Online Dating Tips
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First off, it takes a lot of guts to put yourself out there, online, to seek friends, dates and someone special. Putting your emotions, wants, desires, likes and dislikes onto an open profile is hard thing to do, even for the well-polished writers.
For most of us, it’s attempt after attempt and edit after edit to get our headline and profile just right.
Secondly, if your friends were so good at setting you up, why all the bad dates that have happened because of them? Maybe they just don’t know you that well, right?
So don’t worry about the criticisms that have been sent your way, you’re doing a good thing, a hard thing and with a little “internet luck” your dating fortunes will start looking better very soon!
Tip #1: Read your profile as someone that doesn’t know you would read it, this will help you write with clarity and direction.
Tip #2: Pictures should be of you, waist up or head and shoulders only, without anyone else in the picture and definitely not with you doing anything goofy, unless the goofiness is explained in your profile.
Tip#3: Don’t be afraid to write to someone first instead of waiting for them to see you first. This isn’t a high-school dance, right?
So, Ready! Set! Go! Get a date online!
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Friday’s Conversation Topics
This Friday wraps up some great news stories that will help you with entertaining conversations with those you meet this weekend, even if all you do is click around to ChatRoulette.com.
I have to start this week’s news with one that affects us all: free speech in games versus protecting kids from graphic violence and suggestive sexual, often violent, depictions. While I don’t agree that the government has to babysit what we choose to watch I do agree that the standard should be higher to protect youth from violence, even if it is in movies or video/computer games.
- Supreme court will rule on violence in video games accessible to minors. Yes, someone has to define what is acceptable.
- Sandra Bullock files for divorce. So sad for Jesse James. Does this mean he’ll go back to making porn? And who’s going to get the lion’s share of the money, along with custody rights to a baby that isn’t either of theirs?
- Man eats 1,500 lightbulbs. Starting at age 12, Wang Xianjun, 54, of Sichuan Province has been eating lightbulbs. Not whole, of course, but in pieces. Regular doctor checkups show no adverse affects. His secret is being carefully monitored by the “Revolutionary Sex For Women” people… the relation escapes me.
- Man fined €14,000 for ‘ass-bombing pool’ in Germany. Not quite you think an ass-bomb is the equivalent to a cannonball jump into a pool… but this still qualifies for an interesting conversation topic, don’t you think?
Have a great weekend!
Dating Profile Headline of the Day
Going to dinner
There is only one course of action, take on all competitors!
Do what most people don’t: read the ads of people just like you… but the same sex!
if you know all about the others that are looking for the same type of person you are, you’ll be able to adjust your profile, and headline, to stand out much better.
Then you will win the heart of that someone special. More power to you!
Right? yes, right!
So go and do that now, search for someone like you and see who your online dating competition is, then be better than them!
And as a par of your winning strategy I want you to post this as your personal ad headline today:
“We are going to dinner.”
Have a great day!
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Dating Profile Headline of the Day
I am an active participant!
Today is the day we must accelerate all initiatives in our program of finding love.
You have seen the images of singles looking for the same thing you are, acceptance on a deeper-than-friendship level.
You have visited their pages. You have read their profiles.
You did not send a message… because of what? A mistaken idea that you can “tell” everything about someone by the words they wrote about themselves in their profile? By a picture taken by a stranger? Because you cheaped out and didn’t spend that dollar-a-day membership fee?
Come on dude! (Or dudette)! We cannot move ourselves into a relationship by being frugal in this particular matter!
Go ahead, pay for that online dating membership, stop relying on “free” to find you love!
And when you do, when you have made that commitment, then you can feel a little more superior than all those other singles, waiting for love to find them rather than doing what you are doing, being an active participant in your quest for love!
To make a real impact with your new-found status, show the other members that you have what it takes by posting this as your headline:
“I have no trouble with commitment, hell, I paid for 30 days here, didn’t I?”
Have a great day!
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