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30
Sep

Real World: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Life is lived outside of our comfort zone.

New experiences and people add a distinct flavor to our lives that we cannot create when we are by ourselves.

Do your best to show that you enjoy adventure, if only a simple trip to the farmer’s market or a drive in the country.

Experience and share, that’s how you enjoy life.

For today give this headline a try:
“The man who lives in a cocoon has caterpillars for neighbors and eyebrows.”

Have a great day!

29
Sep

A Book’s Cover: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

We all know that beauty is more than skin deep.

The true value of a person is determined by their nature not appearance.

While we all may agree with this, and understand how what it means in the real world, very often we sidestep it so we can base our interest on someone based solely on their physical appearance.

It’s a good idea to remind ourselves, and others, that we are more than the sum of our parts.

Try this for your personal ad headline today:
“Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are.”

Have a great day!

28
Sep

Awesome: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

The magic of love inspires our entire lives.

That feeling of connectedness that only being with someone who holds you dearly in every thought and action can bring to you is entirely worth going after.

Today’s personal ad headline hopes to bring you to that person’s attention:
“The best feeling in the world is knowing that you actually mean something to someone.”

Have a great day!

27
Sep

Do Not Worry: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How many times have you woken up with worry and its followed you throughout the day?

Wasn’t that a great experience? I guess not.

Finding life’s balance means being able to pack up your worries, deal with things head on so you can cross them off your list.

Sharing this outlook on life may spark interest in you from someone who will soon be very special. So try this as your personal ad headline:
“Sometimes we just need to experience life without questioning everything.”

Have a great day!

26
Sep

Cannot Fail: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Invincible… oh how to feel that way again.

When you are young you have the world by the tail and all things are possible.

As we get older, and wiser, we understand that the world does not revolve around us and we struggle to find our way.

Older still and we become comfortable with our lot in life and seek comfort with those we love to make our life worth living.

But what if you had the power to do anything? How would you change your life?

For your personal ad headline why not ask your possible match in life this very thing? Try this headline today:
“What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?”

Have a great day!

25
Sep

Happiness Rule: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Life is full of ups and downs and it’s how we handle the downs that allow us to rise up and find happiness again.

When you know how to find happiness and share your joy you’re on the road to a positive influence with all those around you.

Do your best and do what it takes to keep your happiness in your heart and share it with those around you.

For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Happiness starts with one word. One joke. One text. One phone call. One song. One hug. One kiss. And stops with one mistake.”

Have a great day!

24
Sep

Better Than Yesterday: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

There’s a good rule of thumb to measure your personal success: Are you better today than yesterday.

When you can answer yes then you’re on the right path to letting someone truly and completely enter your life.

Show your positive side with this headline for your personal ad:
“I have no desire to play the game of being better than anyone else. I am simply trying to be better than the person I was yesterday.”

Have a great day!

23
Sep

Adoration: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Attraction is the key, we’ve been told, to finding the love of your life.

When you find that love you maintain it by adoring them, and forgiving the small things because you are capable of seeing the “big picture” of your relationship.

To get you started on this path try this as your personal ad headline today:
“Be with someone who won’t stay mad at you, who can’t stand not talking to you, and who’s afraid of losing you.”

Have a great day!

22
Sep

Good Things: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Good things come to those that wait, eventually.

Good things come quicker to those that make things happen.

If you’re on the sidelines hoping for love then you’re not holding up your part of the bargain in allowing love to find you.

You need to be actively seeking love for love to know you’re available.

For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Good things come to those who wait. Better things come to those who work for it.”

Have a great day!

21
Sep

Goodness and Compassion: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Showing off your best qualities isn’t hard to do.

Don’t argue with people, hear them when they speak, understand their point of view.

There’s obviously more to it but you get the point. Stick with showing compassion and empathy and you’ll always have friends and someone special in your life that treasures you more than anything else.

To get you started finding that special someone give this headline a try for your personal ad:
“What does compassion mean to you and how does it show up in your daily life?”

Have a great day!

20
Sep

Good Vibes: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Have you ever been around someone who was so happy they were infections with their good nature?

We all need that positive influence and vibe in our lives. Finding the person that can improve every moment of our lives is what dating is supposed to lead us to.

Today give this headline for your personal ad a try and I hope you’ll find that person that makes you really happy:
“The best feeling in the world is knowing that you actually mean something to someone.”

Have a great day!

19
Sep

You’re Doing Fine: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

As long as you keep moving forward you are showing the world and those around you positive signs of life.

That’s important for your self-esteem and your self-worth, possibly more than you understand.

I like to think that with every good thing we do karma is preparing to reward us with great things in our future.

For your personal ad headline today give this a try:
“Be happy because while everything is complicated, you’re still doing fine.”

Have a great day!

18
Sep

Living Life: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Life is full of risk and some times we need to let go of the familiar and dive in to experience the wonders that are around us.

We all fall into a slump and it’s even harder on us when our dating life turns stagnate. You can make a simple change and get back into the good parts of living when you can change your attitude and refocus your energies on the good things in your life and the positive things that are soon to happen.

With this in mind try this simple statement as your personal ad headline:
“Sometimes we just need to experience life without questioning everything.”

Have a great day!

17
Sep

Be True To Yourself: Dating Profile Headline of the Day

How many times have you met someone and not liked them because of how they acted and talked?

And how many times have you liked someone but after a while they turned into someone else you didn’t like?

People will be people but the people who stay in our lives are easily understood, don’t mess with your head and are reliable in how they react to the events around them.

They are safe to be with and fun to be around.

Today try this personal ad headline to show that you’re not one of those people who can’t be trusted to be something you’re not:
“Always be yourself because life is too short to be anyone else.”

Have a great day!

16
Sep

Flirting With Men – How To Do It

Sometimes, the best opportunity to be better at attracting men is lying right under our noses.

Everyday, life is full of little chances that will help us become more of a “people person”, which of course leads to GREATER irresistibility!

Even the most mundane of situations present a way for you to become better at conversing with folks of all shapes and sizes (along with quality men!). Starting today, all you need to do is keep an eye out for chances to develop your conversational skills and self-confidence in general.

Understandably, women who haven’t developed the habit of getting there and mingling with other people won’t be used to kicking off a great conversation. In other words, the thought of chatting with strangers is unappealing to these girls or even downright SCARY.

All it really takes are the right ideas which will help enforce the habit of chatting up all sorts of folks. So for today, THIS is exactly what we’re going discover.

Of course, if you would like the shortcut to your seduction success, you can check out Meet Your Sweet’s “Get a Guy Guide”.

Now, I’d like to familiarize you with the most basic aspects of being a friendlier, more approachable version of yourself in order to make men (and other folks in general) naturally responsive to you.

This is where the importance of FLIRTING comes in.

You might think that flirting is about making raunchy innuendo. Perhaps your idea of being a good flirt has to do with lacing your conversation with sexual implications and the like.

Well, this is actually just a misconception that’s given the fine art of flirting a bad rap these days. The funny truth is that you can flirt with just about any stranger out there, whether he’s a guy OR a girl!

Before you get all confused with my last statement, let me clear up what flirting is all about. It’s the ability to elicit GOOD FEELINGS within a person, regardless of gender.

Basically, the point of flirting is a basic desire to spread feel-good vibes among the people that you meet WITHOUT wanting anything in return (like a date or romantic attention!).

Although your intentions for flirting are to simply have fun with everyone, the ironic twist is that you’ll also happen to attract guys in the process!

When you come across as a lady who has a natural tendency to make EVERYONE around her FEEL GREAT, then that’s what good flirting is all about!

If you’re able to associate your presence with positive emotions, it would make sense for people to want to be around you. With that said, how does a girl go about working on her flirtation skills?

#1: Pay them a compliment

Before you start handing out words of praise like they were going out of style tomorrow, you need to have a CLEAR idea of what this is all about.

Like what I said about sincerity earlier, you want to make people feel good about themselves with no ulterior motive. Anyone would be turned off by someone who was obviously just sucking up to him or her.

It’s easy to feel this way if the person got a whiff of phoniness from a compliment. For instance, people can tell if you’re firing off a flattering remark with NO THOUGHT at all.

Whereas EARNESTLY observing something important to the person and praising it accordingly will deeply resonate within him or her!

Although this seems like a doozy to pull off, it’s actually not as hard as it sounds. A smart girl like you just needs to put her powers of observation to good use!

As I mentioned at the start of this newsletter, all you have to do is look out for things “hidden” in plain sight. Greater AWARENESS is vital in situations like these, so keep your eyes peeled for things to compliment people on!

The next time you run into someone with whom you can talk to for a bit, try your hand at making him/her feel good with some well-placed words of praise.

Don’t feel like they have to like you because of it, what’s important is that you simply felt like saying something nice for the heck of it. No more, no less!

For instance, if that new guy sitting next to your cubicle at work has a cool screensaver from the movie “Avatar” on his monitor, make a brief but meaningful comment if the situation allows it.

Saying something like “Hey, that’s a sweet screensaver, I guess you like the movie even more than I did!”

This is a great way to establish some RAPPORT and VALIDATE his personal interests.

Pretty soon, you might be adding more fuel to the fire by saying: I love how the film gave the expression “walking in someone else’s shoes” a new meaning!

And who knows, it may serve as a starting point for a longer conversation! In this example, all you wanted to do was to take notice of something you HONESTLY liked and gave him props for it.

Sometimes, taking the initiative to pay a sincere compliment goes a long way!

#2: Keep it light, keep it fun!

Now that we’ve established that flirting is meant to make others feel good, you also need to know about another important guideline. You can’t generate those things within someone if you don’t feel good about yourself to begin with!

Anyone with an infectiously pleasant personality knows that having that a positive attitude begets the same vibe from the people around them. That’s why you need to be “in the zone” when you’re mingling with the folks you run into.

You have to remember that your level of energy must be just as high (if not higher) than the person you�re talking to. Otherwise, your flirting efforts will be a lost cause.

But that doesn’t mean you have to transform into a hyperactive version of yourself; you just have to go by a few important pointers to make sure that you’re always in top form!

For instance, thinking too much is one of the biggest positive attitude-killers that will keep you from being at your most flirtatious. Some women have a tendency to let the inner chatter in their heads DISTRACT them.

I’m sure anyone at some point in their social lives has made the mistake of trying TOO HARD to sound witty or clever. The end result of this habit is that you end up thinking of what to say next without bothering to LISTEN to the person in front of you.

Why pressure yourself and act like your life depended on it? It doesn’t work that way!

This line of thinking defeats the very purpose of flirting, which is to establish rapport by being playful, relaxed and fun-loving. Driving yourself mad with thoughts like “I hope this guy likes me” will only keep you from giving him your full attention (which is a very ATTRACTIVE thing to do!).

So do yourself a favor and just keep your ears peeled to the conversation. That’s the best way to keep the fun going!

Let me give you an example.
Pretend that the guy you’re talking to just told you about a great experience he had camping out with his buddies by the lake over the weekend.

Maybe he mentioned that he got a kick out of momentarily leaving his hectic city life behind and relaxing in the wilderness. Paying ATTENTION to a key point such as this would then allow you to share some of your own thoughts to complement his.

Then you can say something in a similar train of thought: “Wow, that sounds like a lot of fun! You know, sometimes I need a little peace and quiet myself when the week gets crazy so every now and then I do my own thing by chilling out at home, turn up my Zen music and curl up with a good book!”

Bingo!
Not only did you indirectly praise his interests, you’ve also created some excellent common ground between you two!

And you weren’t even trying to impress him by topping his story; all you really did was to take something he finds important and give it right back at him!

To recap: DON’t psych yourself out by thinking that a failed attempt at flirting is going to be the death of you!

Relax into the moment and keep a cool head about yourself. What should a sassy girl like you be afraid of anyway?

Flirting is a playful way of testing the waters with a guy. A lighthearted verbal exchange is meant to let you know if your personalities are going to mesh well.

If not, it’s certainly NOT any great loss on your part so there’s nothing to be freaked out about!

As far as the big picture is concerned, taking these little hiccups in stride by staying POSITIVE is actually an attractive trait to have. More importantly, the motivation for flirting is to simply share your joy for living with others!

And that’s a lot easier to do than wanting people to like you. Go for an impression that tells people, “I’m having FUN talking with you” instead of something off-putting like “Won’t you please like me?”

If you want to keep the things fun, DON’t let your mind wander into thoughts about the OUTCOME of your conversation.

What happens AFTER the conversation is irrelevant. The important thing is that you’re living IN THE MOMENT, totally focused on the person you’re chatting with.

Did he laugh at your jokes? Great! Did he give you the cold shoulder? Great!

See, it doesn’t matter because this doesn’t have any bearing on who you are as a woman. The great thing about these experiences is that you LEARN from your accomplishments (or mistakes) every time!

So the next time you head out of the house, don�t forget to ditch the negative self-talk and leave your unreasonably harsh inner critic at the door!

The general idea is to open up to the rest of humanity out there and welcome the chances that come your way.

The broad spectrum of your cheerful personality is going affect everyone around you: your family, friends, colleagues and of course, the potential Mr. Right’s waiting to meet you!

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