Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Michael W: Solving the big issue of starting a great conversation with a woman.
Have you ever approached a woman, managed to work up the guts to SAY something, and then the conversation didn't LAST? Maybe you said some comment about the book she was holding, or the drink she was having, or maybe it was a compliment.
She smiles, and then you have nothing really POWERFUL to get her hooked
into wanting to talk to you more.
If this has happened to you, you are not alone, it's one of the most common issues when trying to approach a woman and get her number, email, etc.
So let me show you how to solve this problem:
Step One.
1. The first thing you want to do is to realize that about 99% of the conversation material can often come not from YOU but from HER!
Step Two.
2. Yes, and the way this works is by truly LISTENING to what she says in REPLY to you. Listening not only with open ears, but also with an open heart, meaning that you GENIUNELY are listening to hear her.
Step Three.
3.Now, the thing is, in order to prompt a meaningful reply from her to your original statement, you want to make an opening statement that actually has some MEAT in it, something that is worthy of actually getting a reply.
The key for this to work BEST is to NOT be FAKE about the topic you choose to open.
Choose something that YOU are genuinely interested in, that is also upbeat, inspiring, or meaningful.
You can go in with MANY different angles, and there is absolutely an angle that is consistent with your personality so that you are not acting like someone else.
So, for example, if you were the kind of guy who is very interested in living an inspired life, in feeling that your life has meaning, in making the MOST of everyday, etc, then you might say something like this to a woman in a bookstore: "Hi there, can you answer this question- what do you think of the phrase "Don't die with the song still in you"????
NOW, if she asks you what you mean, this is FANTASTIC, because it gives you another chance to talk MORE but more importantly it is you giving value to HER, which is the name of the game.
So, you can continue with something like this: "What if we all spent our lives doing things that we didn't really love but we thought we had to do, and then right at the end we found out that all those things were just LIE and we never let our "song" out, the thing we were meant to do?"
Now, THIS is meaty stuff, it's got tons of potential. She can not only reply to this in detail, but you can LISTEN to what she is saying and really pay attention and then be able to give BACK meaningful conversation as well.
The genius behind this is that now you are LISTENING to HER, which makes HER feel awesome, and yet she is talking to you about something that you care about, so none of this is fake. You can can go on an on about this for hours. And this leads to DEEP connection, which means mo more FLAKY number or emails- girls only flake because they don't feel a sense of connection. That's why they don't answer emails or phone calls or don't give out numbers.
ANOTHER EXAMPLE WITH A DIFFERENT TYPE OF PERSONALITY
Now, let's say you are more of just a happy go lucky guy that isn't really that "deep" at least not in that way. That's fine, it's all good. You can THEN go in with a more humorous angle, i.e. if you are in the supermarket and you notice the same woman twice, i.e. let's say you saw her in the fish dept., then you see her in the cereal aisle, you can give her this mischievous look and say "Hey, are you following me? I'm getting nervous!"
And if she says "noooo, what makes you say that??" You can reply with "well for all I know you want to raid my grocery cart here, I got all the low-fat yogurt on special today and you just want to take one out of my cart!"
Even here, in this situation though, the key is to open with something that is MEATY in the sense that you must light the switches in her mind called "INTERESTING and POSITIVE."
You can tell her that you bet she is one of those healthy type women who is all about good fitness and nutrition, etc, which will either prompt her to say that she IS or she ISN'T.
If she says she IS, then you can now give her a sincere compliment for that and tell her that with work or school taking up so much time, it takes a lot of discipline to do that.
And if she says she DOESN'T work out or eat healthy, you can tease her for not being honest, or you can say she is being modest, and that she can just open up with you, you are just the official supermarket public relations guy, and if she takes you SERIOUSLY on that, that's even MORE reason for you to have fun and then you can pretend you are asking her a serious survey question, and then let her know you are totally joking.
And THEN you can both get into a "normal" conversation about things like "what's your name" what do you do, etc, because NOW she is interested and you are interested in knowing more about her.
What you have read is just the TIP of the ICEBERG. This stuff works, and I want you to see the FULL power of ALL the tools that can be at your fingertips, from learning how to fully tap into the power of your INNER GAME so you can rise to the next level of success with women, to learning how to DETECT a quality woman, to learning how to KEEP a woman attracted to you long term, and much, MUCH more.
To get a SOLID FOUNDATION on ALL of this, I suggest you download my book IMMEDIATELY, here.
And I'll see you again soon.
Sincerely,
Michael
"The Dating Wizard's: Spell To Dating Success" article series. When you are able to accept that a woman might potentially not like you, you are then able to let go of being overly concerned with this fear.
This series of articles (listed here) are a small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With Women (more info)" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program (more info)" on CD/DVD.
