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The Dating Wizard Website Let me tell you a
reality: These days, it’s easier than ever to get lots of sex if you
understand the principles I discuss. It’s also harder than ever to
find meaningful relationships. For just about everyone, guy or girl,
in the end, what they really want is to meet someone awesome for a
great relationship. Doesn’t matter if it’s a rockstar, doesn’t matter
if it’s the greatest pick up artist in the world.
The reason for this, as I’ve known for a long time, is because
otherwise sex is a rather transient experience. It’s great at the
moment, and when it’s over, it’s over.
But the problem is that people think they can have a great
relationship while engaging in a lifestyle that is poison for
relationships.
On this note, right here in Toronto where I am writing this, Madonna,
the queen of sex and commercialism, was here for a concert tour and
made sure to visit a local chapter of something called The Kaballah
Center. In case you are not aware, Madonna has been a keen new
advocate of this thing. Now I’m not going to get into a whole
discussion of religion, but to make a long story short, it has to do
with mysticism. Now why the heck does the material girl, the sex girl,
etc, give a damn about mysticism?
Why does Britney Spears wear a red mystical string around her wrist?
I’ll tell you why, and I’ll also explain why MOST women are SO much
more interested in supernatural stuff than men are, whether it’s
horoscopes or mind reading:
IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE SEARCHING FOR MEANING IN THEIR LIVES.
The reality is that as human beings, the quality of our lives is
massively influenced by the quality of our relationships. However,
this is a big NO NO to admit in our society. It’s not “cool”. What’s
COOL is sex, sex, and more sex. Which makes sense, because more and
more is necessary since it is so transient and temporary. Like the
effect of drugs.
It’s actually almost
considered BAD today among girls to be into a serious relationship.
It’s almost like “heheh, let’s all be sluts and get drunk”. An
excellent book on this, written by a college co-ed, a girl 23 years
old at the time she wrote it, is “A Return to Modesty”, by Wendy
Shalit. The reality is that for a long time, women were the
gatekeepers of any morality. Men had to appeal to the morals that
women demanded from them. But ever since men encouraged women to throw
away the key and the role, and encouraged women to blow up the gates,
things have been pretty screwy.
Screwy not only for men, but for women, in fact more so for women, as
you will see below.
All the folks who are MOST into superficial things are usually the
ones who fall HARDEST for cults, for new religions, for drugs, for new
spins on old religions, i.e. for ANY type of context that they HOPE
can provide LASTING MEANING or escape from the feeling of emptiness.
Whether it’s Madonna or Britney or pick up artists who are obsessed
only with sex.
When all they really
needed to do was just get a hold on their relationship in the first
place. Meaning that maybe drinking and clubbing and juggling 5 or 6
guys at once doesn’t all add up to what it seems. Of course, the same
is true for guys as well. I still believe based on years of
observation and interviews that more guys are truly ready for serious
faithful relationships than women are.
As I said before, we
are living in a very ANTI-relationship culture, and we are
experiencing the disastrous consequences in spades. What all this
means is that if you are savvy enough to understand the power of a
great relationship, then you have to be savvy enough to KNOW how to
SCREEN the wrong women OUT of your life and the RIGHT candidates into
your life.
Recently I received an excellent letter, which I will print some of
the highlights from:
“…Sun Zu, the Chinese warrior and general once said, "if you want to
conquer a country, first corrupt their women”.
I agree with this absolutely- in general, men initiate contact with
women, so women’s morals and standards will affect how men strive to
behave in general and with women. Low priority on long term issues
such as marriage, loyalty, and children, will in turn affect the men,
as well as the children, eventually creating a society of weak
marriages, broken families, maladjusted children who grow up into
maladjusted adults, less marriages and less children. This may cause
the country to have too low a natural birth rate and too few skilled
natural citizens.
More from this letter:
“As far as women acting like men, it is apparent that feminism
encourages this. There is a primal capability, from our tribal past,
that allows a woman to take on male capabilities, when her man died or
deserted the family group. It allowed for the survival of the
children. It however had a negative effect in that the women were less
likely to mate again and that healthwise some of the male
characteristics hasten her demise. It was nature’s way of eliminating
those creatures who did not improve or continue the natural process or
creation.
This is played out in society today. Women today in traditional male
career paths suffer heart disease and cancer at much higher rates then
housewives. Ironically, men in these positions actually are healthier
and thrive in these situation than men who are house husbands. Nature
doesn't like it when humans f*** with the normal order of things.
Occasionally, you may have heard a woman say something like "Men are
afraid of a strong women"..or something like that. I always respond,
"men love strong, moral women with strong character" It is the type of
women, men want for their girlfriends and wives. .."Men, however, are
repulsed by masculine women..." There is usually a gasp and a long
silence after that
statement..
As far as drugs and women are concerned, women are the true
prescription junkies of the world..from the time they are teenagers on
birth control..(you don't think effecting the natural hormone balance
doesn't change the way they think and act?) to booze to finally,
Prozac, Valium and other anti-psychotics..Women are more medicated as
a group than you would believe...since feminism started in the 70's
the number of women who are in therapy has sky-rocketed 3X.
Along with the fact that fewer men are marrying women these days..is
the statistic that since 1990, the number of married women in the
18-35 year age group of marriageable women is down 50%. Men have
finally gotten smart and realized that marrying the western woman is
not worth it…both financially and emotionally.
Sex is promoted everywhere today..but underlying that is the promotion
that you must possess women and sex or you are nothing..Humans, as
part of their natural reproductive mechanism..react to sexual stimuli
in the environment. No sexual stimuli, no horniness.
An abundance of sexual stimuli not only makes men sexually responsive,
it sensitizes them to any sexual stimuli. This is nature’s mechanism
to signal the male that it is time to procreate. This actually
stimulates the natural sexual response mechanism and therefore makes
it sensitive to sexual stimulation via pictures/movies and other means
of marketing sex for sex sake or for selling cars or any other
product.
Men in our society are therefore over-stimulated when it comes to sex.
This I believe is the one of the reasons men are so desperate for sex.
The marketing challenges men to get sex or be incomplete. The sex
marketing stimulation sensitizes men to make their arousal levels rise
and the only way you can relieve this discomfort is to buy the things
that will bring you women and relief from the sexual arousal...kind of
simple but brilliant.
Men need to stop being POPs. (Prisoners of P**sy)and realize that
their need for sex is being manipulated by other sources..That we as
men desire sex, but don't desperately need it and won't compromise our
character to get it.”
MY OVERALL FEELINGS ABOUT THIS LETTER:
I think it takes great courage for guys to write in the truth like
this. This letter is not about blame - it’s about being CRITICAL of
what is happening around us. It’s not about blame. It’s about being
AWARE of what is going on.
So, what is the solution?
The best thing to do is to be VERY careful about who you let IN to
your world. This is one of the reasons I believe it is SO important to
learn THE SKILLS of how to meet and attract tons of women so that you
will never feel the desperation that makes many guys get involved with
the wrong woman or women. It’s the SKILLS that count, not the number
of women you sleep with.
So for today, let me talk about one area that will make you even
better with women so that you will not feel that desperation ever. Not
only that, but don’t you want the woman of your dreams- a woman with
all the right qualities both physical and personality wise, to feel
attraction for you?
Well then, improve the way you DRESS.
This is a HUGE topic.
Still, let’s touch on it here:
It’s incredible, women spend HOURS getting themselves together to look
their BEST before going out, and then a guy goes out looking like a
slob thinking nothing of it. Hey, I’m all for confidence but I’m not
for STUPIDITY, or IGNORANCE.
Do you think women are BORN looking hot? Listen to me, most of the
women you see out at a club or wherever looking really smoking are
actually NOT as naturally hot as you think. They have put HUGE effort
into their choice of clothing, their hairstyle, their perfume, their
shoes, even every last damn accessory from bracelet to belt to the
highlights in her hair. Never mind the waxing, the demeanor with which
they walk, etc etc.
It all adds up to one powerful PUNCH called ATTRACTION.
And I haven’t even MENTIONED stuff like working out and diet that many
women do as well.
And guess what?
All this stuff is CONTROLLABLE. It’s not genetic.
Your clothes, your style, your exercise, your diet are all up to YOU.
Now don’t get me wrong- if you don’t behave as THE MAN, all you will
be doing is speeding up the process of a woman finding out you are not
cool since she will be MORE interested in you initially, and more
eager to find out if you are THE MAN or not. So she might even
approach YOU first, because you seem so cool, but then find out you
are NOT the MAN and poof – it’s goodbye.
However, no matter if you
are looking just for fun, or have in mind the possibility of meeting a
great woman for a long term potential, looking your best only makes SENSE.
In my opinion, the way to look the COOLEST is to find clothing that does
several things:
It highlights your best features and is a COMBINATION of being both
ORIGINAL and FAMILIAR.
So for example, it would NOT be cool to wear something so insanely far out
that there is ZERO point of reference for it. Then it would just be
BIZARRE and not cool. Think of when a new cool movie comes out, it’s
always a blend of something new and something familiar. Like “The Sixth
Sense” is a combo of a horror story, yet it’s also a love story, and also
supernatural story. Star Wars, when it came out, was a combo of a western
and space fantasy. The specific COMBO is original.
Similarly, wearing something that is ALREADY COOL, but yet somehow
different, is ULTRA cool. So for example, let’s say you saw a pair of
trendy jeans but then saw a different pair that looked similar but had
these insane marks all over them. Get it? Or how about dressing in a way
that BREAKS the “rules” of style in a way that it’s clear it was
INTENTIONAL?
 The thing to remember is to be original. If everyone is wearing those
“intentionally” crumpled shirts, then you better not be doing that too.
Ultimately, the message you are sending out with your style of dress,
haircut, etc, must be CONGRUENT with everything else you are doing as THE
MAN.
And if you haven't yet downloaded my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets
to Success with Women, then do that immediately. This book lays the
roadmap that you need for taking things all the way from how to meet
women to getting physical and relationships. This book is where it all
begins, your foundation to your incredible future with women.
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Till next time,
Michael W.
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