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The Dating Wizard Website Some pretty amazing
things happen when YOU know you have CHOICES with women. Your
confidence increases, your sense of humor is unleashed, you raise
your standards in what type of women you are willing to date, you
become more challenging in a good way, your body language improves,
your self-esteem rises to the point that you would never stay in a
situation where you are being abused, and you develop an "aura" that
attracts a woman within SECONDS of meeting her.
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.
The other interesting thing is that when WOMEN know you have
choices, they tend to be MORE attracted to you even though that
might mean you have more choices with whom to possibly "cheat". So
it's not only the fact that YOU gain confidence when YOU know you
have choices, but there is also the fact that when women KNOW you
have choices it also makes them more attracted to you.
This was a strange thing I learned years ago that at the time went
against everything that made sense to me.
Many years ago, I used to basically cut off contact with other women
when I would first meet a woman that I liked and wanted to have a
relationship with. I would try to show her through this behaviour
that I would be faithful, reliable, and dedicated, etc.
The irony was that this always ended up in women taking advantage of
me and doing the OPPOSITE to me. In other words, the women I liked
made sure that I did see that they would have other guys clamoring
for their attention. (Of course when this happens once you are THE
MAN, it is a sign of a woman trying to prove to you that she is
desirable and often that she is insecure.)
The other irony was that the whole reason I did this in the first
place was because I always heard how women complained of being hurt
emotionally by guys and I had heard women complaining that men are
cheaters, etc. I wanted to prove that I was a GOOD guy because in
fact I WAS a good guy.
Unfortunately, most human beings do not appreciate that which comes
too easy. And for a woman who is half-decently attractive, they DO
get guys too easily. That's part of the secret that jerks know, and
why jerks are hard to get, although you don't have to be a jerk do
do this right as I explain in detail in my book and in my other
services.
Women do NOT easily get guys that know the game, but they get other
typical guys who like me in the old days are brainwashed to believe
that there is a terrible inequality and that women have it terrible
and that guys are evil and all women are pristine saints who are
just looking for a good guy.
The reality is that there IS an inequality, but it’s the OTHER way
around!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s an inequality in terms of KNOWLEDGE, in that
good guys have had their minds WIPED BLANK of how to actually
interact with women in a way that triggers ATTRACTION instead of
creepiness or a feeling in her that the guy is a dork.
Let me give you an example of the power of having CHOICES that
occurred just this weekend while I was conducting my intensive
One-on-One Bootcamp. An attractive young woman was waiting for the
train at the subway station and I mentioned to my client that he
might want to apply what he had been learning earlier in terms of
approaches for this situation. He asked for me to demonstrate, so I
approached her using all the detailed concepts I speak about, but my
main point here is not to focus on me or that but rather to focus on
what happened. She seemed to be a bit less relaxed, as English was
not her first language, and it can be a bit intimidating sometimes
when two guys are so close to one woman depending on the time of
day, the amount of other people there, etc.
Anyway, she was slowly getting more into the conversation, laughing,
but I could tell she was still a bit uncomfortable, so I made it
clear that I was not there to take advantage of the situation that
she was by herself and let her walk in the train as she was still
smiling, and I did not follow her.
As my client and I got in the train, I sat down beside this other
attractive girl, totally laid back and began a conversation with
her, again using all the principles I speak about. Now this girl was
totally relaxed with it, and smiling and laughing and having a great
time. Well guess what happened next?
Suddenly, from HALFWAY ACROSS THE TRAIN, the original woman from the
subway platform starts leaning
in toward us from her seat and joins in the conversation, giving her
opinion about something I had been talking to her about five minutes
earlier! Normally that would have been a dead conversation by now.
But no, there she is, smiling and speaking loudly as if we had never
stopped chatting, even though the whole train could probably hear
her. And trust me, she was not some psycho. She had just gone from
being a shy slightly nervous woman to wanting to GET WITH THE
PROGRAM!
Pretty soon, we had
both women in conversation with us, competing playfully for our
attention, going from complete strangers to discussing things like
who would be the better girl to marry depending on which girl was a
better cook and had more money or ambition and was better with kids
had the better education and who was just more fun to hang with.
LOL.
ALL BECAUSE SHE SAW THAT WE WERE NOT TAKING ADVANTAGE OF HER, THAT
WE WERE NOT DESPERATE, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, THAT ANOTHER WOMAN
THOUGHT WE WERE COOL AND FUN TO BE WITH.
This is the power that comes from both YOU knowing that you have
choices, and from WOMEN knowing that you have choices. In the
example above, by seeing another woman feel comfortable and trusting
us and having a great time, the original woman felt a SURGE in all
those emotions of attraction and trust.
This is where things sometimes differ between men and women. Most
guys already KNOW women have choices, so when a woman keeps on
proving to a guy that she has choices, it can make him feel that she
is trying to be a pain in the ass and cause problems. Whereas with
most women who are attractive, they DON’T think most guys have too
many choices, so when she knows that you have choices, it makes her
feel she is with a good catch.
Of course there are exceptions and once you both know that each
other has value, it’s time for both people to chill out a bit if
they are going to have any peace in a possible relationship.
By the way, if getting
two women who are total strangers not only to you but to each other,
can all be having a great time with you within 5 minutes, think
about what can be done in a longer time frame in malls, bookstores,
cafes, and don’t even get me started about the massive ease of what
to do in a club!!!! I remember how in the old days, girls would try
to make me jealous by talking about how they were going to a club
with their girlfriends, etc, because in those days I avoided clubs
and because I felt they were sleezy, I was uncomfortable in that
environment and therefore didn’t have the practice to make it work
to my advantage. These days however, meeting girls at clubs is like
picking up apples off a tree, where the branch is at perfect easy to
reach height.
These days, the last thing any girl I meet wants to do is even
mention the word club to me. Instead, they want to do things like
rent movies or just have fun together away from “all the crazy
people out there”.
Life is ironic.
It’s great to know that other good guys out there are applying what
they are learning here and getting awesome results too, as this
email letter that I received just a couple of days ago shows:
***Letter From A Reader***
I was reading your website last Friday and thought the info on there
was great. I even tried some of your tips and stuck to your advice.
I could not believe the feedback I was getting. I never get numbers
and I am usually in a corner drinking a beer. But that night I said,
forget that and gave your teasing method a try. Well, I talked to
almost every woman in the damn place and ended up with some numbers,
it was great. I am and will buy your book, thanks for the help.
Roger T.,
California
***My Response***
Thanks for the plug! It’s great to hear from guys who are turning
things around from the way it used to be. It’s great to know that
instead of going for some jerk (who they don’t even know is a jerk)
those women in the club are now hoping to hear from that cool fun
guy they met who is NOT a jerk but instead is THE MAN!!!!
By the way, the talking to a bunch of women is a great idea, too
many guys get too caught up with one woman, not only at clubs, but
anywhere. Certainly at a club, I think it’s a great idea to talk to
a bunch of women and find out which ones if any seem to have the
qualities that make them worthy of spending more time. Other women
will also notice that you have choices and this only makes them
trust you MORE and feel MORE attracted to you. (This doesn’t mean to
make out with girls at the club, though, and if girls see you making
out with several other girls it will probably only attract the
psychos!)
Knowing you have choices also makes you naturally do the attractive
thing in other situations, such as internet dating. For example, if
a girl online doesn’t respond to you contacting her, (assuming you
did it RIGHT) then you will move on. This will often make her wonder
what the heck happened and she will contact YOU because most guys
will send her like ten emails a day telling her how great she is
without even having MET her. This is ludicrous of course, but many
guys do exactly that just because they think looks are everything.
It’s interesting to me personally that after learning these skills,
a girl’s looks become just ONE factor to me, and not even the MOST
important factor. Don’t get me wrong, of course I am attracted to
looks, but if a girl was a few pounds more or a few pounds less, if
she was taller or shorter I could care less - if she had all the
OTHER attractive characteristics that I personally value. The irony
HERE is that often very attractive girls seem to sense this about me
and that only makes them try harder to prove that they are indeed
quality people. Which is cool by me. I truly believe that a quality
personality is actually even more rare to find than quality looks.
Also, I have found that although attractive girls might be a bit
spoiled in terms of ATTENTION, they are only spoiled in the sense
that a kid might be spoiled from getting the toys he wants, but is
not necessarily a bad kid. In fact, sometimes those kids who were
really showered with attention are also incredibly giving themselves
because they have not been LACKING and because they are SECURE in
their own worth.
In fact, very often the "hotties" really DO have awesome
personalities. What I’m saying is don’t jump to conclusions just
based on looks alone.
When you know you have choices, you also tend to have the most
effective PERSPECTIVES on any interactions you have with women and
regarding women in general. Since you believe in your own worth, you
will not take anything that women do too personally. Any kind of
rude behaviour will reflect more about them than yourself, and also
you will pass any tests that women throw at you easily, you will
laugh at it the same way a superhero dude like Batman laughed as he
watched a little kid who had the nerve to try to steal the hubcaps
off the Batmobile!
In other words, you will feel that her “nerve” is harmless and
laughable and in fact a testament to YOUR worth that she is even
trying to do it in the first place.
YOU are THE MAN and the kid, or the chick, has no power over
you or your worth.
When you KNOW you have choices, you don’t RUSH into a relationship
before you KNOW who you are dealing with, you don’t stay with a girl
that shows she can’t be trusted or who breaks principles that you
both agreed on or who tries to beat down your self-esteem, and you
don’t go around being bitter or mean.
One thing I want to say here is that I do NOT believe in using the
methods I teach to create abusive relationships. Like anything else,
the point is to just show that you have worth, NOT to show that the
woman you are with does NOT have worth. You have to be careful in
how you use this stuff, which also means not pursuing women that
have psychological issues or otherwise are not good matches for you
even though you know very well how to attract them. It’s not an ego
trip here, guys, so learn to hold out for the right women/woman who
are the right match, and you will thus avoid all the negative drama
that comes with choosing the wrong
women.
Often, people that are most psycho or cruel deep down believe that
no one of worth REALLY likes the REAL them. And more importantly,
they don’t like themselves. They really feel so needy for approval
that they resort to all kinds of warped games to get LOTS OF
SUPERFICIAL APPROVAL from others. Stay away from these types of
women even though you CAN attract them, because if you are so needy
that you need to get such approval, you are on the dangerous path to
becoming low self esteem yourself, and pursuing or interacting with
such a person will only DAMAGE your self-esteem.
You ARE your environment, so be damn careful and make it a good one.
That TOO is a CHOICE.
When you know you have CHOICE, you suddenly SKYROCKET your skills
with women. You don’t need to be MEAN and you don’t need to be this
overly “nice guy”, you can basically do whatever you want because
guys that have choices CONVEY that subconsciously in thing like
their body language, voice tonality, to their sense of timing and
intuition with women, so that they tend to do the attractive thing
NO MATTER WHAT.
So the question becomes how do you reach that level where you KNOW
you have choice? The answer of course is KNOWLEDGE plus PRACTICE.
Knowledge is crucial, you have to understand the realities of women
today and you have to understand the triggers of attraction, but
PRACTICE is ALSO CRITICAL because practice hones your social
reflexes, it hones your intuition, it lets you calibrate the woman
in front of you better, for example it lets you know exactly how
much teasing is right for her, and how much small talk is right, and
lets you determine how relaxed she is or how nervous she is, when is
the right time to escalate, to bridge to kissing, etc.
 And if you want to get the KNOWLEDGE, the best place to start is my
eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women. Inside
you’ll find out PROVEN ways to QUICKLY build attraction, and of
course how to meet women literally anywhere, and how get a woman’s
contact info, and how to smoothly transition to “getting physical”.
Download it now at:
The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women book page
And if you have read the book, you are ready for the next level-
where I will show you, IN PERSON, EXACTLY HOW THIS ALL WORKS.
From personally showing you how to create the right kind of teases
on the fly, to how to build up trust and rapport, to how to use your
body language and tonality to smoothly passing through women’s
“tests” to spark attraction, to how to make her friends who are
surrounding her feel great about you entering their dynamic, to
showing you the best wardrobe makeover advice and how to understand
what type of clothing will enhance your appeal, to an to an in-depth
understanding of the aspects of women’s psychology and cultural
conditioning that is CRITICAL to understand for success, you will
gain the most advanced understanding on Earth of women and
attraction and you will also be able to pick my mind and have all
your questions answered.
And if you would like to learn IN PERSON, you now have TWO great
options to do that:
1. The Real World Bootcamp
In the Real World Bootcamp, I will serve as your exclusive
instructor for three days and nights as you learn everything about
pick up in real world venues such as taverns, bookstores, clubs, and
the street. If you want to learn all the complex dynamics of
attracting a woman and taking her through all the stages of the
rollercoaster, then it's best to learn from someone who's actually
"in the ring" on a regular basis and DOES it for real, and knows
what he's talking about so that he can fill in all the CONTEXT
that's missing from what you might be reading elsewhere. You can now
do that in my ONE-ON-ONE bootcamps where I will work exclusively
with you in real venues such as clubs, malls, streets, cafes, and
even trains and buses.
The bootcamp will get you to where you want to be in the most
efficient manner possible. I'll teach you HOW to deal with all the
unpredictable situations that can arise, I'll show you HOW to deal
with challenges such as loud music where it's difficult to be heard,
and HOW to actually isolate girls, HOW to deal with her friends, and
of COURSE how to pick up in daytime as well. And you'll also get to
learn how to REALLY create a natural vibe to the whole interaction
so that she doesn't feel weird about meeting you the next time.
I wish somebody could have taught me all this stuff at one shot over
a weekend instead of having to learn it piece by piece, from various
different guys and from tons of my own mistakes and experiences over
YEARS. During those years, it was often like walking blindfolded
into the lion's cage, where I got ripped apart. If you want to avoid
the feeling of being punched in from all sides at once, and if you
want to learn as fast as possible, I recommend you sign up for the
bootcamp as soon as you can.
Go to:
Bootcamp Information Page
2.The Dating
Wizard Live Seminar
If you want to learn HOW to do all this in a comfortable seminar
style environment, then I recommend my DATING WIZARD LIVE SEMINAR,
[Date and place to be announced soon!]
This is your chance to get the most advanced understanding and skill
on this topic on earth. This is not a seminar where I am just
talking, I will be interacting with you, taking your questions, and
there will even be a component of the seminar where clients get to
prove that what they have learned actually works, as they pick up
women for real.
To find out more, go to:
Live Seminars Information Page
Till next time,
Michael W.
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