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Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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When a guy wants to
get a girl who's hot, and on the initial surface he might just seem
like an "average" guy, it's really important to realize that there
is a PROCESS that must be done. If it were as simple as just TALKING
to her, then EVERY guy would get the girl!
As I've said before, attraction is about EXCELLENCE, so that means
this "seemingly AVERAGE guy on the surface" is going to have to
GENERATE some pretty ABOVE AVERAGE SIGNALS about himself.
Now, one of the first things is to not
even be dressed as "average", to not look average, which helps
prevent being classified as average before you even start.
Also, the way you speak, your tonality, and the things you talk
about, and the emotions you instill and inspire in her, all this
must be excellent, not average.
But one of the biggest things, that I want to bring to your
attention right here, is the way you react to any behavior of hers
that challenges your worth.
The truth is, from a standpoint of attraction, (as opposed to from a
standpoint of whether she is a nice person or not, which is a
separate issue) it really doesn't even matter why she is challenging
your worth, or even if she really means it or if she is just testing
you.
The bottom line is that this is one of the big areas where guys mess
up.
When a woman does not give the guy confirming feedback, when a woman
gives a guy disconfirming feedback to his pickup attempt, it can
feel really bad for a guy.
And this bad feeling is what really messes the guy up, because these
bad feelings are immediately made transparent by the guy to the
girl, in a bunch of ways, and every single one of those ways
CONFIRMS TO THE WOMAN THAT THE GUY IS INDEED AVERAGE OR INFERIOR
THAN AVERAGE, ETC.
She can tell that if he was really superior than average, if he
really was desirable, he would not be reacting the way he is.
So, one key point is to prevent this from the beginning by
immediately coming in as way better than average on every level
possible. This is why my programs cover everything from the way you
look to the way you sound to the kind of superior sense of wit and
humor and many other important factors as well. BUT, one of the
areas where guys tend to take the HARDEST HITS, and where they seem
to not be able to pull out of, is when the woman doesn't seem to be
"going" with it. In my materials, I cover how to deal with this in
huge detail, but for here today, I want to touch on this important
topic.
When a woman doesn't seem to be responding well, or if she
CHALLENGES you, i.e. she says to you "do you try chatting to all the
girls in the bookstore" or "is that a pickup line?" or "that wasn't
a very good opening" etc etc etc, MOST GUYS MELT, BUT YOU DON'T HAVE
TO BE ONE OF THOSE GUYS.
The thing is, there are two levels to not melting. One is the actual
VERBAL level, so that instead of apologizing, or kissing up with
something like "Oh yeah, I know that line kind of sucked, but it's
better to try something than nothing, right???"
(ugh!!! Just writing that apologetic crap made me feel like puking)
INSTEAD the verbal message can be:
"Well you see, you have to be part of my my A-list to get the
special stuff, so if I find out you're a great person, then you get
to move from my B-list to my A-list. You can't just get promoted for
nothing."
OR
"I only use it on girls that like to ask lots of dorky questions."
This all shows that you really are NOT thrown off balance by her and
that in fact, she is being far too serious and uptight, which under
the circumstances of this causal environment, is a sign of HER lack
of value.
So that's a VERBAL level.
But there is ANOTHER level, which is the expression on your face,
the tonality of your voice, the way your body is tight or relaxed.
And this is actually far MORE challenging for most guys than the
verbal stuff.
This is where you have to put in your TIME IN THE RING, taking the
"hits" with the right attitude AND with the right INSIGHTS so that
you ultimately are TOUGHENED up and DESENSITIZED to it so that it
really DOES NOT AFFECT
YOU.
And, with simultaneously applying the wisdom of the right insights
on how to trigger attraction, you really will no longer show any
signs of stress or loss of self-concept or esteem.
You will develop so that you are not just "not MELTING", but that in
fact you are LAUGHING. It's not enough just to "not melt", you have
to be in ULTRA state still, so that your humor, wit, confidence, and
all emotional resources are all still at peak levels - so that you
can KEEP ON EMANATING the right SUPERIOR messages and vibes until
you REFRAME her very perception of you.
Now, when a woman sees and experiences THIS from you, it forces her
to do a DOUBLE TAKE, it INSTINCTIVELY forces her to RE-EVALUATE her
whole PERCEPTION of you.
She can't HELP it, in the same way you would be forced to do a
double take, a re-evaluation of a little kid who not only didn't
fall down when hit by a big guy, but who actually is standing there
smiling like it didn't even TOUCH him.
You can't help but feel AMAZED by it, a new RESPECT for the kid, etc
etc. You don't look at this kid as some "kid" anymore.
So, next time you are chatting to a woman, WATCH YOURSELF for the
way you REACT.
The first step is gaining AWARENESS of your OWN reactions.
Become AWARE of how your tonality may be rising up in stress or
over-excitement, become AWARE of how you may be FEELING down if she
is not jumping or doing cartwheels of enthusiasm for you, become
AWARE also if you are getting too THRILLED from her POSITIVE
reaction. And learn to NOT LET ANYTHING SHE DOES during the initial
pick-up affect you emotionally at ALL.
Become AWARE also of what you are SAYING to her in response to what
she says to you, and how much of what you are saying is a STRESSFUL
REACTION and how much is a CALM reaction, or even better, a
SUPREMELY CONFIDENT reaction, or even better, a SUPREMELY CONFIDENT
AND PLAYFUL AND WITTY reaction.
Then, you can begin the process of STRIPPING away the reactions that
are signs of weakness and inferiority, and replace them with
reactions that are signs of EXCELLENCE.
And if you would like to FULL GOODS on how to do all this, as well
as how to make the most POWERFUL and ATTRACTIVE impression on EVERY
level, from the moment you see her to the moment you take her under
the covers, to the time when you are deep in a relationship with
her, then I seriously suggest you get my Seduction Mastery
Apprenticeship Program delivered to you NOW.
This Program will take you deeper into the world of attraction than
anything you've ever seen before.
Everything inside this program comes from the experience I've had
training hundreds of guys from all skill levels and ages in my
One-on-One Bootcamps for years now, demonstrating and teaching
pick-up for REAL.
AND it will explain how to keep things PUMPED emotionally so that
she will be ADDICTED to you for as long as you want. AND it will
show you how to develop the skills in a way that becomes very
natural for you and requires no memorization.
And much, MUCH more.
www.thedatingwizard.com/seductionmastery.htm
 And
if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets
to Success with Women, then do that IMMEDIATELY. This book is the
DNA for understanding the concepts and methods in all my other
programs and services.
www.thedatingwizard.com/ebook.htm
Till next time,
Michael
PS. If you want more
information before purchasing any of my products (they come with the
best personal guarantee of any ebook and CD material available
online!) visit my website here:
www.thedatingwizard.com
Michael W, better known as The Dating Wizard, is a dating and
relationship consultant for men, as well as a frequent guest on radio
and television talk shows. Michael has spent over four years studying
the specific male behaviors that trigger attraction in women. His
findings are based on both his real life observations of men who are
successful with women, as well as his research on evolutionary
psychology and its applications to sexual attraction.
His advice to men? Forget everything you’ve ever been taught about women
since you were a kid. "Women don’t want a politically correct man, they
want a real man. You have to unlearn all the myths and behaviors that
are holding you back from success with women." To find out all about Michael, his book, and his consultation services,
check out
The Dating Wizard Website or call 416 630 9966.
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