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Michael W - The Dating
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The Dating Wizard Website One of the great
things you know from my services and material is that it's all based
on REAL interactions with women, and not just my own, but thousands
of other guys of all types. So it's not just some dude at a word
processor. The interesting thing I notice about a LOT of what is out
there in terms of information is that they are often pointing out
ONE thing without mentioning the OTHER important factors that are
MASSIVELY related. They are just throwing out half-truths, but never
putting it all together because they actually don't KNOW how to put
it all together!!!
I KNOW this field because I EXPERIENCE IT and DO THIS STUFF ALL THE
TIME. And I know what it's like to NOT know this stuff since I had
to learn it all myself. So I can truly relate to the guys who are
coming at this even at the total newbie stage.
I do this stuff all the time because I PERSONALLY am fascinated by
this field, and I believe it is of MASSIVE IMPORTANCE for any good
guys out there. Being successful with women enables good guys to get
AWAY from the wrong kind of women, the wrong kind of emotions, and
gets them into better situations with better women in better
relationships, and all that leads to better lives. It really is
amazing how once you begin to understand attraction in a powerful
way, you start to understand the entire mentality of women who are
able to attract men which is itself a huge epiphany and discovery.
But it takes learning the FULL TRUTH about how attraction, cultural
norms, and trust works, before that epiphany makes itself clear.
For example, you hear about "being yourself" a lot. That is
partially TRUE. However, the problem with just telling people to "be
their self" is: What if their CURRENT self is a TERRIBLE version of
their self? What if their current self has NO IDEA of what it's like
to be MASSIVELY EMPOWERED? What if their current self is IGNORANT
about the realities of women? What if their current self is FREAKED
OUT by the thought of approaching women or escalating into getting
physical?
You see, what the "being yourself" advice REALLY means is to NOT
come across to women as some guy putting on an ACT.
Women want to feel they are talking to the REAL YOU. That makes
sense doesn't it? Don't you hate it when you know someone is just
ACTING with you and not being their real self? Doesn't it feel
weird?
And it's usually very obvious to a woman when a guy is not being his
real self. He is usually doing things that are incongruent. i.e. He
acts cocky but his body language and tonality say otherwise. Or,
because he doesn't REALLY understand what it means to be a fun cocky
guy, he goes overboard and comes across as a total jerk, or total
dork, and since women know that there's no way on earth he would
WANT to be coming across as such a clueless dork who can't get
women, then obviously he is ignorant about women and is covering it
up with some kind of act.
But being yourself that DOES NOT mean being lazy! FIRST, IMPROVE
your understanding of women, your understanding of the social forces
acting upon women, learn how to make people and especially women
feel GOOD, learn how to assess a social situation and know what is
happening, learn what attraction really is, learn how to trigger it,
and THEN you can be YOURSELF.
THEN you can be natural because you have IMPROVED yourself so that
all that you do now is all "good" stuff which comes naturally
without you even thinking about it. The idea about being your real
self is about being your OPTIMUM SELF. Then you can be your real
self.
And just like how THIS piece of information of "be yourself" or even
worse, "be your romantic self" gets thrown about wildly without any
context, so too does MOST of the information being published out
there lack context. In that sense, it's almost MISINFORMATION.
Another example of misinformation is the idea of "BEING ALPHA": Too
many guys think this means to act like a total selfish prick. Wrong
again. For instance, let's say there are two girls you and a buddy
are talking to at a club. And you isolate one of the girls and she's
having a great time with you. Then for some reason she sees her
friend and says she needs to get back to her friend.
Now, if you follow the "ALPHA" school of thought, you might
basically act like a prick and tell her that you are more important
or that she should ignore her friend, or you should try to "caveman"
her into not seeing how her friend is doing. Well guess what? All
this DEPENDS on a TON of things. You see, if she CAME with that
friend, and you isolated her from her friend, even if you did it
with the help of your wingman, it might be that her friend is no
longer with your wingman and now has nothing to do. Girls don't
ditch their only girlfriend that fast. But that's just the tip of
the iceberg- let's say you can OBVIOUSLY tell that her friend is
having a bad day, and let's say your girl even TELLS you that her
friend is having a bad day and it's obvious she is not telling you a
lie from the way her friend seems, it would be STUPID to try to act
all "Alpha" and tell her to ignore her friend because of YOU.
THAT is why I keep on saying to be THE MAN. Not the jerk, not the
alpha, but THE MAN. James Bond would never be a prick to a woman. He
is THE MAN.
He has no need to be a prick, to be cruel, or to be thoughtless.
He is also sophisticated enough to know human emotions, and how
social forces work, and how to make people feel good, and how to not
come across like some clueless savage. He is also confident enough
that the woman will SEE this in him, and thus confident enough that
she wants him, and will meet him later. And of course, he is not
needy for any of this either since there are so many other options
available.
Sometimes, the best thing to do really is to just get her number or
email and follow up. And by showing your obvious understanding of
human emotions and that you have your finger on the pulse of the
situation, that in itself makes you seem truly THE MAN, and the
superior, more attractive and desirable choice.
And there are tons of
other examples of misinformation, such as those who claim "the
direct approach" to interacting with women is better than the
"indirect approach". Again, it all DEPENDS on a lot of factors,
including who the girl is, her state of mind at the moment, the
amount of time you both have at the moment, the environment you both
are in, what you are most comfortable with, and a ton of other
factors.
The only way to KNOW all of this is from actually learning it from
someone who REALLY KNOWS from experience and also you must ACTUALLY
PRACTICE to get the skills ingrained.
Finally, there is also
a huge deal of confusion over what it actually means to be a guy in
CONTROL. Again, this is why I say be THE MAN. Women are looking for
men, not "nice guys" or "jerks" as both nice guys and jerks are just
flip sides of insecurity. So, for example, if you are in a club and
it's too loud, then by gosh darn's sake, you're going to have to
learn to talk LOUDER in a way that doesn't seem like you are
straining or stressing yourself out. Or you're going to have to know
a way to get her to a place that's QUIETER.
And if you are both standing somewhere, you're going to have to get
yourselves both seated if possible, and you're going to have to do
all this in a way that feels natural and fun and not weird.
Don't expect HER to do all this for you. That's why you're A MAN.
That's why she's attracted to THE MAN. This is the privilege you get
in this culture for being A MAN- you get to actually STEER this
rollercoaster while she gets to RIDE it. But don't expect HER to
steer. Women are ATTRACTED to men who know how to take control in a
way that is FUN like a rollercoaster as opposed to dorks who act
like assholes.
 There's a ton of situations where you really have to know HOW to
steer, how to navigate your way through. Women want men who KNOW how
to steer, who already HAVE the license to drive, so to speak. If
THEY have to be the ones teaching you, they feel like you are NOT
the MAN, they feel a bit guilty too because of various social
forces, they feel less feminine also if they have to do all this.
And finally, they wonder if the reason they have to show you all
this is because you really don't know or if it's REALLY because you
are simply unprepared to risk rejection, which is not cool at all,
it's not the way of The Man.
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I wish somebody could have taught me all this stuff at one shot over
a weekend instead of having to learn it piece by piece, from various
different guys and from tons of my own mistakes and experiences over
YEARS. During those years, it was often like walking blindfolded
into the lion's cage, where I got ripped apart. If you want to avoid
the feeling of being punched in from all sides at once, and if you
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Till next time,
Michael W.
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