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Archive for June 2010

10
Jun

Basic Rules Of Meeting Women h…

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9
Jun

Just Posted: When You Still Lo…

Just Posted: When You Still Love Your Ex http://learningtodate.com/2010/06/when-you-still-love-your-ex/

9
Jun

Today’s Horoscope for Gemini

You could be feeling a lot needier than usual today.

You may feel the need to care for others or to have them care for you – perhaps on a very private level. You have needs and you sense the needs of others: fitting the two together well makes it work. Scratch my back honey I’ll scratch yours is a good motto for today.

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9
Jun

Just Posted: 9 Ways To Stop Yo…

Just Posted: 9 Ways To Stop Your Ex From Hating You http://learningtodate.com/2010/06/9-ways-to-stop-your-ex-from-hating-you/

9
Jun

Just Posted: Dumb Games – an…

Just Posted: Dumb Games – and the Girls That Play Them http://learningtodate.com/2010/06/dumb-games-%e2%80%93-and-the-girls-that-play-them/

9
Jun

Hump Day’s Motivational Picture

Kitty smiles at you, what do you do?

Kitty smiles at you, what do you do?

Wednesday = Hump Day

There can be nothing better to bring a smile to your face than a cute, little kitty cat.

Except maybe just a picture of a kitty cat if you’re allergic… or don’t like real kitties… or they scare you. I think.

Sure, we all have friends that have been there, if it isn’t that we’ve been there ourselves.

In one form or another fear robs us of adventure. Today, despite your feelings for felines, consider this a “smile gift” from me to you.

Because it is.

Now smile!

9
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Who are you here to meet?

Who are you here to meet?

Wednesday

Have you read “The Road to Serfdom“? (Note a rebuttal here.)

The future is not yours but ours, although the only deciding factor is what I want.

While I do not believe in a pre-ordained destiny I certainly hope there is a better reason for my existence other than a horny Darwinian monkey and a central planner controlling my future for the sake of others.

There are other greater tasks at hand than needing to worry about our “Big Brother” and the impending alien invasion.

Such as getting a date for this Saturday night.

Now, I understand that many of you reading this particular blog post may not yet have a date planned for this coming Saturday, or have had a date this past Saturday, but I’m here to help you turn all that around.

First, by telling you (guiding you) to join any one (or all) of these fine online dating services (for which I will be richly rewarded):
- Match.comreview
- Lavalifereview
- Eharmony.comreview

Secondly, by offering to you a great profile headline that will get you the most attention, and greatest number of replies to your profile, as possible.

And today, I suggest this as your headline to be posted:
“So who are you really here to meet?”

Have a great day!

8
Jun

Sex on the first date?

Love at first sex?

Love at first sex?

I can hear all the guys saying “YES!”

Really, (now, remember, this is my opinion and you can feel free to disagree) but sex on the first date does not make a solid ground for a stable relationship.

Sex on the first date is entertaining entertainment. Plain and simple.

Women may believe that there can be a “special connection” that makes sex a forward move into a larger picture of a relationship… but it doesn’t. Not on the first date, certainly.

For some “couples” there may be a heavy price to this date climax, an unplanned pregnancy, that should have been protected against, big time. Never mind protections against STDs and other sex related dangers.

But you don’t need me to point that out, right?

Emotions can run high, for men and women, when intercourse becomes a very involved part of what could be a budding relationship. First date sex can raise the stress levels of attraction and rejection quickly.

Sex also raises the bar for the levels that are reached during the beginning stages of any relationship: will sex get better or worse? Will there be sex every date or is was the first date sex just a stepping stone to more sex later in the dating cycle, after a “dry” period?

To summarize, if you’re looking for a fling then go as fast and as far as you want, if you’re looking for a future then you’ll want to play the sex and dating game a little slower.

8
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

My friend, the super-hero

My friend, the super-hero

Tuesday

Don’t you wish for a super-hero as a best friend?

How great would it be to have Ironman watching your back?

Superman turning back the clock so you could redo those really bad moments?

Yes, the super-hero best friend, who wouldn’t want that?

And if you had that friend you could elevate the level of friends you have to a massive friend score of 90 out of 100 or so, right?

Right.

That leads us to today’s headline suggestion, because I like you…
“I’m not insane, my mother had me tested!”

Have a great day!

7
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

A walk in the park

A walk in the park

Monday

Now it all starts, the countdown to the summer vacation.

Schools are emptying out, and the longing to be in the open air increases exponentially.

This is a good thing because a great first date is a walk in a local park, or garden to take in the beautiful views and smells, and have a place without too much distraction so you can talk and learn a little about each other.

Trust me, this is a great first date idea in the summer time.

To get to this stage you, of course, need to find someone to go with you, that’s what makes it a “date”.

Online dating puts you in the right place to meet someone and with a great profile and interesting headline you will have the opportunity of a lifetime.

So, for today, I suggest that your profile headline is this:
“What would you say to a walk in the park some day soon?”

Have a great day!

6
Jun

Win $100.00 in our Stay-cation Summer Cash Contest

Win $100.00 in our Stay-cation Summer Cash Contest

Win $100.00 in our Stay-cation Summer Cash Contest

If you’re even a little like me, your vacation will be a “stay-cation”.

Yeah, I know, it sucks to be a little like me…

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How does that sound?

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6
Jun

Dating Profile Headline of the Day

Make time for what's important

Make time for what's important

Sunday

I love Sundays…. Filled with visiting family members and heaps of great dinner food…

If there’s one thing I like more than most about Sundays it would be a turkey dinner, complete with all the trimmings. And a turkey dinner isn’t all that much work, it’s just a lot of time, a very precious commodity.

Time is one thing that I always seem to run out of. Pulled this way and that by various chores to be done and work duties to be accomplished. Ugh.

But when we can manage our time we have more of it and can do the things that need to be done with some time left over for even more important things, like finding a date with an online dating service.

So, with the little time you have left today, spend a few minutes with your online dating profile.
Update it with the things you did today, bring your profile into your present live and show yourself as a real person, not an image of who you hope to be but the real person that you are.

While you’re accomplishing this, change your profile too, to my headline suggestion for you today:
“I have time for you, let’s get together!”

Have a great day!