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Michael W - The Dating Wizard: The Spell To Dating Success
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Clarity is one of the
most important things to me, personally. I hate it when people try
to onfuse you into thinking they are so smart. So my goal is to help
make things as SIMPLE
as possible, because the reality is that even then, it's not that
simple.
The first thing I want to clarify is
that being able to successfully pick up a woman who is a total
stranger from a COLD APPROACH is quite different from attracting a
woman who is already in your social circle or who you have already
been introduced to somehow.
That's not to say that there are is not any OVERLAP between both
kinds of situations, and in my advanced programs I go into the
ENTIRE spectrum of attraction, but I think we all know that there IS
a difference.
One of the crucial differences is that you have to go from TOTAL
STRANGER in her mind to "I WANT THIS GUY TO KEEP TALKING TO ME" in
about 30-90 seconds. That's like a car that has to go from 0 to 100
in 3.5 seconds.
VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOM.
Yes, THAT'S THE LEVEL of POWER your "attraction engines" have to be
able to generate for these "cold approach" pick-ups.
And that's not it.
Once you have her feeling "I want this guy to keep on talking to
me", you then have to be ABLE to MASSIVELY AND QUICKLY shift GEARS,
because her own ATTRACTION to you then automatically KICKS IN HER
"SAFETY BRAKES" where she starts to feel WEIRD about feeling
ATTRACTION so FAST for a TOTAL STRANGER.
So you have to be able to TOTALLY GO INTO A NEW GEAR now, yet it
must feel like a TOTALLY SMOOTH transition, where you are now not
concerned about getting her to feel raw attraction so much as
feeling JUSTIFIED for having these feelings for you. She doesn't
want to just feel ATTRACTION for you and then worry if you are going
to DUMP her, or if SHE will regret getting closer to you because you
two really have nothing to bond you together. She wants to feel that
you two will be able to CONNECT emotionally as well, that it won't
be LABOR trying to have a
basic DISCUSSION with you in general in the future.
So in this gear, you have to take care of all these issues.
This shifting of gears is just one example of the many examples of
what SEEMS like contradictions when it comes to attraction, but in
reality there are NO contradictions once you understand the CONTEXT
of the various attraction concepts.
For example, you may have heard about how it's important to be laid
back and chilled out and be yourself, and yet you also hear how it's
so important to STAND OUT. So if you are so laid back and chilled,
how do you STAND OUT??
This is just one area where only the guys who REALLY do this for
real know what they are talking about, because real life experience
provides the all-important context to give you the correct meaning.
So let me explain just one situation for example where the above
applies, and how it's not a contradiction.
If I'm at a club, and it's not that busy yet, and there is a TRUE "9
or 10" there, I'm usually not going to jump into that. I'll chill
out with my wingman, I'll let other guys run their typical needy
game on her, I'll actually forget about her and just be social and
chat with lots of people, till it gets busy.
By that time, there are often SEVERAL super hotties there, and this
totally gets rid of the scarcity vibe as well, and I'll circulate
and socialize and have fun with tons of people, so not only am I
having a great time which of course takes your state up into the
stratosphere, but I'm also building "social proof" from the best
girls and the coolest people at the place. And while doing this, I
always end up naturally bumping into the hottie from earlier that
evening, in a very NOT NEEDY and not creepy vibe, where I really am
in that state where I just want to have fun and party, so my
interaction with her has ALL the right vibes.
It's one of my philosophies to NEVER jump for the situations that
are OBVIOUS SITUATIONS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF, because EVERY GUY would
normally DO THAT, since he feels he has her "trapped". I want to
give women a chance to feel CHOICE and NO PRESSURE, so that when I
DO roll in, it's clearly because I have TOTAL FAITH in my vibe and
am not relying like a needy guy on the fact she is the only girl in
line in front of us, etc.
So that's chilled out.
And yet, as far as standing out, my actual PICK UP stands out. It's
got better energy, it's sharper, it's wittier, it's got stronger
bonding, it's got more PARTY to it if at a club, it's got more CLASS
if at a bookstore, etc. And of course, I'll choose my style, gear
and accessories all in a way that stands out. And it's all PERSONAL
choices that reflect MY personality in a way that is compelling.
Another contradiction is that this idea of being an ALPHA MALE is
totally preached the wrong way by most "experts". For example, when
I enter a huge set of girls at a club while they are dancing, I'm
not thinking "I'm the Alpha Man gonna show them who's ALPHA" LOL!!!
THAT'S LUDICROUS!!!!!
Instead, I go in without THINKING anything except LETS HAVE A F-ING
GOOD TIME!!
And the ALPHA part of THAT is the fact that I have CONQUERED THE
ONLY PERSON WHO NEEDS TO BE "CONQUERED" - AND THAT IS ME. I have
conquered my own deepest demons that used to CARE about what other
people THINK, and instead of caring what people think, I am goin in
with BIG ENERGY that is giving VIBE TO THE STRATOSPHERE!!!
And I am EMBRACING their humanity as well, I am ACCEPTING them as
they are, that we are all there to have a GOOD TIME.
The real "alpha warrior" has conquered the enemy that stares himself
in the MIRROR everyday.
In fact, it's only then that you can REALLY make the most of all the
OTHER complex things I teach for how to get a girl away from her
friends alone with you (she will WANT to do this if you just set it
up right, no TRICKS involved), how to attract in a way that makes
you stand out, how to create a super-strong bond and connection, and
how to attract whether you are at a bar, bookstore, club, or a
public transit train or bus!
And if you are reading this right now, and would like to get the
FULL picture, so that there are no more contradictions, I suggest
you order my Seduction Mastery Apprenticeship Program CD Set
immediately.
It's based on YEARS of thinking about this stuff from every angle,
and not only thinking but also TESTING it, the results of YEARS of
BOOTCAMPS teaching guys out in the field.
www.thedatingwizard.com/seductionmastery.htm
 And
if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets
to Success with Women, then do that IMMEDIATELY. This book is the
DNA for understanding the concepts and methods in all my other
programs and services.
www.thedatingwizard.com/ebook.htm
Till next time,
Michael
PS. If you want more
information before purchasing any of my products (they come with the
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Michael W, better known as The Dating Wizard, is a dating and
relationship consultant for men, as well as a frequent guest on radio
and television talk shows. Michael has spent over four years studying
the specific male behaviors that trigger attraction in women. His
findings are based on both his real life observations of men who are
successful with women, as well as his research on evolutionary
psychology and its applications to sexual attraction.
His advice to men? Forget everything you’ve ever been taught about women
since you were a kid. "Women don’t want a politically correct man, they
want a real man. You have to unlearn all the myths and behaviors that
are holding you back from success with women." To find out all about Michael, his book, and his consultation services,
check out
The Dating Wizard Website or call 416 630 9966.
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