Dating An Insecure Guy
I’m sure you’ve dated this type of guy:
All nice and pleasant, if not a little bit trying too hard to stay on your good side.
Always trying to please you and more often trying to keep in touch with you all the time.
He says he wants to be close to you but in reality he’s smothering you with too much attention.
The insecure guy will want to be sure that you like/love him all the time. He will call, text, IM you to death. He will hold your hand, too nervous to go any farther without explicit instruction from you. And he will profess his love for you in every sentence, every word and he will be visibly disappointed when you don’t respond the same way, with the same amount of vigor.
He will test you limits of love and durability.
He will argue with you because “He knows best” even though he stopped listening to you a long time ago.
You will be afraid to beark up with him and at the same time try to push him away, become less available to him and make him love you less.
You won’t be able to breakup just once with him, it will be a three- or four-time breakup to get him used to the idea that you aren’t the right woman for him.
The insecure guy will hound you to date him and he will try to get to you through his friends, not yours, because your friends understand how much you don’t really want to date him but his friends will try to make him happy.
If you’re in a relationship, or are about to be ina relationship with an insecure guy, you need to set him straight right from the start. Tell him what you will accept from him about his behavior and what you won’t. The insecure guy wants, above all else, to win your approval (he thinks that’s love) and will do what you say. He will eventually accuse you of trying to control him but it is him that will control you, blackmail you, and even abuse you verbally and physically, to try to make you love him.
There are many sides to an insecure guy, just like any other guy, but this type wants to be everything to you and will stop at almost nothing to prove that to you.
Be strong and keep any relationship with an insecure guy on your terms, not his.
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Monday
I like that! (Love advice from John Mayer)
Let’s get that love that John talks about, so that someone will say “I love you”. Post this for your dating profile headline:
“Let’s say together: I like that!”
Have a great day.
When “Give a little to get a little” no longer applies
All right former party girl, it’s time to start the next chapter of your life.
Is it the ticking clock or is it the tiredness from being alone? Whatever it is, the time for change is now.
A change of goals, a change for the people that are in your life, for someone special to become a part of your life.
Imagine your life as a boat at sea. The waves of life’s troubles come at you from all sides. You bob up and down, roll side to side, because of forces beyond your control.
You try to please so many people in your life that your own life has become second best.
If you see even a little about yourself in the above then it really is time for a change.
And change is here, now.
Start with a list of the people in your life and rank them in importance to you, one to five, with five being the most important to you.
Then total the numbers up and divide them by the number of people on your list. If you have an average higher than 3.5 you have a lot of people in your life that you care about and should understand what you need. If the average is less that 2.5 then you need to start making choices about what you will accept as demands on your life that are reasonable and what are twisting up you inside.
The life you have is the only one worth living and you need to create a relationship with yourself, and the people in your life, that is rewarding, not demanding.
Stop being one wave away from capsizing.
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Sunday
The REST day, so get some rest because I have a lot of work for you to do later.
At about 2:00pm in the afternoon I want you to post this as your profile headline so you can find a great match:
“When will I see you smile?”
Have a great Sunday!
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Do I call to confirm a date?
The Woman Asks….
Should I call a guy to confirm a date?
The rules for confirming a date are quite clear:
If the date is made more than three days in the future it is acceptable to call the day before the date to confirm.
So, if the guy made the date with you on Monday and the date is for Thursday you can call on Wednesday to confirm it. As well, if the date is made on Monday to get together on Friday or Saturday it is acceptable to call on Thursday but not on Friday. The reason here is that calling on a Friday to confirm your Saturday date, unless you call before the early evening, maybe thought of as ‘checking up on him’ and not just confirming the date. Guys can be suspicious that way. Girls too.
So yes, you can call to confirm a date with a guy, just not on a Friday or Saturday night for a date the next day unless the call is made before the early evening, before 5:00pm or so.
The conversation for confirming a date should be something like:
“Hi John, I am just calling to make sure of our date tomorrow night at (whatever time), at (whatever place)” or substituting the place for where and when he will pick you up. And that’s it. Do not drag the conversation out, that’s what the date is for, to spend time together and have enlightening conversation.
The same for laving him a voicemail if he doesn’t answer. The message should be similar too:
“Hi John, nice greeting (laugh), I want to be certain of the time of our date tomorrow. Call me back before (this time). Thanks, bye.” Short, to the pint and no room for making weird comments that might give him second thoughts about dating you or changing his plans.
Now you know.
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Saturday
This is one of my favorite days, if I’m not working.
This is a great day to snuggle up and watch a movie, surf the web, find someone special…
Yes, it is… and to get that love, let’s post a truly attractive headline and get that special person’s attention, OK?
So, for this day, update your profile headline to read:
“Is this love? It could be!”
Have a great day!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Friday…
Let’s find love on this day.
Love is a wonderful place, sharing and caring… and being cared for.
I want you to experience this. To get there, in love, you need to find a suitable partner. And what is better than finding them online? Attracting them with a great dating profile headline.
So, for “Friday, I’m in Love” let’s use this as our headline:
“Today is a great day for a wonderful journey, care to join me?”
Have a great day!
Dating Service Headline of the Day
Thursday…
Thursday is after Wednesday and if you’ve been reading along your plans are made for the weekend, or close to it.
If not then you need to “get ‘er done” and meet some people. I can only help you so much, you know.
The first place to start, naturally, is an online dating service. I can help you with that… start here if you like.
And when you have amembership use this as today’s profile headline, you’re sure to be noticed!
“The lonely days are done!’
Have a great day!
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