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Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Michael W. (The
Dating Wizard): Some of the most powerful learning I had regarding
how attraction works and how our culture has affected the way women
think, and some of the most powerful insights I learned on how to
best instill the skills and knowledge to other guys, came in very
INDIRECT ways.
For example, when I was in university
years ago for my first degree when I was studying Political Science,
I had TONS of hotties all around me on campus. The problem was, this
political science stuff included courses on feminist theories by
professors that I took SERIOUSLY since everyone else was as well,
and I thought this was "normal".
I honestly was brainwashed to see everything around me as some form
of subjugation of women at the hands of chauvinist men. Even the act
of sex itself, the most natural thing, was explained to me as making
women submissive in an unfair way, because the woman has to open her
legs! Even the more moderate feminist thinkers still had some pretty
messed up stuff, but the radical ones truly wanted to restructure
society in every way to get rid of the "evil patriarchy" that men
had created.
Seriously, I am not kidding you about this stuff. Even though now,
when I look around, I see if anything, a "matriarchy" not a
patriarchy. Women who basically turn their men into supplicating
beta-males who do everything they can to provide for them, and then
of course these women then lose respect and attraction for these
guys, and when they dude gets dumped, he ends up wondering where he
went wrong, in fact he usually tries even HARDER to be MORE of a
beta-male in an effort to please her and provide more for her.
More men commit suicide over lost relationships than women do. More
women are in universities than men. It's also perfectly fine to make
jokes about men but not about women in public discourse. And even
though women now virtually all have jobs, men are still trying to
pay for women to impress them as if women were still back in the
1920's. And when women are in their prime and attractive, their
desire for a "serious" relationship and all that "noble" stuff is
ONLY triggered by guys who REALLY "GET IT", otherwise this whole
idea of women wanting relationships is pure hogwash.
Hardly a patriarchy, but quite possibly a matriarchy, especially as
mothers teach their sons to be supplicative as the strategy for
attracting a woman. Women don't do this intentionally, but what they
are teaching their kids very often is how a woman would want a man
to behave IF SHE WAS ALREADY ATTRACTED TO HIM, and not how to
actually create the attraction that is so crucial in the first
place.
So, in those years in university, I was in the BEST environment in
terms of having INFINITE hotties around me, and the WORST
environment in terms of the BELIEFS being inculcated into my head.
And in retrospect, I realize now most students really are just
trying to pass and not really deeply caring about anything else
including the content of their classes, but with my personality that
likes to dissect things and learn stuff, I took it ALL IN. But then
again, it seems from the way most guys feel a lack of value when it
comes to their worth when trying to pick up a woman, well in many
ways MANY guys have bought into the hogwash.
This is one of the reasons, why even now, YEARS later, I work SO
HARD on emphasizing your INNER STATE, which is also product of your
BELIEFS. And it's not enough to just be "POSITIVE", as unless you
are ALREADY IN THE KNOW and know how all this works, you have no
idea what being POSITIVE means when doing a pick-up or interacting
with women.
For example, without insight, a guy might see another dude
interacting with a girl, and the dude might be DOMINANT and TEASING
her and yet also be comfortable with physical contact with her, and
he may be pushing her away literally and metaphorically, and yet all
this can be a very POSITIVE thing and come from very POSITIVE vibes.
But if a guy doesn't understand it, he might think the guy is just
being a jerk, a very NEGATIVE person, etc.
And yet, don't get me wrong, your inner state is the place where it
all BEGINS, but then there is ALSO the layering in of all the other
aspects of attraction, from the way you learn to also create a
MAGNIFICENT connection that would blow to smithereens the typical
robotic and fake "connection" tactics that "pick up artists" like to
boast about. And of course there is the way you present yourself
through the clothes you choose to wear, to the style of humor you
use, to the places you hang out, to the LIFE and LIFESTYLE you
create for yourself, and much, much more.
So I learned the HARD WAY that attraction is not just about being
positive. I also learned that it's not just about LOOKS. And by the
way, I really mean that. Do you know the actor who plays the new
James Bond, in Casino Royale? His name is Daniel Craig. Anyway, if
you do any research, you'll see that BEFORE the movie came out,
there were TONS of FANS, never mind just "regular people", but
die-hard FANS of the James Bond films, who were VEHEMENTLY OPPOSED
to him being Bond.
Do you know what a lot of them said?
They said he wasn't "good looking" enough or cool enough to be
Bond!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now, AFTER the movie came out, he was hailed as the BEST Bond since
the very ORIGINAL by Connery!!!!!!!!!!
Suddenly, NO COMPLAINTS about him in any way, even from the most
die-hard fans. Suddenly, everyone agrees this guy is the epitome of
Bond. And no one even REMEMBERS the whole thing about "looks", in
fact he is clearly considered by women to be "very hot".
His ability to project COOLNESS is what changed everything. And by
everything, I mean people's STATES of mind. He oozed charisma,
power, and edge. I won't get into the story issues, but as an ACTOR,
he was fantastic.
Powerful enough to change people's PERCEPTION of him. And often, a
great actor is actually NOT acting, he is BECOMING that person, this
is known as "method acting".
Since day ONE, I have been CONSISTENT in emphasizing REAL
development of the traits that attract the hottest of women, opposed
to following trends that emphasized all kinds of hogwash.
Again, a lot of this goes back to my experiences in university the
FIRST time around, which took me YEARS TO EVEN REALIZE that I had
been brainwashed!
When you are brainwashed, when you are TRULY believing in something
that is false but you don't realize it, you can have MOUNTAINS of
evidence pointing out the TRUTH to you, but you STILL won't see it!
You will rather explain how that TOO is simply a proof of what you
have been brainwashed to believe.
So for example, if I would see a guy behaving in a dominant,
teasing, playful way with a woman, and the woman was getting
emotional and giggly and would become his girlfriend or one of his
girlfriends, I would assume that the girl was nuts, or that the guy
was somehow "fooling" the girl that it was all a joke, when in
reality he was a "jerk", and that she would eventually find out and
dump him. The truth though is that most of the time, it would be
this guy who dumped HER.
By the way, it's not like I never had any results with women, and I
did approach like crazy then, even though my heart was pounding, the
problem though was that I totally fumbled the ball because I
believed that the FIRST ingredient in attraction was RAPPORT, rather
than in fact BREAKING RAPPORT!
And it took a lot of time to fine-tune just how breaking rapport
could be not a malicious thing, but rather a playful, dominant, sexy
thing that created just the right tension that makes a woman YEARN
for more.
Again, though, all this stuff had nothing to do with learning a
line, a secret "tactic", or any other sneaky stuff. It had to do
with MASSIVE change INTERNALLY and then on TOP of that external
changes as well.
And yet those changes were not the kind of changes that meant
sacrificing who I was. The only part of "me" that I "sacrificed" was
the "me" who thought that life was about being a punching bag for
women, out of the belief that I thought men were supposed to PROVE
themselves and their worth and goodness to a woman.
As if women were automatically entitled to being the selectors, as
if they were morally superior to men. And as if women actually FELT
ATTRACTION to the idea of trying to "win" her approval harder than
any other guy. And I could go on with a thousand other "as if"
beliefs that I had.
The resulting stress of getting no results with the women I was
interested in led me to be FORCED to learn how to DEAL with the
stress. As a "go getter", I still wanted to excel in my studies, so
I self-taught myself all kinds of relaxation and meditation
techniques through raiding the library's stash of books on
relaxation and stress by all kinds of psychologists and authors on
meditation.
Anyway, let me fast forward:
A couple of years ago, I went BACK to university, this time for a
degree in education. In many ways, the "system" was still
politically correct, but the GREAT thing was that I was now AWARE of
it, and so I could now SCREEN for the good stuff on how to teach,
and I could filter out the hogwash.
And some of the biggest things I learned besides the actual
"teaching techniques" is that that you can never stop LEARNING how
to be a better teacher, and you must always strive to understand the
personal situation, including emotional status, (and you must learn
how to help the student achieve the best state of mind and
self-esteem) and the best mode of learning, from the perspective of
the STUDENT.
And that it's crucial to use a VARIETY of teaching methods depending
on the student. That's why I don't just create a new product that is
just some rehash of another product.
Rather, I put in YEARS of work on creating something USEFUL and
DIFFERENT before releasing it. The idea is to IMPROVE the DIVERSITY
of learning resources, not just to make MORE of the SAME.
The first most important step is changing your states that you
constantly are putting yourself through unconsciously without even
realizing it.
For example, very often guys take on things that women say at FACE
VALUE. And things women write, at face value. Guys will look at a
profile of a woman on the net, check her "specifications" on what
she wants, and they are actually HYPNOTIZING themselves that THIS is
what she must have, that this is what she needs, as opposed to
emotionally BLOWING all this stuff out of your own emotional real
estate! You have to learn to TAKE OVER these trivial "frames" that
women will set, where YOUR INTERNAL FRAME is stronger and more
compelling to YOU than her frame of what she thinks she needs is to
her.
And the truth is, very often, the frames that women have on what
they want or need or are attracted to are extremely FLIMSY, but
because most guys never even REALIZE that they can naturally attract
a woman to the point that all her "requirements" are a joke, they
never even provide a challenge to the woman. It's really sad to
watch, imagine Darth Vader saying to Luke "You will lose", and Luke
saying "ok" and putting his hands up and surrendering the universe
over to him!
That's what most guys are doing with women, total SURRENDER of all
their own power that they could have, without even REALIZING it.
Guys don't realize how much attraction power they could really have
with women.
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Till next time,
Michael
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Michael W, better known as The Dating Wizard, is a dating and
relationship consultant for men, as well as a frequent guest on radio
and television talk shows. Michael has spent over four years studying
the specific male behaviors that trigger attraction in women. His
findings are based on both his real life observations of men who are
successful with women, as well as his research on evolutionary
psychology and its applications to sexual attraction.
His advice to men? Forget everything you’ve ever been taught about women
since you were a kid. "Women don’t want a politically correct man, they
want a real man. You have to unlearn all the myths and behaviors that
are holding you back from success with women." To find out all about Michael, his book, and his consultation services,
check out
The Dating Wizard Website or call 416 630 9966.
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