Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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- Go beyond rote line memorization and understand the difference of dating
and of being "The Man" when it comes to seducing women.
Michael W: When you can increase her worth then you can attract her on a base level that no other guy can touch.
If you want to attract the woman of your choice, regardless of how beautiful she may be, the most important thing to realize is that her feeling of being "turned on" by you hinges on the way you make her feel about herself.
If you think about it, people will do anything on earth, and do it with pleasure, if they just feel that the activity will somehow bring them closer to higher self-esteem.
Just think about all the cults out there, who have had not fools, but very intelligent people join them, and then they all end up destroying themselves, just because they all believe in the leader- a leader who gives their life meaning and gives them a sense of purpose and makes them feel their lives are worthy.
And think about the fact that you probably know of many women who were gorgeous and who were with guys who mistreated them horribly, but somehow the woman just couldn't bring herself to leave the guy, and in fact loved the guy, even though she probably had infinite offers to be with tons of other guys who were better in every way.
The thing is, when it comes to winning with women, the only thing that ultimately counts is how she feels HER worth is affected by being with YOU. This is all subconscious, women do not think about it, they just feel it.
The problem is that most guys think they are making a woman feel better about herself by kissing up to her and doing everything they can for her, etc etc. The reason this doesn't work is because 99% of the time, when guys do this, they are doing it out of desperation and lack of confidence and lack of feeling value in themselves. This comes through not so much in the guy's words, but in the way he says his words, his body language, etc, which all flow from this thoughts.
So, in her mind, with most guys, all this "nice" stuff the guy is doing actually just reinforces in her mind that he is of no value. After all, the guy himself believes this, and this is the message he is giving off. "You are superior to me". So of course why would a woman feel BETTER by being with a guy who feels he is worth less than her?
Now, this does not mean that by treating a woman badly, you are therefore going to make her attracted to you. Not at all.
Plenty of guys who do that and get nowhere as well.
What counts is having the kind of personality that makes everything you say and do compelling. You can get the same result from being "good" to a woman and giving her a compliment as you can from being "cocky", but the thing is that since most guys associate being "good" as a sign that the woman is of superior value, they end up CONVEYING this to the woman. And since most guys deep down believe that being cocky is somehow a sign of their own value, they end up conveying that to a woman, which is better than kissing up.
But it's not the compliment or the tease actually, it's all the OTHER info about yourself that gets conveyed indirectly, through your tonality, your expression, your reaction, your perspective of life, etc.
You ever talk to some people and you are bored instantly? And yet with a few people you might have seen, they ALWAYS seem to just be compelling? From the moment you shake their hand, to the last moment in their presence, you just are totally interested in everything they are saying and doing?
To a woman who is gorgeous, it's really no big deal to get compliments from guys who feel they are beneath her. It's no big deal to get free dinners. It's no big deal to get "security" since she can get all this very easily. However, what is a big deal to her is being with someone who adds ELECTRICITY to her life through his magnetic personality, his special FILTER of reality, the way he sees the world and the way he lives his life.
The truth is that reality can be experienced in any number of ways, some of them boring and some of them life-affirming, exciting, and fun.
Unfortunately, it doesn't matter whether you do this in the name of good or evil. If you have the compelling personality, it will work, whether you are saint or a bastard. Notice how the most charismatic people in history were unafraid of death, they all were living for something greater than the ordinary existence, they all inspired the people around them to do extraordinary things, not for money, but for something intangible- a cause, a sense of purpose, a way of living.
These things are all created in our minds, they don't exist in concrete form, but they are far more powerful than anything tangible. These are the things that human beings really crave and will do anything for- and if you can make a woman feel these emotions, she will be yours forever. But the first key is to develop all this in yourself- that way you will have the effect on women without even trying.
Make no mistake about it, when you develop this personality, you can make a woman gush in her panties just at the thought of being with you, and you can do this even if you only can take her to McDonalds and have very little of the "typical" things that guys try to use to attract a woman. And if you do not develop this personality, then you won't get anywhere for long even if you drive a Ferrari and take her to the fanciest restaurants and bring her to your castle.
It's all about making a woman feel transcended beyond the primitive levels of existence and taking her to the highest levels of emotional experience.
If you want to learn how to do that, then I suggest you get my CD Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship program. This program focuses on how to effectively make a woman feel the highest sense of self-esteem and how to make her experience the most compelling and exciting emotions possible.
This program will take you into greater depth on every area of attraction than anything else out there on the planet. For example, just on dominance alone you will find over an HOUR'S worth of pure gold, and on CD 8, tracks 5-10, you will find exactly how to open a conversation using dominance and how to continue it this way. And much, much more. It's here.
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook- The Dating Wizard:
Secrets to Success with Women, then do that now. It's got dozens of
ideas you can start using to meet women tonight. It's
here.
"The Dating Wizard's: Spell To Dating Success" article series. When you are able to accept that a woman might potentially not like you, you are then able to let go of being overly concerned with this fear.
This series of articles (listed here) are a
small part of the information contained in "The Secrets To Success With
Women (more info)" ebook and "The Seduction Mastery Apprentice Program
(more info)" on CD/DVD.
Wishing you success with women,
Michael
