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It's what attraction is all about. It's what creates "sexual tension", which
when finally released, is so passionate. When you WANT something, and you
can't easily have it, there is that tension...so that when you finally do get
it, you cherish it with gusto.
No one is attracted to someone who conveys a sense of being powerless. When it
comes to being a MAN, however, power is not only important, it's EVERYTHING.
You see, a woman, if she is attractive, simply has to have a decent
personality, and not act desperate. That's all the power she needs to be
attractive. A man however, has to convey a lot more than just NOT BEING
DESPERATE. This is because a man cannot rely on his looks as much as a woman
can in order to stir attraction. A woman is NEVER attracted to a man who seems
to be "equal" with her. In some major way, he has to be MORE than her.
Hence, you hear about women wanting a man who is TALLER, who is RICHER, (even
if she is already wealthy!) who is from a higher social class, etc, etc, etc.
And of course, a man who is more DOMINANT than her. Most of all, (whether a
woman admits this or not) a woman wants a man who makes HER FEEL that HE is
the dominant one.
This is because a DOMINANT MAN makes HER feel FEMININE. When a woman goes out
with a guy who SHE has to tell him what to do, who she gets the feeling he is
asking HER for approval, she simply feels NO FEMININITY with him, because
there is NO CONTRAST.
Think yin-yang here: To feel feminine, she must be with a man who is
MASCULINE. When a woman is with a guy who is not dominant, she feels like he
is just another GIRL.
Yeah, that's pretty much how she feels. THAT is the reason women say they want
a guy who is taller, richer, etc. It's all about making her FEEL feminine.
And to make a long story short, women feel attraction for such masculine men,
because for survival, women have needed MEN who were courageous and tough.
Life was pretty rough for humankind for most of our history. A woman needed a
MAN. And today, emotionally, in their DNA, women STILL carry this legacy of
our human history. But today, in the "Western World" women are MORE POWERFUL
than they have ever been in history.
Now, before anyone jumps to conclusions, let me make it clear: I am NOT saying
this is a BAD thing.
However, since attraction is BASED on the dynamics of power between a man and
woman, it would be LUDICROUS to ignore the effect of these social developments
on the situation between men and women today. ESPECIALLY when you consider
that MOST MEN are ACTING toward women AS IF THEY WERE STILL LIVING IN 1951.
Let me tell you something:
That behavior has only become a formula for disaster in the last couple
You see, in 1951, if you saw a woman on the street, or in a shop, and
you complimented her, you would NOT be immediately categorized as
UNDESIRABLE "DESPERATE GEEK".
Because the average man relative to the average woman was far more
powerful. He earned the bulk if not all of the money, he had far more
rights and privileges, etc. Also, there was really no such mainstream
activity called "dating for fun". In general people married far, far
earlier, they were dating for marriage. (Of course there were exceptions
to the rule, but I am talking about in general.)
This meant that women were thinking about a man's long term qualities as
well as his "sexiness". It was not a "singles culture" like today, where
nothing need last more than a day. Okay, so do you see what is going on
Since men were far more powerful relative to women than today, "nice"
behavior was interpreted far differently. Buying a woman flowers on a
first date, or chocolates, or even telling her "I love you" after just a
few weeks was not the KISS OF DEATH that it is TODAY. TODAY, women
already have TONS of power - education, careers, politics, etc. PLUS,
most men have bought into the "GUILT TRIP" that men are BAD, nothing but
sex hounds, who are just trying to use women. So we end up with men who
are kissing women's asses, in order to "PROVE" that they are not the
psychos that women have made us out to be.
We end up with a culture where men are made to look like sex-crazed
morons and of course the women appear as almost indifferent to men.
(Just watch some tv commercials and you tell me what you think.)
MEN ARE NOW KISSING WOMEN'S BUTTS, and YET, SIMULTANEOUSLY women have
actually made MORE PROGRESS than EVER before in history.... What is happening is a POWER SHIFT that,
when combined with the butt-kissing behavior toward women….renders most
men very UNSEXY. Today, when your average man meets a woman, he actually
VOLUNTARILY gives away ALL HIS POWER and ALL HIS "CARDS" and ALLOWS the
woman to KEEP ALL HER POWER and all her "cards". And then men go around
wondering why it's so damn hard to meet a woman who respects them today.
Think about it.
When a man treats a woman as if it's 1951, by acting as if she is
penniless and powerless and as if she needs his fancy restaurant
dinners, his chocolates, flowers, and his favors….when in reality it's
2003…his behavior is UNATTRACTIVE and simply BEGGING TO BE TAKEN
And guess what?
There's more, there's a WHOLE OTHER DIMENSION to this stuff. Not only
are most men kissing up to women in a world where women find this now
ABSURD and pathetic of men, but something far more subtle, and latent,
Stay with me for this one, it's worth it.
Historically, women have been "modest" and have been the ones who
regulated sex.* A man "courted" a woman, and then if a woman accepted,
they got together and had sex. (or got married, etc.) Today, however, in
the quest for equality, women are actually LOWERING their standards when
it comes to sex. Less idealism. Women have actually tried to BECOME men
in this sense. That's also why you can talk so much more rough to women
today, and not only will they take it, but they will probably respect
you more, since after all, women are supposed to be equal to men now,
and don't need to be treated special, right?
I don't know about you, but I kind of liked the chivalry thing a bit.
You have to be real careful with that today though or you may risk being
labeled a weak , submissive loser. Now, men have ALWAYS wanted sex to be
easier. It was WOMEN who were the ones who made men "earn" it by
Let me ask you a question: In the old context of "courting" was this
such a bad thing?
People were looking for lifetime partners, and women were the ones who
enforced this higher standard of relationships. If you weren't serious
about a woman, it was more difficult to have sex with her than today.
(in general) Today, however, women have largely abandoned this role and
now are becoming pseudo-men, in the sense of having sex with more
partners, and doing it easier. This is great news for men who just want
sex. Bad news for men and women who want long lasting relationships.
Like a drug, if you over-indulge in anything, you really need more and
more to get the same effect. We have more sex than ever, yet more Prozac
than ever too. (And by the way, far all the “progress”, women are no
happier either- they are the ones taking Prozac far more than men.) For
anyone who thinks this is off, just look at the pattern of some infamous
sex offenders- the crimes often start small, then get greater and
greater and into the heinous and bizarre.
Because of desensitization. A bigger crazier novelty is necessary to get
the same KICK as before. As a society, we're getting nowhere fast. Sex
used to actually have a lot more meaning and served more than just as a
raw act. Sex has become largely about SEX and nothing else. Forget the
whole old fashioned bonding thing and relationship thing and old
fashioned morals and family.
That's for morons, we say.
There's no time for that anymore.
That's out of style.
So I wouldn't leave you with a problem without at least giving you the
solution, too. The solution is to RECLAIM some power, in order to
RESTORE that all-important sexual tension between men and women. Right
now, there is NO tension for women– women are kicking men’s butts in the
dating field. And it’s making it rather boring for them. Imagine going
to a movie, where in the first 5 minutes the hero says to the villain
“You will be caught” and the villain says back “Yeah, you’re right: I
give up” and then surrenders. No movie, no action, no drama, NO FUN.
Well, don’t let women feel that you are NO FUN by being ZERO challenge
for them. You don't have to give ANY power away if you don't want to.
Let's say you see a woman you would like to approach:
The most important thing to remember is NOT how to be a comedian.
It's NOT about hypnosis.
It's NOT about pheromones.
It's about POWER.
So BEHAVE as if you DO have power, because the reality is that you DO.
Your power is the fact that women want men for being men, and nothing
else. Just like you want a woman for being a woman. Throwing in gifts
and compliments and flowers and chocolates only screws up the whole
natural process, especially when those things will be interpreted as you
possessing a LACK of power. In 1951, those acts were interpreted as you
being generous, and thoughtful. But it's not 1951. Women WANT men and
are not doing men any more of a favor by going out with them than vice
versa. Women know this, and it's time you knew it too.
You don't OWE a woman anything more than yourself.
Women are NOT alienated, downtrodden members of society who need your
generous support and endless compliments.
And if you start kissing up to women, they will feel NOTHING for you,
because you make them feel that you have no power relative to them.
So go up to a woman, and tease her like you would do with someone you
felt ZERO intimidation from, or just talk to her like you KNOW she wants
you, because the reality is she WANTS that attitude from you, and
anything less, IN THIS CURRENT SOCIETY, will be interpreted by her as
UGLY and weak for a man.
And when you ask for her number or email, don’t make it look like you
are begging for some favor. Because it’s NOT a favor. Anything less than
total dominance these days makes you look real UGLY. And the more
DOMINANT you are, the more LEADERSHIP you show, the more ATTRACTIVE you
will be. Everything you do should pass through the filter of DOMINANCE-
your words, your humor, your body language, your decisions. If you are
about to make a joke, ask yourself "Is this self-deprecating or is this
more of a making-me-look-SUPERIOR type of joke?"
Hey, guess what?
WOMEN ARE DOING THIS ALL THE TIME.
"I expect a man to do x, y, and z, for me if I am to go out with him"
If you FALL for this, you will LOSE all sexual attractiveness in her
eyes. If you are thinking of telling a woman how good she makes you
feel, tell her through the prism of dominance- in other words, show her
in BED by making LOVE to her. THAT is the way for her to know you have
"FEELINGS" for her. NOT from you kissing her butt and saying "I love
you" after two days of knowing her. And then, if she turns out to be a
"special" woman, who you think is worthy of a relationship, SET YOUR
RELATIONSHIP STANDARDS AND MAKE THEM ABSOLUTELY CLEAR.
That means accepting none of the current baloney that is currently
passing in many circles as "a relationship". You MUST be a leader in
this regard, because society's idea of a relationship is absurd and a
formula for disaster. Oddly, today, a man must not only be the leader in
terms of initiating contact and sex, but he must also show WOMEN the way
a relationship works. Women, in their quest for equality, have abandoned
that which they value most, and will THANK you for taking command and
accepting nothing less than the best for a relationship.
And if you want to know how to become more DOMINANT with women so that
they will feel nothing less than a deep sense of carnal desire for you,
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