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17
Sep

Be True To Yourself: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How many times have you met someone and not liked them because of how they acted and talked?

And how many times have you liked someone but after a while they turned into someone else you didn’t like?

People will be people but the people who stay in our lives are easily understood, don’t mess with your head and are reliable in how they react to the events around them.

They are safe to be with and fun to be around.

Today try this personal ad headline to show that you’re not one of those people who can’t be trusted to be something you’re not:
“Always be yourself because life is too short to be anyone else.”

Have a great day!

16
Sep

Flirting With Men – How To Do It

Sometimes, the best opportunity to be better at attracting men is lying right under our noses.

Everyday, life is full of little chances that will help us become more of a “people person”, which of course leads to GREATER irresistibility!

Even the most mundane of situations present a way for you to become better at conversing with folks of all shapes and sizes (along with quality men!). Starting today, all you need to do is keep an eye out for chances to develop your conversational skills and self-confidence in general.

Understandably, women who haven’t developed the habit of getting there and mingling with other people won’t be used to kicking off a great conversation. In other words, the thought of chatting with strangers is unappealing to these girls or even downright SCARY.

All it really takes are the right ideas which will help enforce the habit of chatting up all sorts of folks. So for today, THIS is exactly what we’re going discover.

Of course, if you would like the shortcut to your seduction success, you can check out Meet Your Sweet’s “Get a Guy Guide”.

Now, I’d like to familiarize you with the most basic aspects of being a friendlier, more approachable version of yourself in order to make men (and other folks in general) naturally responsive to you.

This is where the importance of FLIRTING comes in.

You might think that flirting is about making raunchy innuendo. Perhaps your idea of being a good flirt has to do with lacing your conversation with sexual implications and the like.

Well, this is actually just a misconception that’s given the fine art of flirting a bad rap these days. The funny truth is that you can flirt with just about any stranger out there, whether he’s a guy OR a girl!

Before you get all confused with my last statement, let me clear up what flirting is all about. It’s the ability to elicit GOOD FEELINGS within a person, regardless of gender.

Basically, the point of flirting is a basic desire to spread feel-good vibes among the people that you meet WITHOUT wanting anything in return (like a date or romantic attention!).

Although your intentions for flirting are to simply have fun with everyone, the ironic twist is that you’ll also happen to attract guys in the process!

When you come across as a lady who has a natural tendency to make EVERYONE around her FEEL GREAT, then that’s what good flirting is all about!

If you’re able to associate your presence with positive emotions, it would make sense for people to want to be around you. With that said, how does a girl go about working on her flirtation skills?

#1: Pay them a compliment

Before you start handing out words of praise like they were going out of style tomorrow, you need to have a CLEAR idea of what this is all about.

Like what I said about sincerity earlier, you want to make people feel good about themselves with no ulterior motive. Anyone would be turned off by someone who was obviously just sucking up to him or her.

It’s easy to feel this way if the person got a whiff of phoniness from a compliment. For instance, people can tell if you’re firing off a flattering remark with NO THOUGHT at all.

Whereas EARNESTLY observing something important to the person and praising it accordingly will deeply resonate within him or her!

Although this seems like a doozy to pull off, it’s actually not as hard as it sounds. A smart girl like you just needs to put her powers of observation to good use!

As I mentioned at the start of this newsletter, all you have to do is look out for things “hidden” in plain sight. Greater AWARENESS is vital in situations like these, so keep your eyes peeled for things to compliment people on!

The next time you run into someone with whom you can talk to for a bit, try your hand at making him/her feel good with some well-placed words of praise.

Don’t feel like they have to like you because of it, what’s important is that you simply felt like saying something nice for the heck of it. No more, no less!

For instance, if that new guy sitting next to your cubicle at work has a cool screensaver from the movie “Avatar” on his monitor, make a brief but meaningful comment if the situation allows it.

Saying something like “Hey, that’s a sweet screensaver, I guess you like the movie even more than I did!”

This is a great way to establish some RAPPORT and VALIDATE his personal interests.

Pretty soon, you might be adding more fuel to the fire by saying: I love how the film gave the expression “walking in someone else’s shoes” a new meaning!

And who knows, it may serve as a starting point for a longer conversation! In this example, all you wanted to do was to take notice of something you HONESTLY liked and gave him props for it.

Sometimes, taking the initiative to pay a sincere compliment goes a long way!

#2: Keep it light, keep it fun!

Now that we’ve established that flirting is meant to make others feel good, you also need to know about another important guideline. You can’t generate those things within someone if you don’t feel good about yourself to begin with!

Anyone with an infectiously pleasant personality knows that having that a positive attitude begets the same vibe from the people around them. That’s why you need to be “in the zone” when you’re mingling with the folks you run into.

You have to remember that your level of energy must be just as high (if not higher) than the person you�re talking to. Otherwise, your flirting efforts will be a lost cause.

But that doesn’t mean you have to transform into a hyperactive version of yourself; you just have to go by a few important pointers to make sure that you’re always in top form!

For instance, thinking too much is one of the biggest positive attitude-killers that will keep you from being at your most flirtatious. Some women have a tendency to let the inner chatter in their heads DISTRACT them.

I’m sure anyone at some point in their social lives has made the mistake of trying TOO HARD to sound witty or clever. The end result of this habit is that you end up thinking of what to say next without bothering to LISTEN to the person in front of you.

Why pressure yourself and act like your life depended on it? It doesn’t work that way!

This line of thinking defeats the very purpose of flirting, which is to establish rapport by being playful, relaxed and fun-loving. Driving yourself mad with thoughts like “I hope this guy likes me” will only keep you from giving him your full attention (which is a very ATTRACTIVE thing to do!).

So do yourself a favor and just keep your ears peeled to the conversation. That’s the best way to keep the fun going!

Let me give you an example.
Pretend that the guy you’re talking to just told you about a great experience he had camping out with his buddies by the lake over the weekend.

Maybe he mentioned that he got a kick out of momentarily leaving his hectic city life behind and relaxing in the wilderness. Paying ATTENTION to a key point such as this would then allow you to share some of your own thoughts to complement his.

Then you can say something in a similar train of thought: “Wow, that sounds like a lot of fun! You know, sometimes I need a little peace and quiet myself when the week gets crazy so every now and then I do my own thing by chilling out at home, turn up my Zen music and curl up with a good book!”

Bingo!
Not only did you indirectly praise his interests, you’ve also created some excellent common ground between you two!

And you weren’t even trying to impress him by topping his story; all you really did was to take something he finds important and give it right back at him!

To recap: DON’t psych yourself out by thinking that a failed attempt at flirting is going to be the death of you!

Relax into the moment and keep a cool head about yourself. What should a sassy girl like you be afraid of anyway?

Flirting is a playful way of testing the waters with a guy. A lighthearted verbal exchange is meant to let you know if your personalities are going to mesh well.

If not, it’s certainly NOT any great loss on your part so there’s nothing to be freaked out about!

As far as the big picture is concerned, taking these little hiccups in stride by staying POSITIVE is actually an attractive trait to have. More importantly, the motivation for flirting is to simply share your joy for living with others!

And that’s a lot easier to do than wanting people to like you. Go for an impression that tells people, “I’m having FUN talking with you” instead of something off-putting like “Won’t you please like me?”

If you want to keep the things fun, DON’t let your mind wander into thoughts about the OUTCOME of your conversation.

What happens AFTER the conversation is irrelevant. The important thing is that you’re living IN THE MOMENT, totally focused on the person you’re chatting with.

Did he laugh at your jokes? Great! Did he give you the cold shoulder? Great!

See, it doesn’t matter because this doesn’t have any bearing on who you are as a woman. The great thing about these experiences is that you LEARN from your accomplishments (or mistakes) every time!

So the next time you head out of the house, don�t forget to ditch the negative self-talk and leave your unreasonably harsh inner critic at the door!

The general idea is to open up to the rest of humanity out there and welcome the chances that come your way.

The broad spectrum of your cheerful personality is going affect everyone around you: your family, friends, colleagues and of course, the potential Mr. Right’s waiting to meet you!

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This article comes to you courtesy of www.meetyoursweet.com

If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet and Get a Guy Guide.

If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.

No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real women!

16
Sep

Perfect Profile: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Writing the perfect profile for your dating service profile is a hard thing to master.

You need to be open enough that the person reading it understands you but not so open that they determine right away not to contact you.

Be sure to include events in your life that ask the question “What would you do” because questions that ask for advice often receive a lot of responses that lead to great conversations.

Reach into your reader’s heart to make that connection, to increase their curiosity about yourself so they absolutely need to contact you to find out more.

Try this headline with your profile and see the responses you receive increase:
“I appreciate the fact that you looked past my awkward photos.”

Have a great day!

15
Sep

Openness: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Are you open enough for honesty to be the bigger part of your relationships?

If you have ever hidden your emotions and feelings about your partner then you’re not ready to be open and honest with them and you have to wonder how honest you are with yourself too.

While you don’t need to be an open book you certainly need to not ever close the door on the person in your life that you care for deeply.

To help you find that person give this personal ad headline a try:
“Don’t ever be afraid to say what you feel.”

Have a great day!

14
Sep

Willie Nelson’s Card Trick

A great singer, performer and now magician, watch as Willie nelson tells a great story and mesmerizes you with this card trick.

14
Sep

Be The World: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Once upon a time the world was regarded as the center of the universe.

Galileo was even killed for disputing this universal fact of the time.

But know we know that the world travels around the sun and that our personal worlds revolve around that special someone, when we have them in our lives.

Having someone in the center of your life is a good thing, as long as it isn’t all-consuming (then you’re a stalker or worse!)

Today use a personal ad headline that says you’re ready for a positive center in your life:
“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.”

Have a great day!

13
Sep

Knowledge: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

We all have a vast experience and knowledge archive within us.

Our memories help to sustain us through difficult times and allows us to show empathy towards others.

Honesty and forthrightness should lead us to out full love potential and you should not be afraid to show a little vulnerability once in a while.

Today give this personal ad headline a try and see how many responses you get:
“I’ve learned to be kind but not weak.”

Have a great day!

12
Sep

Why Men Pull Away

Have you ever wondered how the male mind REALLY works?

Why some women get to experience true love and companionship, while others have to put up with men who lose interest?

Is it your body?
Do you talk funny?
Is he just afraid of women?

I’m not easily impressed, but this video is incredibly eye-opening and accurate.

If you’ve ever felt unappreciated, ignored, or shut out by a man, then you really need to watch this video right now.

This video teaches you some amazing things about how the male mind works, and how to be thought of as a desirable woman who truly ‘gets him’.

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12
Sep

Confidence and Conflict: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

As we travel down this road of life we search for rest stops of comfort and love.

Without comfort and love life becomes unbearably lonely and frustrating, so it’s fair to speak your mind as your search continues for The One.

Start your personal ad headline with a positive statement and find your soulmate attracted to you in just a few words:
“I want to be with someone who is actually afraid to lose me.”

Have a great day!

11
Sep

Funny People Doing Stupid Things

Now these are the type of videos I can really bite into, people will be people but stupid people will always fall down or worse.

Enjoy!

11
Sep

Going All In: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Sometimes you just have to give it your all to get what you want.

There is a prize and you are the player in this game of love.

You understand the odds and the disappointments that can happen and still you continue because the end result you seek is worth all the risk.

Finding true love and companionship is the prize and the start of a new life, the life you want.

For your personal ad headline try this to bring to your side someone special:
“Driving fast with no traffic to stop me.”

Have a great day!

11
Sep

3 Wants: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

If you can break down what you desire in a partner what would it be?

Great looking? Smart? Funny? Rich?

Different things matter to different people. For me I want to be understood and I want a partner that cares deeply about themselves as much as they do the one they’re with.

For you personal ad headline spell out three things that matter and you’ll have a great starting point for a mutually respectful and caring relationship.

Use this today as your personal ad headline:
“Be silly. Be honest. Be kind.”

Have a great day!

10
Sep

How Ditching The Rules Can Get You More Dates

Are you lost in a sea of information, grasping to find the real deal on how to attract a woman FOR KEEPS? Does it seem like there’s a new book coming out every week, leaving you deeper in confusion about which advice to take??

Worse, you have friends and colleagues giving you their own unique take on what works and what doesn’t work in a relationship. The World Wide Web is filled to the brim with all sorts of conflicting information, and it’s hard to make sense of it all.

If all of the things those authors have tried in their own lives have worked for each and every one of them, why do their books cancel each other out??

There can be only so many versions of the truth out there; it can drive an average guy NUTS.

Well, this is where your INNER VOICE comes into play. It’s really up to you to decide which piece of advice would work BEST with your unique circumstances.

And there are a lot of useful books out there that offer SENSIBLE, REAL-LIFE guidance on not only having an awesome love life, but a great lifestyle in general.

If you want such a guide to help you make sense of things, you should check out the definitive guide for guys.

You need to pick this up if you want to be at your best, most authentic self that the ladies will fall for.

Yet, there are a lot of so-called dating experts who are – honestly speaking, pouring POISON into the collective ear of the male population. I mean, there’s just a TON of B.S. floating around on the web as well as in print media.

The stuff I’m talking about here is RULES. Strict, rigid rules that will only curse you to singlehood ’til kingdom come.

I have to tell ya, a lot of my own friends have been badly burned from following a bunch of arbitrary ‘dating laws’.

What you might not know is that these rules only serve to make clueless guys even MORE narrow-minded than they were before.

I get where these rules are coming from though. With dating, so much can go wrong; believing that certain regulations within a clearly-defined system could somehow bring order to a chaotic environment.

And from a theoretical standpoint, following rules will safely keep you out of harms way (such as being rejected, getting dumped, etc.).

However, real life doesn’t work like that.

Personally, I’m more of a ‘go with the flow’ kinda guy. I like to size up a situation and respond to it accordingly without a bunch of rules dictating my every move like I was some machine.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but you can’t put the world of relationships into neat little compartments as if it was a science experiment. Some people look at social dynamics in the same way as a computer program driven by inflexible rules (read: NOT true), and so they repeatedly run into DISASTER.

The thing is, a healthy, stable relationship (long-term or otherwise) isn’t brought about by religiously adhering to these ‘laws’ like your life depended on it.

Adaptability, creativity and RESPECT towards women will give a set of dumb rules an ass-whooping any day.

Most of these ‘unbreakable’ rules revolve around game-playing, manipulation and utter disregard for a woman’s sensibilities. Let’s take a look:

– The best way to bring a woman down a couple of notches is to take a few pot shots at her ego. The more beautiful she is, the more aggressive your disguised insults need to be.

– Before you get involved with someone new, you first need to give yourself an allowance of X number of years or months after breaking up with your previous girlfriend.

– After a date, wait X number of days before calling her back.

– You’ll need to approach a woman within X number of seconds of spotting her.

What a doozy huh? If I didn’t know better, I’d be following these rules like crazy before I ultimately run my love life to the ground.

The people who came up with these rules are probably projecting their own experiences. Therefore, its basically made to serve their OWN needs rather than every guy out there.

Everybody’s situation is different, so you can’t expect to use these rules as a one-size-fits-all kind of glove for the ENTIRE dating scene. These laws won’t work for every single guy in the known universe, so it’s really pointless to follow them to the letter.

It’s more important to have a PERSONALITY that’s suited to the dating world. The truth is that you can’t substitute your real self with these rules.

A personality defined by self-confidence and non-neediness will be your best guide to making the RIGHT DECISION.

Rules don’t really capture the spirit of healthy dating. They MIGHT work for you this one time, but it doesn’t follow that your precious rules will get you consistent results!

On the flip side, I can honestly appreciate the IDEA behind these rules, which is to prevent you from getting burned. Yet, narrowing general guidelines down to extremely specific tenets simply won’t work for all situations.

For instance, pinning down the exact number of days before calling ANY woman you date is just plain silly. I mean yeah, you don’t want to look super EAGER or NEEDY, but don’t you think the level of attraction will VARY from girl to girl?

Maybe a certain date of yours seemed really interested to see you again, while another woman wasn’t all that receptive to your advances. That simply means you can’t expect to apply one rule to two different people.

Since I’m feeling like a nice guy today, I’ll give you some quick pointers on the ideas BASED on the rules we talked about:

– Don’t act like a woman’s approval is your sole reason for living. Seeking validation from someone other than yourself is NOT attractive.

– If she catches on that you’re so DESPERATE to be in a relationship, you might end up driving her away.

– Don’t make a big deal out of approaching a woman. You’ll be severely wrecking your chances if you hover around her, acting all jumpy and jittery.

Nonetheless, save the algorithms for other things, like rocket science. You can’t possibly reduce social dynamics down to a mathematical equation.

No computer can intelligently decipher the complex patterns of human behavior ‘ your BRAIN is the only tool that can do that.

Sure, rules may help you out when you’re new to the dating scene, but in the long run you’ll need to cut the umbilical cord and come into your own. Eventually, you’ll have to be someone that has a good amount of common sense and good judgment and won’t need a bunch of rules to tell him what to do.

Furthermore, these rules pale in comparison to simply being a man who oozes with HIGH VALUE’ instead of pretending to be one.

You can only get so far with pre-packaged templates for how to act around women. In fact, putting up an act will put you at risk of women seeing right through the smoke and mirrors (which is what the rules are all about).

Instead, you’re better off cultivating a genuine personality that’s consistent in word and deed. Saying one thing and doing another is NOT the way to relationship bliss.

Thus, you should be focusing on developing attraction by investing in the self-confidence that’s *already* lurking within you.

And in order to pull that off, drop by and check out this course.

I highly suggest you check this out BEFORE you fall into the trap of playing deceptive mind games with your woman. This is your best bet to becoming the ideal version of yourself that’ll leave the ladies swooning.

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This article comes to you courtesy of www.meetyoursweet.com

If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of seduction self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet’s ‘Make Her Crave You’ your first stop for gal-getting strategies that really deliver.

If you want quality women, and want more than just scripted lines and one night stands, if you want the confidence and winning attitude to take your skills and success to the next level, let Slade Shaw and the team challenge your beliefs about what women really want and how to be the guy that gets her attention, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.

No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real men!

10
Sep

Silence: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Silence may be golden but we want to hear from others… mostly.

There are always the types of people we’d rather not hear from, the ones whose mission in life is to raise themselves up by pushing others down.

We can all do without that type of person in our lives.

While your personal ad profile isn’t the best place to start with a demand sometimes it’s the right way to enter a new friendship, with all your cards on the table.

For your personal ad headline today use this to make yourself understood right from the start:
“Silence is better than bullshit.”

Have a great day!

9
Sep

A New Happening: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

We move forward from one event in our lives to another.

Big or small each happening decides the next steps of our lives and puts into focus the options we have.

I want you to consider what you’ll do next and what your options are before you move forward.

Life is better with a plan.

For your personal ad headline today post this to inspire someone special to reach out to you:
“Just because something isn’t happening for you now doesn’t mean it never will be.”

Have a great day!