominance alone you will find over an HOUR'S worth of pure
gold, and on CD 8, tracks 5-10, you will find exactly how to open a
conversation using dominance and how to continue it this way. And
much, much more. It's
here.
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook- The Dating Wizard:
Secrets to Success with Women, then do that now. It's got dozens of
ideas you can start using to meet women tonight. It's
here.
"The Dating Wizard's: Spell To Dating Success" article series. When you are able to accept that a woman might potentially not like you, you are then able to let go of being overly concerned with this fear.
This series of articles (listed here) are a
small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With
Women (more info)" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program
(more info)" on CD/DVD.
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