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Damn. If there's one thing
I really can't take, it's dishonesty. And one of the biggest areas
where there has been a cover-up of the truth is the whole topic of
what women today really love in a man.
Of all the areas to not tell the truth to a guy about, this one's
gotta be one of the worst, with huge ramifications to a guy's
self-esteem.
I think the single greatest criminal element to the big lie is in pop
music. Not talking about hard rock here or heavy metal- no sir. I'm
talking about typical pop. You hear all these lame excuses for men
singing about how wonderful some woman is, and how soft and nice he
feels regarding her.
And you might get the idea that being all soft and nice is how you get
some wonderful result.
Excuse me while I puke.
Listen, this type stuff is responsible for more masturbation and
depression than anything else. There are other culprits too- some of
the major "relationship" experts out there, including some male
authors, who blame everything on men, really should be tried for
treason against all men.
The REALITY is that a woman's sexual and emotional interest in you is
DIRECTLY proportional to your LACK of interest in her. That is NOT to
say that you should be MEAN to a woman, but if you approach a woman
and for one SPLIT second she thinks that you are thinking too highly
of her, you are FRIED. You are TOAST. You are HISTORY.
Again, I'm not saying to be a jerk. But you SHOULD be just a TOUCH
more arrogant than the woman you are speaking to.
And trust me, please trust me, chances are she is PLENTY arrogant.
Unless you think that the idea that a man should pay for a woman who
has done nothing for him is cool.
Unless you think that the idea that a man should first prove himself
to a woman, and then let a woman take her sweet time to compare him to
a thousand guys and then maybe, maybe get back to him, is cool.
So YES, be arrogant, but in a CONFIDENT way that says you KNOW she
wants you.
That's why TEASING in a PLAYFUL way is so important.
It's kind of strange, but in a way, women are actually encouraging a
society where men are more likely to become "womanizers", since it's
only with those skills that you can hold on to most women these days.
Yes, really.
At least in western culture, that's how it is.
You see, when women see that you really could dump them in an instant,
and that you could easily and at any second have sex with a dozen
other gorgeous women who are crazy about you, that is when suddenly
she will be acting all sweet and nice and good.
She might start treating you so well, that you might even suddenly be
humming one of those wussy songs on the radio. And you might REALLY
think that you have some kind of "special" woman on your hands.
When in fact, the degree that she acts fantastic and "special" is
proportional to the degree that you really could get another woman
like her in an instant.
In other words, to the degree that you realize she is NOT special.
Does any of this make any sense?
Is it logical?
Of course not.
But I'm here to call a spade a spade. Remember, I hate dishonesty. One
of the greatest problems facing men these days is actually not women-
it's MEN.
You see, since men everywhere are kissing up to women so much, they
have created a bizarre society where there is an "inflation" regarding
how men perceive the value of a woman's affection. And of course,
women start to believe all that great publicity, even though it's all
based on a fallacy.
So what happens is that women are so spoiled by men, that the only
type of men they respond to at all are the men who are a CHALLENGE.
Think about how really rich people sometimes enjoy to "rough it". Or
think of how in modern times, kids play video games of war for
excitement. People who have really lived through horrors and wars,
however, really appreciate peace and tranquility and harmony.
Get it?
So women, who are extremely spoiled by ignorant men, need a little
"excitement" and "drama" and "challenge". So give it to them, for crying
out loud.
Making it easy for women is like helping the kid win the game by taking
over the controls and winning it for him. You end up pissing the kid
off, not making him happy.
Now, all this takes an interesting turn when it comes to relationships,
which is another area full of b.s. in modern times.
Lately, I've been focusing a lot on just the art of the pickup, but
relationships are an important part of who I am and what I coach as
well, so it's about time I discussed a bit of that here.
On one hand, today you have the "macho" dudes who pretend that they
don't even want relationships, on the other hand you have the wussy
dudes who kiss up. The reality is that relationships are far trickier
than just being able to attract women for sex. The reason is that we are
living in a society that is focused on "me" and nothing else.
This goes completely against the whole concept of what a relationship
is- two people coming together to share their lives so that the SUM is
GREATER than their individual parts and obviously well worth the effort.
So what happens today, is that everyone wants a relationship, but they
also want to be single at the same time.
This is how you get situations where couples go on separate vacations,
have closer connections with people at work than they do with their
spouse, and create such bullshit terms as "quality" time as opposed to
REAL time. And how you get situations where it's perfectly normal for
couples to separately hang out at clubs where the vibe is all about
picking up and being single as opposed to being together.
But of course, it's all about "dancing" as the euphemism goes. It's also
how you get a basic vibe of "what can you do for ME" right off the bat.
And it's how you get a society of internet dating because people are too
busy with themselves to have the time to go through a natural process of
getting to know someone.
It's all about the INSTANT ORGASM MENTALITY.
Give it to ME.
NOW.
And then people wonder why relationships don't last today. They wonder
why the divorce rate is so high. Women wonder why they are more
depressed now than they were BEFORE all this "progress".
Now, again, I'm going to get hell for this, but I call a spade as I see
it. Sometimes, there is such a thing as black and white. But calling a
spade a spade today is dangerous.
It means facing reality, and having to make choices and realize that
everything has a price and that you can't have everything.
Also, sex SELLS.
But it's much harder to use sex to sell a product or service if people
are ALREADY happy and content.
So if everyone was in a good relationship, people would start to say the
heck with a lot of other things- they wouldn't need as much bling bling
to impress people, they wouldn't need to buy so many things and
services.
Products are sold on perceived NEEDS.
One of the greatest needs is a sense of connection and self-acceptance.
So if you feel good about yourself, and if you have a great
relationship, chances are you do not feel the need to buy the ACME 3000
latest sexy mouthwash invented by DeEffeminate Designer, you do not need
the latest sexy car, you do not feel the need to subscribe to the latest
men's magazine that tells you what an idiot you've been for not reading
it all along, and how you hardly match up to the effeminate male models
in it's pages, and how you really better read the article on p.122 about
what gel to put in your hair.
It's simply not in the interest of a lot of business for you to be
happy, and for you to be in a stable relationship. You have to have the
NEED to impress in order to be exploited by all the crap out there.
This is why today you hear a lot about how supposedly nothing is black
and white anymore when it comes to morals.
Of course they want you to believe that- THAT way you can feel GOOD
about cheating on your spouse, or at least doubt your commitment to
them, and also it can help to make you feel a need to buy the latest b.s.
product to make you "impressive" to the opposite gender.
So that is why today, it seems there is NOTHING that is "wrong".
Everything is just a matter of perspective and opinion, except one
thing:
Whatever happens, the general b.s. of today is that you are NEVER
responsible for your actions or the consequences.
You see, that way, you can keep on screwing up, so that you will
constantly be unhappy and in need of some product.
So the POINT is that if you want a relationship that will thrive and
stand the test of time, you better make sure to find a woman who's
already happy and has high self esteem, and who values the joy of a
relationship more than getting cancer while shaking her butt to a zoo of
drunken wobbly people at a smoky and deafening club.
Okay, time to wrap this up:
Ultimately, I'm not even here to make you meet women, or have sex with
women, or get into a relationship.
I'm here to give every good guy out there back his self-esteem. If
you're in a relationship right now and taking abuse, and you think you
could never find someone better, it's time to IMMEDIATELY get out of
that hell NOW.
You can INSTANTLY change your life and meet other women, better women,
TODAY. And not just meet them, but you'll be triggering chemistry in
them for you.
It takes some work on your part in addition to the information I will
show you, but I sincerely feel the results are worth infinitely MORE
than your investment in time and money.
What I have found is that this area called "success with women" can be a
major psychological barrier to your own self-esteem if you don't have it
down pat.
It's because as a society, we tend to associate a lot of how worthy you
are with how you do with women. It's b.s. of course, but when you see
how easy it can be to be awesome with women, it's like having a huge
weight taken off your shoulders. And then you can go back to your real
life and focus better.
There are two ways to go about this:
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relationship as well as important concepts to apply for relationship
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