Dating An Insecure Guy

I’m sure you’ve dated this type of guy:
All nice and pleasant, if not a little bit trying too hard to stay on your good side.
Always trying to please you and more often trying to keep in touch with you all the time.
He says he wants to be close to you but in reality he’s smothering you with too much attention.

The insecure guy will want to be sure that you like/love him all the time. He will call, text, IM you to death. He will hold your hand, too nervous to go any farther without explicit instruction from you. And he will profess his love for you in every sentence, every word and he will be visibly disappointed when you don’t respond the same way, with the same amount of vigor.

He will test you limits of love and durability.
He will argue with you because “He knows best” even though he stopped listening to you a long time ago.
You will be afraid to beark up with him and at the same time try to push him away, become less available to him and make him love you less.

You won’t be able to breakup just once with him, it will be a three- or four-time breakup to get him used to the idea that you aren’t the right woman for him.

The insecure guy will hound you to date him and he will try to get to you through his friends, not yours, because your friends understand how much you don’t really want to date him but his friends will try to make him happy.

If you’re in a relationship, or are about to be ina relationship with an insecure guy, you need to set him straight right from the start. Tell him what you will accept from him about his behavior and what you won’t. The insecure guy wants, above all else, to win your approval (he thinks that’s love) and will do what you say. He will eventually accuse you of trying to control him but it is him that will control you, blackmail you, and even abuse you verbally and physically, to try to make you love him.

There are many sides to an insecure guy, just like any other guy, but this type wants to be everything to you and will stop at almost nothing to prove that to you.

Be strong and keep any relationship with an insecure guy on your terms, not his.

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