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28
Aug

Free Communication Weekend Starts Now!

Today until September 1, all Labor Day Weekend, join Eharmony.com and communicate with your matches for free when you send Eh Mail.

Join, be shown your matches and communicate without paying a membership fee.
This is a great weekend to kick-start your online dating adventure and I have a few Eharmony tips for you to really get you started.

1. Post a lot of pictures, head shots, full body shots and with you out and about in your real world life.
2. Answer a lot of questions, this is how possible matches will get to know you better before they message you.
3. Send a lot of messages. Because once the conversation starts you never know where it will lead to!

If you’ve tried Eharmony before without success you’ll want to read my post “The Top Reasons Why Eharmony Hates You”.

Sign-up right now!

Have a great long weekend!
Robert Lee



27
Aug

Eharmony Turns 14!

The year was 2000 when Eharmony.com burst onto the dating scene with huge fanfare.

Think of it, an online dating service based on christian values, that wasn’t a “bible club” or some such niche service. Dr. Neil Warren really stirred up the online dating world.

No adult ads or pictures, Eharmony meant to bring single people together (you still can’t join if you’re married) towards one true purpose: marriage.

By and large they have accomplished amazing things and made thousands upon thousand happier doing so.

If you have yet to try Eharmony now is the right time to get started.



26
Aug

New Romance Tour Dates Announced

Netbrides has announced new romance tour dates for the fall. Just visit the website and click on “Tours”.

What is a romance tour?

It’s a travel tour that takes you to meet beautiful women that you have the opportunity to correspond with before you travel. Introductions are made in a no-pressure social setting, unless you’re coming to meet someone special you’ve already been corresponding with.

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Tours are professionally guided, you’re not left on your own!

Tours accompanied by two American tour directors
English-speaking, experienced foreign staff
24-hour hospitality and guidance from staff
Courtesy interpreters daily (9a.m.-9p.m. in hotel)
4-star accommodations with single occupancy and private bath
The most tours offered in the industry – hundreds!
We accommodate you! After-Hours Tour Info Line
Ongoing introductions to hundreds of beautiful women!

Find out more.

26
Aug

3 Don’ts For Your Online Dating Profile

It’s easy to get caught up in putting your best face forward and possibly stretching the truth a bit, or making yourself seem more glamorous than you are, when you’re completing your dating profile but there are certain things you shouldn’t do that will otherwise cause a real problem when you finally meet someone that could be “The One”.

DON’T: Shave pounds or add inches. It’s sure to be a turn-off with your first face-to-face meeting.

DON’T: Over-estimate your income level or education. When you’re found out this will only lead to more questions about your honesty.

DON’T: Blame your exes for past relationship failures. It’s better to say that you both decided to go your separate ways and leave it at that. No one wants to date a whiner.

Honesty will showcase your integrity and your suitableness to be someone’s “The One”.

Now go, edit your profile and feel better about finding that special someone.

26
Aug

Fling.com: New Dating Service Review

Posted today is a new review of Fling.com.

You’ll find casual and adult dating with millions of members and thousands in your area.

This is a fast growing dating service that works great on your desktop and mobile devices bringing members that you want to meet just a click away.

Read the full review here.

25
Aug

Keeping It All Together: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How many people have you met online that turned out to be completely off their rocker?

I mean, it’s easy to be casual and laid-back while exchanging messages but when that face-to-face meting happens are you totally freaked out by the reality of the person?

Yes, it does happen. Yes, there is a way to avoid it from happening too.

Trust your instincts and don’t get talked too agreeably with. If the person is ideal for you, you’ll know it. If they make demands of you, they’re not after a romance with you but only your possessions.

Stand up for yourself and you’ll do well in your online dating adventure.

Try this for your profile and see how dating gets better:
“Question: What is the second thing you’d like to do with me?”

Have a great day!

24
Aug

The Top Reason Eharmony Hates You

You’d think that the top reason eharmony hates you is money: you didn’t buy a membership.
But that’s not it.

Or maybe because you haven’t answered their thousands of questions but that isn’t it either.

Eharmony hates you because you don’t log in regularly. You’re not active enough to put their compatibility match system through its paces and you’re not seeing any of the new matches that are being made for you.

You should be logging in every other day or at least once a week to see new profiles and maybe even message new people.

All of eharmony’s technology goes to waste if you’re not using it.

So grab the bull by the horns, pour yourself a glass of wine and log in right now.

Of course, if you’re not a member you should get started now.

22
Aug

Friday’s Conversation Topics

The weekend is upon us and you’ll be doing your thing, hanging out, partying, whatever.

And you’ll need some things to talk about so this is your conversation cheat sheet.

Man fakes own death to get out of marriage
So, you meet a guy and he’s mister wonderful. You meet his mother and things are great between you. You’ve fallen head over heels and when he proposes you happily say yes. Then, unknown to you, he has second thoughts and plans a way out of the impending nuptials that shocks even this writer: he fakes his own death.

Photographer takes pictures of women having orgasms
A hell of a job, travel, women, sex…. this article features NSFW photos of women turning themselves on to the point of climax, complete with their “OW” face.

Did your pizza arrive OK?
What would you do if you ordered pizza and it was delivered half eaten? I know that I’d freak out, call the newspapers and maybe see a lawyer!

New ‘Walking Dead’ trailer is out
Prepared to be scared in 10 seconds!

20
Aug

Summer Fling: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

August brings the end of summer nearer and these are the final days for you to make your move and still have that summer fling.

How’s your approach?

Are you working the room or staying in the shadows?

Summer flings don’t happen if you’re not showing how interested you are, so step up your game and make that move before Labor Day has come and gone and all you can do is dream about what might have been.

For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“There’s still time to make this a summer to remember!”

Have a great day!

19
Aug

First Date Jitters: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

We all have them, unless you’re so confident in yourself that it’s a complete turn-off.

So how do you handle first date jitters?

On of the worse things you can do is have a “pre-date drink”. Alcohol may relax you but with the added stress of the first date and all the possibilities you may be more nervously making mistakes that wouldn’t otherwise happen.

The real key is to have the date in familiar territory, but not so familiar that you’re likely to run into an ex or some friends that may intrude.

No one wants that to happen and your date may judge you based on your friends and the first date isn’t when that should happen.

So scout around, find a nice place and do your best to enjoy meeting face-to-face with that person that may become someone special.

For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“I’m very nervous on first dates so can when we meet it’ll be our second, ok?”

Have a great day!

18
Aug

Mondays: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Is there a tougher day to get things done than a Monday?

I mean, even with 3 or 4 cups of coffee my ass drags through the morning and falls back into the afternoon.

You can turn it around by doing one simple thing:
Log in to your current dating service and send a flirt or a smile to someone.

The hope of future love will help you to be inspired to actually put through some effort and get past the Monday Blues.

And while you’re at it, change your profile headline to this:
“Yesterday was a tough day but today is looking great! Ask me about it.”

Have a great day!

31
Jul

Who Would Love You? Dating Profile Headline of the Day

If your dating adventure seems to be circling the bowl, it’s only normal to question yourself of your “love potential”.

Don’t do that!

Once you start to doubt yourself desperation takes over, your self-worth suffers and who knows what other ways this will effect your life and future.

Instead get out there and mingle. I’m not saying go to a bar but instead find some local weekend events to spend an hour or two being entertained and adventurous.

You never know who might smile back at you!

For your dating profile headline today give this a try:
“One smile, one date, the end of your search for love.”

Have a great day!

30
Jul

Surprise! Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How do you make someone fall in love with you?

Is it body language?

Is it the words you use?

Is it fate?

Your personal style will affect how people perceive you to be. Are you outgoing and personable or quiet and submissive?

Are you looking for the opposite that is attracted to you or the person with similar interests and goals to make your life complete?

define your search and you will find that special someone!

For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Among all the starts in the sky there is but one that shines the brightest for you.”

Have a great day!

29
Jul

OkCupid Has Been Lying To You!

As revealed yesterday in a blog post, OkCupid has revealed that they have experimented on their members by manipulating how compatible matches were, and removing profile pictures to see of that had an impact on responses to ads, among other things.

We trust online dating services to do their best to find us a match in life and love. By “experimenting” with how the profiles are that completed by members are displayed to other members and by taking liberties with how we are told their matching system works, the success or failure of the individual member becomes secondary to the data that OkCupid generates about their members.

Certainly, as long as online dating remains two-dimensional, there is only the possibility of meeting someone you will like. But by manipulating compatibility results OkCupid has crossed the line for being a trustworthy dating service, regardless of how much or little we know about how they generate compatible matches between members.

This quote taken from the blog post is deceiving:
“… if you use the Internet, you’re the subject of hundreds of experiments at any given time, on every site. That’s how websites work.”

Websites may re-align their content, write headlines to garner more attention, but at the center of the written word is supposed to be the truth about the subject at hand. By overstepping that boundary OkCupid has certainly disrespected their 30 million members.

16
Jun

Ten women to every man

Guys, if ever there was a reason to eat healthy and save your money for a nice place to retire, this is it.

Drunken parties and black market viagra aside, I think this is where us men want to be when we get older. All the ladies competing for your attention and gold carts to get around.

So yes, stay healthy, save your money so you can afford to retire here and really, truly, enjoy your golden years (you only need to be 55!!)

The Villages in Florida here I come!