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Archive for October 2009

31
Oct

OH-MY-GOD Halloween Chocolate Cheesecake

Here’s a recipe for Halloween I’d like to share with you, it’s called the “Oh-My-God Halloween Chocolate Cheesecake” and it’s easy to make. Here’s how:

Crust:
2 tablespoons butter
1 1/2 cups chocolate graham cracker crumbs
about 2 tablespoons sugar

Filling:
3 packages cream cheese, room temperature
3 eggs
apprx 2 cups sugar
4 tablespoons cocoa powder unsweetened

Using a Springform pan, melt about 2 tablespoons of butter, add about 1 1/2 cups of chocolate graham cracker crumbs, and mix in 2 tablespoons sugar. Stir well with a fork and press into the bottom of the pan.

With an electric mixer, mix three packages cream cheese, with three eggs and about 2 cups of sugar. Add cocoa powder. Pour this into the pan, on top of the crust and bake at 350 for 50 to 60 minutes. Its pretty much done when a toothpick inserted in it comes out clean, but I like to leave it in about five to ten minutes
longer because the cheesecake takes on a wonderful fudge brownie-like consistency on the top layer. The center will be a bit wiggly but will firm up as it cools. Let it cool and remove the form from the pan.

Also, If you put a pan of water in the oven, on the bottom rack, while the cheesecake is baking, the cheesecake is much less likely to crack. :)

(You can add the Halloween flare by using some orange icing or sprinkling a few candy corns on top.)

Enjoy!

31
Oct

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31
Oct

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Scary man with chainsaw

Scary man with chainsaw

Saturday

Are you all nice and rested today?
Good, now listen….

I want you to think long and hard about the online dating profile you have posted.

I want you to think about the type of person that you want to meet, and how great it will feel when they do contact you after seeing your profile.

Now I want you to go and rewrite the description of the person you’d like to meet so that it better refelcts what you were just thinking.

And to go along with this edit I also want you to post this headline for today:
“You should see me in my XXX costume”, and replace XXX with the costume that you wore for Halloween, and be sure to post a picture in your profile photo section too.

Have a great day!
Boo!

30
Oct

How to pick up a guy

Girl In Library

Girl In Library

I was recently asked by a girl how she should pick up the “cutest guy” she’s ever seen, a guy that she thinks might be interested in her but to afraid to approach her.

She thinks that he’s interested in her because she sees him often in the library and he often “moves around” from library desk/cubicle to closer desks/cubicles. And she thinks that he’s just too nervous to actually approach her.

She’s right. Most guy’s suffer from “rejectionitis“, the death grip of fear of being rejected by a woman.

But she shouldn’t outright ask him out… it puts too much pressure on him, if he’s so scared of making the first move. And he’ll likely fumble around and just give up.

So I told her to do this:
Get two drinks from the pop machine. It doesn’t matter what they are but they should both be the same drink.

Go to him and give him one of the drinks. Say to him “You look thirsty, here you go.” And continue back to her desk/cubicle.

This gives the guy the “opening” to appproach her (to say thank you and more), as well as toning down his rejectionitis.

The drinks should be the same so that they “share a drink” even if they aren’t immediately together.

Isn’t this a great way to brerak the ice, get the guy’s attention, and help him get over the fear he has of being rejected, of not being worthy to ask her out?

You’re damn right it is!

And guy’s, feel free to use this method of breaking the ice too.

30
Oct

Friday’s Conversation Topics

This week we had all kinds of news, interesting stuff really, didn’t we?

- Michael Jackson’s “This Is It” movie opened everywhere and actually got some pretty good reviews.
CNN gave the movie a particularily good review here. Foxnews.com provided their review in a video clip here. While I most likely won’t b going to the theater to watch this movie, I will be buying the DVD, I’m sure.
- Did you read about the 71 year old man that is now the happy father of twins? You can read it here.
- I’m quite surprised that there hasn’t been a big outcry of broken computers and such after the release last week of Windows 7. Did Microsoft actually get something right this time around?
- Daylight Savings Time. The clocks fall back November 1, that’s right, this weekend. Will you remember or will you be very early to work on Monday? Read about the time change here.

30
Oct

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30
Oct

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Meet A Winner!

Meet A Winner!

Friday

Today is your day of opportunity.

No matter what you do today everything will work out just fine.

I am giving you the power to be great, to be greater than great… to be amazing!

Today there is nothing that can stop you. There is nothing that can distract you from your real goal.

You are a winner!

And as a winner this is the dating profile headline of the day that you will post:
“Contact me! Meet a winner!”

Have a great day!

29
Oct

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Thursday

When you take the step into online dating, or better, when you click into the singles world, you’ll find many obstacles in your way:
not truthful profiles;
old pictures in profiles;
deceiving talk;
odd behavior.

Many people approach online dating as a free-for-all match that has to be won at all costs.
Not so with us. We know the truth, and that truth is we want to sincerely meet someone that wants to share a future with someone special.

To define what you want out of online dating post this as your headline today:
“This is where our stories combine”.

Have a great day!


28
Oct

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28
Oct

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28
Oct

Hump Day’s Motivational Picture

My Halloween Special Lady

My Halloween Special Lady

This is the picture for your mid-week fun.
Scary right?
Right.

I chose this picture because I want you to have a Halloween goal, a destination of character, and makeup, to aim for.

Halloween isn’t just about ringing doorbells and getting bribed with candy to not crack open pumpkins on the person’s car, it’s about disguising yourself from evil and enjoying the freedom of anonymity, to a degree.

Dance, yell, meet a friendly vampire and talk a while with the bride of Frankenstein. The night is yours… just as this oddly dead/alive/zombie girl has her own night of the friendly and fancy dead and dancing friends.

28
Oct

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Pass Go

Pass Go

Wednesday

The day for mid-week fun.

Can I ask you a question?
Do you have any plans for tonight?

Seriously. Many people use today for chores that just couldn’t get done on the weekend and wouldn’t be thought about until thoughts of the next weekend starts.

So my question, amended, is: Do you have plans to do chores tonight?

If you have answered yes, please click here and get help; if you answered no, good for you, click here and advance past GO, collect new friends as your reward.

This leads us to today’s headline of the day, because I want you to be happy, and more than single… whatever that means.

Today post this: “I have passed GO. I am waiting for my reward”.

Have a great day!